#Is it okey to break up with someone because she isn't attractive enough?

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steep belfry
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I met this person when I was lonely the proposal came from that side. I needed company so I didn't resist.

teal yarrow
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You should break up with them now before they grow stronger feelings for someone who clearly doesnt feel the same way. it'll be harder for you both if you don't stop now and you will hurt them more

old ice
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Yea

steep belfry
echo spade
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Have you ever been attracted to her? Not just physical aspects, but like attracted to her in an emotional basis. Do you guys push each other in the relationship.

steep belfry
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No she is really protective about her shortcomings. She doesn't like to push her to do things she isn't good at. She also never push me to anything but she always compliment me on my skills. This may be her way of encouragement. Yes I was attracted to her emotionally at the monent we were living together.

echo spade
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Honestly it's a really tough situation, and I don't know the correct answer to this since I dont have exact context to your situation. I would say that in any long term relationship people hit the phase where they get "bored" of the person they are with, and do things that they later regret after realizing. I'm not saying that this is that situation, but consider if you guys really "push" each other in any way to improve. Things like communication, trust building, emotional connection, career wise, like literally everything. Then consider if this is a "bored" phase for you, and maybe that needs to be communicated into seeking something new in the relationship. All in all it's kind of up to you to decide, but just make sure you feel as informed internally about your situation and communicate your decisions effectively with your current partner.

steep belfry