I have a girlfriend who has been through a lot of s### in her past has trust issues, DID, and BPD. She has a short temper and snaps at people for misunderstandings. It feels like I don't do enough for her because of how she talks. I love her and I want to see her happy but it's hard because she barely even knows what works to help her.
#I don't know how to deal with my relationship
south bramble
safe acorn
I think you should talk to her about if your doing everything right in the relationship and find things you guys can do together or she can do that she like to help her out with her struggles
south bramble
Yeah, sorry for late reaponse but can we talk abt it more?
Her main issue is the anger. She gets mad at a lot of things like how she is ||hypersexual|| and when i deny her ||sexual actions|| she gets mad because she cant control herself that well. Ive tried to talk to her abt professional help but she still lives with her parents and we are long distance so she cant
She gets sarcastic, blames me for things, and talks bad about her self
She shuts down conversation by going nonverbal and doesnt really hear me out, claiming i never listen to her
Also for anyone answering please @ me so i get notifs, im kinda forgetful and dont check here often
slim raven
I would highly recommend that you maybe see a relationship therapist to maybe deal with this.