My relationship

[iron sun]

So I’ve been dating a girl for a while, but the problem is I don’t know what to do anymore. She kind of broke me mentally and isn’t healing anything of it, but I don’t want to break up because then I’m the monster because I’ll hurt her then.

Extra details:

• We started our relationship pretty quickly cause I kind of got forced into it by her friends, however I actually do love her so it’s not quite forcing it was just quick
• she still contacts most of her exes while they still act weird towards her
• she sends me jokingly video’s about her friends kissing her cheek etc etc and saying to me that they will steal her from me etc
• she was talking to a friend in VC about how I was chatting with them about how I felt and I joined them, but they didn’t notice and they talked about me in a voice like my feelings were a joke or smth

I just don’t know what to do, always when I tell her my problems she tells me she’s there for me, but then she literally tells me the second after that she’s not my therapist and I’m the only one that can solve it.

Sometimes she even starts telling her own problems while I’m venting, which is fine, but then she suddenly starts playing the victim.

I need advice I don’t know what to do and I don’t want to break up, because I’m scared for what will happen and I don’t want to be seen as the heartbreaker.

My mental health is bothering me even more with this

Cause it’s not going well lately and I’ve been feeling so stuck and lost in my feelings and this is the second problem I deal with after that.

[feral rover]

dam

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do you have evidense or smth?

[iron sun]

From?

[feral rover]

of everything she has done

and shi

[iron sun]

Well I have the videos saved on snap, but I can’t possibly save them there, but I can look if I can find the chats here exes send her

[feral rover]

i dont need evidence

i mean like if your going to actually break up with her

[iron sun]

Well, I don’t know. I don’t know If I’m even able to do that

[feral rover]

dam..