#I don't want to be friends with my classmates

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torpid magnet
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Lest talk about myself first, i'm a good person when I was in junior high school, i have a good grade, good friend, everything is perfect about school that time. Now I'm a high school teenager, and i found my friend is such a alcoholic and using cigarettes at 15-16 y/o, i don't want to be friend with them, but i have many school project with them, what should i do? I don't want to drink alcohol and using cigarette, i will never tired them, and they mocking me when i get to make a decision, i think a little bit confuse them when i make a decision, i don't want to hang out with them, but i used to because school project. And i only hearing a music or scrolling tiktok at break time on the school, or when the the teacher is not in class because something. What should i do? Or i'm just shock with this changes that I didn't expect?

hoary spruce
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the friends you choose to keep should hold similar values to you. thats why all the kids who smoke and drink are all friends together.

torpid magnet
hoary spruce
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if your bad at talking to people directly it you can still make friends. people want to talk about themselves and their own interests most of all and will lead the conversation naturally for you if you give them the opportunity to share with you. its a very good "foot in the door" for new friendships.