I am trying to move out of the house that I live with my dad. I sent a message to him saying that I need to save as much as possible before I move out and if he could hold off on requesting payments. As I’m trying to move out this month he is asking me to pay $800 for the HOA bill. He’s doing this all last minute . I talked to my therapist and she said to just pay the 800 to get them off your back I did that and then he asked for another $140 for a phone bill. Mind you about two weeks ago I paid 700 off on my phone bill yesterday. I transferred my phone line off of his phone plan. My phone plan now cost $70. I told him that I need to see receipts for the phone bill and the HOA bill because I don’t even know if those are the exact prices. After I paid the 800 I told him that I plan to move out within two weeks. He then says that I have to pay another 800 on 1 November and he will prorate it every day that I stay after 1 November. I honestly don’t ever wanna see him again or talk to him. I actually want to get physical with this guy. He knows I have a high credit card debt and not that much money. Yet this is how he is acting. I’m not going to pay him anymore no matter how much he threatens me. I feel horrible for sending him 800. I do not feel like I did the right thing. I feel like he might be doing this because I did not go to rehab and decided to stop gambling on my own. But it is ironic to me because he’s asking for an insane amount of money and he want me to stop gambling. But this is literally an expressway to gambling again . I am trying not to and want to believe that everything is OK and I’m trying to find some reasoning and purpose and sending him that 800. But the fact that he’s still ungrateful for it and asking for money, just makes me want to spit on him.
#I Hate My Dad.
tidal violet
elder helm
Yeah it’s a good idea to get out of that toxic environment, in my opinion he could be using you because you’ll leave soon. My opinion tho
serene linden