#How do I approach people?

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maiden pike
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Okay honestly im not sure if im the best person to give advice, so take it with a grain of salt.

Personally I genuinely believe I own the world. Like im not sure how to explain it either, but to me, I kind of just see everyone as a side character I can choose to put in or take out at any point of my story. And if you see it that way, no matter how high of a pedestal you’ve put anyone (in this case, your senior), you kind of just realise that in the end they’re just like any other person. You are in a sense, superior, since you get to have a say in how your relationship with him goes depending on your actions + fate ofc. If u think about it he doesn’t rly have a choice.

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Basically my point is that he ain’t all that 😭 💀 No one’s better than you, but if you choose to pan the camera towards them more & let them be the star of YOUR show, that’s on you. You’re basically placing meaning on someone who rly shouldn’t have all that authority over you & your story.

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& for the snickering thing, even if you assume theyre talking about you, use that as encouragement. use their hatred against them to sort of spite them more when you succeed in whatever you were gonna do. winning when everyone doesn’t believe in u is such a gigachad move anyway

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but still, don’t take my advice too seriously bc I acknowledge it’s a pretty “selfish” way to think to many ppl, but I hope it helps in some way anyway