first of all, just know that you dont deserve this at all. this is absolutely messed up on her behalf. i can understand the emotions and pain you're having dearly. you need to come to the realization that she wasnt good enough for you. almost a year of texting another guy on a secret discord account? yk how unloyal that is? she didnt do her part of being your girlfriend as much as you were doing your part as being her boyfriend, and it shows. i know this may not be of much help, but im trying to help you realize that you deserve better. at the end of the day, she wasnt the one for you and it absolutely shows. despite three years and she does this to you? firstly, go collect yourself. realize your worth. take as much time as you need off to just think. if you have parents or siblings you can talk to about it, please do. if you ever just want to vent more, then im here for you man. we can always talk in dms if it helps. unsure if this was much help overall though, but all i can say is, work on yourself. realize your worth. one day you'll find the love of your life and you wont even know it. take this as a stepping stone. you dont deserve this. you deserve better.
#broken trust and emotional cheating
deft arch
you're welcome man. knowing how you've felt about this at the end, i can tell you were doing your absolute best for her. she doesnt deserve it though after what shes done. she genuinely wasnt good to you. take time to heal bro. you need that. and remember, realize your worth please. i know it may not be useful rn since ur going thru it, but later on i hope it comes in handy.
if you ever need a shoulder to lean on though, i got two.
could always chat in dms about it if you ever need that.
more than willing to help ❤️