I broke up with my boyfriend on early september, about september 3rd to 4th. Right after i became really depressed and immediately tried to find a rebound, i ended up finding this girl who i rlly liked and we kind of entered a long distance relationship on september 5th. She is really sweet, kind and attractive and she's so forgiving and understanding and i really dont want to leave her but i feel so doubtful and conflicted about if i really love her or not and the guilt is weighing bad on my consciousness, i dealt with most of the sadness from the breakup with my ex boyfriend ( which was also online. ) i dont think thats the reason for it but, i just dont know if i love her. I dont want to break up because she's so understanding and loving and she loves me so much, she REALLY loves me. She has some childhood trauma from sa and she's really lonely since she has almost no friends at all, i dont want to leave her i really dont, and i also dont want to break her heart and make her sad or make her cry. I just want to love her but im so confused about what i feel and the guilt is consuming my soul. I know our relationship is very new since we practically met like 3 weeks ago, but i really dont want to hurt or lose her. Please help me.
#I need help
young surge
astral sparrow
Hey bro
Goblin here
I understand what your going through and I will gladly help you
Something I would start with tho is communicate openly
You know she loves you and understands you so why would this be any different?
young surge
You know she loves you and understands you so why would this be any different?
I dont know, i really dont know what to feel right now and im so scared.
astral sparrow
Honesty is key and it can help strengthen your relationship
young surge
She does love me a LOT but, i dont know how i feel about her and the guilt is consuming me.
astral sparrow
if your feeling guilty about it then yeah
You do have feelings for her
You care about her
young surge
i do care about her, i dont wanna hurt her but. Is caring love?
astral sparrow
I mean I’d say so
young surge
I'll try to talk with her about how i feel when she gets home from school