#should I go to the same university as her?

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weak pier
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To begin with I’m a 17 year old in the 12th grade who’s planning on going to university. I preferably would like to go to university abroad, outside my country. Not to mention I’m planning on taking several test to be accepted to at least one university abroad.

But just recently I met this girl, we have talked a lot, and i believe I have fallen in love with her. I really want to ask her out, bc there’s one thing that’s bothering me.

One day we talked about what university we wanted to go to.
She told me that she wanted to go to this one university in our country. When I asked her if she is interested on getting into university abroad, she said she would like to, but she felt scared of leaving her family behind, and was reluctant. Nonetheless she seems to be very determined on being accepted into this university in our country, and isn’t really keen on going to university abroad like I do.

She made me think of going into the same university as her. But I really want to go to university abroad. I’m not really keen on having a long distance relationship, it hurts.

So what should I do?

dreamy marten
# weak pier To begin with I’m a 17 year old in the 12th grade who’s planning on going to uni...

yes yess it is true, long distance relationships are really hard, and it takes a lot of work, dedication and true love to keep it together.

im still in high school and i dont even have any long-term plans for my future. but i believe that it really is best for you to try and get accepted into that university since it will really help you for the future.

im sorry if my advice is not that good, but i hope things really work out for you!!