#need advice...

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crisp canyon
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been going through a lot, and i just need someone to talk to..

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i dont even know whats wrong with me..sometimes i just start crying and dont really know why. I want new friends, i want friends period..Im having a birthday party soon, cool ig. But the people who are coming are strangers and for some reason i feel like my party will be ruined if they all get along and i dont

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i want them to get along, but i also know my anxiety wont let me talk

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how do i explain this..

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im scared ill feel uncomfortable in my own home

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im scared no one will like me

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or will enjoy the party

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what if they secretly start talking shit about me

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ive always been iffy about having people over

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or just having peope as friends period

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but this is different

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overall.. just need the answer

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should i even have this party?

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😕

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i cant stop crying

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i want a different life.

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a different body

wraith hemlock
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that, my friend, is what i'm currently experiencing as well. Have this party, and dont isolate urself, as I tried myself and it sucks. It first, it will appear nice, but as u move on, it will become real dark and annoying. U are a great person, dont forget that. Dont make those feelings insde u make u feel anxious, instead turn this pain into potential for better life. Dont let ur anxiety control you, and if u want this, here's the deal:
Go to people in school and sit with them during lunch, That's one of the ways you'll overcome. While you're at that, try to find their hobbies and mutual interestes between them. Ik ur feeling down, but dont let anxiety take the better of it. U got this : )

crisp canyon
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thanks..yeah i think ill throw the party, it could be fun.

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And i dont make friends at school because im virtual

wraith hemlock
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ahhhh.....then why dont u make thse friends online?

undone viper
# crisp canyon And i dont make friends at school because im virtual

often times friendships just make their own way through. If you ever get a project or something, try to find common ground for you and your group mates to stand on, it might help. At least thats how I got friends in the first place, but you dont have to chase friends. If you have any childhood friends, maybe invite them over?