Why do all of my friends keep leaving me?

[gentle apex]

I have 2 left and my girlfriend but she is gonna leave soon (probably). I'm to scared to make new friends on VRC cause they eather never last that long or I do something to screw it up, I never try to it just happens and the last person I had a real close relationship with did somethingstupid and I'll never see them againbecause of it. I'm a good person but I geuss i'm not good enough for them

I just need someone to talk to...
I'm scared

[silent rock]

wish I could help but im pretty much in the same boat as you, most of my friends left me after college but i do have 2 somewhat close friends from college, however, i dont think thats gonna last too long since i can tell we've been drifting apart, etc. Also did have a 3 year relationship with a girl from college but recently things did not rlly work out as it keeps getting toxic. I think im a good person too, try to help my friends with things they need help with but they end up leaving me anyway. Ultimately, you just have to wait and find the right people for you and have them accept you for who you are.

Try to keep those 2 friends you have left and spend time with them, as for you girlfriend do u mind telling me why she might leave you soon?

[earnest zinc]

Why vr chat

Also you don’t need friends

[gentle apex]

I don't think you understand I have severe monophobia

[gentle apex]

It's the only way to feel like I'm not talking to robots

[gentle apex]

I like being stupidly flirtatious with people especially my close friends and they do it back but she doesn't understand that it's just a joke and she takes everything I say seriously but I genuinely still love her

She's the most beautifulest girl I've ever dated but the situation me and her are in I have to wait so long before I can finally hold her and I don't know if I can do that

[warm kayak]

I guess it might also not be a good game for making friends and rather one-sided. Have you ever tried Lethal Company? Even though it might take much longer, you can find friends while playing coop (pve) games, with whom you can then play other games as well. There are also some Discord servers where you can find people to then play various games in groups on their own separate Discord.

[gentle apex]

I don't have a PC I've wanted one for a long time but I just don't have the money

[warm kayak]

What do you plan to do next? Are you thinking about looking for irl hobbies, or are you just gonna be casually approaching a few people as if it were a game? Go work?

[gentle apex]

I'm already working and I can't approach people even if I wanted to

[silent rock]

Yea I honestly think thats her issue to fix if she cant handle you being flirtatious as a joke with your close friends, or are you talking about being flurtatios with your close friends that are girls, if thats the case then i guess i understand why she would be upset by that

[silent rock]

If her being the most beautiful girl is the only reason you dont want to leave, then I think its better off you find someone else that you actually love instead of just their appearance. you dont even necessarily need to "find" that special someone but let them come in to your life and see what happends

I understand where your coming from tho, her not being able to take a joke and instead, take them seriously as my recent ex was the same, i guess girls cant rlly take jokes?

[gentle apex]

All my friends are guys besides her body It's a lot more than that