heyy hope this response isnt too late
#I need quick help
ivory gust
your love for eachother is completely valid and its a beautiful thing BUT it was done in the wrong way
i know you both probably mean the world to eachother but the fact that this relationship really had 3 people in it is a little problematic and i think that under that circumstance it would have been very hard to work out a solution in the first place
im not saying anyone was wrong here love is love but i think if she is uncomfortable with cheating anymore shes probs in a hard place in her first relationship right now and as much as u love her i dont think this relationship will work out with 3 ppl so this must be a hard decision for her too so its probs an either or situation
i guess you could try to convince her to stay with you but ultimately i think its still the idea of cheating thats throwing her off
i think ur best bet would be like if u guys did break up and then she breaks up with her girlfriend then u guys get back together
i think that u should have a conversation with her and say that even tho u guys are broken up so shes not cheating u guys should clarify what your relationship is at this point and where you guys see taking it going forward
i think this might be like a right person wrong time situation coz if shes rlly that uncomfortable w cheating there might not be much u can say to her to make her stay
coz its more the situation not so much the person thats resulting in her decision
ik u love her but maybee this is the best way coz imagine if u guys kept dating even as she dates this other girl one day the other girl will find out and word gets out about this then it will but ur relationship in a tricky spot
so i still think ur best bet is if u guys stop for now and then pick up where u left off after her other relatinoship is over
fringe tartan
That does sounds rough
But why stay with someone who likes someone else uk
One sided love? If it even is
Doesn’t sound healthy for you
Why not try meeting new people??
Like might sound pretty bad for you but if she likes her gf more than you is it really worth your time and effort to love her