I'm 14, and well it feels like I "chase love" too much trying to find someone usually online or just random crushes on people I basically dk. It's mostly unserious in the end after "intensive flirting". Adding how hard gay teen romance is realistically should I just save the hassle and try again when I'm older?
#Should I give up on finding someone?
unkempt reef
dreamy geyser
I'm 14, and well it feels like I "chase love" too much trying to find someone us...
that's a hard thing to have to deal with, i know the feeling. The best advice i can give is to never force something, like anything in life, rushing it will end up creating misunderstandings, sadness, anger and much worse.
If you feel like you don't want to deal with the bad i'd say keep a healthy distance but don't close yourself off. And if you don't mind the bad and want to continue trying to potentially create a connection with another, i would suggest not losing hope and being patient, while not undermining your own mental state.
unkempt reef
that's a hard thing to have to deal with, i know the feeling. The best advice i ...
yeah I know I shouldn't rush into things, it's a weird want for a someone but it's unrealistically and how I'm doing it feels unhealthy
seems better to just give it a break
dreamy geyser
If you feel that way it's likely the correct choice, I would say wait out till you're 18 and see what's happens from there
unkempt reef
If you feel that way it's likely the correct choice, I would say wait out till y...
imo 16 feels like a more accurate age
dreamy geyser
2 years is a great time period to sort out thoughts
unkempt reef
more developed, freedom, knowing diff people ig yk
unkempt reef
2 years is a great time period to sort out thoughts
yeah, I just need to get it outa my system
dreamy geyser
Hmm, what do you mean by that? If I might ask
unkempt reef
just a small sense of jealousy when I see some couples, Ik that's bad and I shouldn't
unkempt reef
Hmm, what do you mean by that? If I might ask
get the "I want to date someone" idea, it'll been unhealthy and probs hurt
you ever feel like you want something even though you know it'll hurt? kind of like that
dreamy geyser
I think it's perfectly normal to want affection, if you think it'll hurt I'd advise really taking it slow at the least or wait altogether
unkempt reef
I think it's perfectly normal to want affection, if you think it'll hurt I'd adv...
yeah, I can't really find anyone but online, and well that's usually kinda unhealthy
unkempt reef
Thanks, @dreamy geyser