I'm not new to death but lately it seems to be happening to often. I dont cry much but when i do i don't know how to healthily deal with it. My current situation is that my grandfathers health is rapidly declining and i cant seem to handle it. I recently witnessed him crying about it and it broke my heart. I love my grandfather and i cant stop getting to emotional about it.
#Any advice about overcoming death?
soft stag
robust ginkgo
Maybe the emotions makes you feel powerless? And that's why you want to overcome it?
soft stag
Yea i guesss it just hurts a bit to much I lost tons of important people in my life and am never mentally prepared to handle it. I am the youngest of my family and I cant shake the fact that everyone and everything is moving way to fast. i want to live as i am forever not deal with separation. I get really emotional just thinking about it but think each day is slipping away.
robust ginkgo
So it's overcoming the turbulence of loss, not death itself?
To me these aren't trivial semantics, I think cutting to the core is something that helps because articulating emotions is a means by which we process them
soft stag
Yea i guess it is about overcoming loss i feel like I have no one to talk to about it. I love my family but i seem to be losing a lot recently it has come to the point where its a little bit unbearable. Sometimes i wish to just see them for one more time to tell them how much I love them, But that slike impossible currently my grandfather has been diagnosed with kidney failure and it hurts to see him in so much pain. I want to tell him its going to be okay but its unbearable to see him like that. All i hear are old stories of how he was the toughest dad but now I cnat seem to see that. I visit him every day and i know the days coming but i dont feel ready.