#i dont want to lose this friendship

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brisk badger
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so basically, there's an exchange student here from Germany to play basketball. He's very outgoing and funny and talkative, and there was an event last weekend that we got to know each other at - heck, I would consider him a friend after it. But lately he hasn't talked to me or anything and I kinda have to join conversations when my friends are already talking to him. The last time i was in a conversation with him he brought up that someone snitched on the fact that he was "talking too much about German things" like ||underage drinking (at least here in U.S., since age restriction is a lot lower in Germany)|| and partying and stuff. Then he stared dead at me for a solid five seconds. You could tell what he meant, and i think that's why he isnt talking to me anymore. I never even mentioned anything like that to anyone, i only told my parents that i'd talked to the german kid so I know it wasn't me. But it's stuck with me for the past two days and things have piled up surrounding it and i feel so guilty now, and i really really don't want to lose this friendship because he's a really cool person. I want to confront him and ask him about it, but he's never alone/he's always talking to someone. I don't have his number and i feel like asking for it at this point is WAYYY too awkward, but i also dont really know how else to ask him if he really thinks I'm the one who told on him.

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it sounds like such an elementary problem but like it's really big. Like it might affect how my other friends view me if he thinks badly about me, even though i never did anything.

brisk badger
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update: i’ve asked my friends and they said he doesn’t think it’s me, but im still not 100% sure bc idk why else he wouldn’t talk to me

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i’m too scared to ask him straight up and i don’t even have a good opportunity to

ornate flume
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does he have any socialsss you can try reaching him out there.

brisk badger
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i only have bereal and i haven’t found him on there lol

brisk badger
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soo its been a few days and he still won't talk to me

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and he's now talking (like yk, before relationship) with another girl already

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its only like two weeks into his school year