i dont know honestly

[tiny fulcrum]

im in a relationship with my current girlfriend for about 6 months now, and i gotta say she has strict parents and whenever she would do something out of spite or risk it for us i just get this sense of gulit its really eating me up, i hate it so much and we are happy we got to see eachother for a couple of times and i dont know what to do honestly

i really do want to win their approval of me cause i want us to be guilt free and yk a legal couple.

as much as i want to communicate to her about it i just dont know

[rigid jacinth]

I think honesty is always the best policy that sounds like a good track of mind to have

[tiny fulcrum]

yeah i understand that but everytime i bring or at least try to bring it up

she just declines it

and it really makes me question my worth if i was really worth introducing to her parents

[polar hull]

There is no reason to feel guilty when its something that you both want

The parents are not going to change their behaviour and you know that

So you must just do what YOU guys want and not think about any outside noise

[tiny fulcrum]

i can live with that yea

[rigid jacinth]

Well sometimes relationships and parents are a hard thing to deal with you should always talk with your partner and be patient with them especially when you’re young

[polar hull]

If you do everything right there is no need to worry about anything

[rigid jacinth]

If you wanna have a good relationship with the whole family

[polar hull]

The parents will change their opinion but they need time from what it seems

[tiny fulcrum]

at this moment they know me as a friend to her shes slowly trying to introduce me to them

[rigid jacinth]

So tryn have some patients just don’t be discouraged things will progress naturally

[tiny fulcrum]

any advice on how to calm down a heavy heart

pretty much the guilt im carrying around

[rigid jacinth]

Support her and make sure she makes good decisions for both of you even if you don’t get to see her as much maybe just like talk on the phone more often or something or make plans to meet up with each other that your parents know about and stuff like that

Keep everyone included as much as possible

Be diligent but not pushy

[tiny fulcrum]

of course i try my best and support her and yk try to be that decision making that benefits us and yea we do try our best and make plans together and hopefully to execute them later on as days go by

my mom is really chill about us and supports us infact and i love her for that

[polar hull]

Try to do something really

Even just going for a walk has helped me tremendously

[tiny fulcrum]

like to get my mind of things?

[tiny fulcrum]

yea i find that going on a run is very calming

[polar hull]

Yeah do something you like

[polar hull]

Then you should do that definitely

And take your time slowly building the relationship brick by brick

Always remember that there are people out there who still haven't felt how it is to be in a relationship

[tiny fulcrum]

of course great things take time

i live by that quote

[tiny fulcrum]

very true. and i feel you dw

[polar hull]

And one other quote that helps me out

Life without pain would be boring

[polar hull]

One of those people is me

[tiny fulcrum]

thats actually nice yea i like that

without pain its not genuine ykwim?

[polar hull]

Exactly

[tiny fulcrum]

hey man, ive been in ur shoes before just yk hopefully try to chase the right partner

[polar hull]

Yeah so you should be happy about it and remember

Always remember

Everything is an experience that will help you grow as a person

Take everything as an experience

[tiny fulcrum]

everything is a building block for you to build a new you.

[polar hull]

Even when i have had some weird stuff happening to me, i have said to myself, well a new experience gained

[polar hull]

Exactly I am happy you understand

And happy for what you have achieved

[tiny fulcrum]

you too im proud of you bro!!

[polar hull]

Life is full of challenges and there will be sometimes that you will feel like you are at rock bottom, but you have to fight through

[polar hull]

Thanks

Take care kaze whatever you do

Hopefully the sun shines for everyone in need

[tiny fulcrum]

you too brother