#my mom

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atomic narwhal
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idk, but im fkin scared of my mom, like im traumatised. everytime when me or my siblings did smth wrong and pisses her off, she'll start yelling and hit us. it is happening rn and im scared. she is yelling downstairs at my elder brother. it's progressively getting worse and im scared im next since i just pissed her off jn too. someone help- idk what to do. i wanna fkin leave this house so bad. this shit is so traumatising

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i can hear her hitting my brother from up here. im like frozen in place rn...

uncut cape
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and do you have any family members that it would be safe to talk to about this?

atomic narwhal
atomic narwhal
fluid wadi
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I know some parents spank their children for being bad at school or refusing to do chores or smth

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But she just hits yall for small things and stuff

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Does it leave bruises?

atomic narwhal
fluid wadi
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Okay that’s abuse

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Not disciplinary if it’s leaving bruises

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And if it’s for small things

atomic narwhal
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idk, i mean, if u hit someone it will defo leave bruises tho

atomic narwhal
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or she'll sometimes threathen me saying she is gonna hit me if i dont do what she says

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it's understandable if i was young but im 15 almost turning 16

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idk what to do

wise temple
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If it gets really bad then u can show authorities

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like audio and pics

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but u should tell friends or ur school first

atomic narwhal
atomic narwhal
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tysm

wise temple
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they didnt even try help u?

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wow

atomic narwhal
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they cant do anything about it too

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im sure they wanted to, but even if they tried, jt wouldnt impact much

weak ridge
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Where do you live

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Maybe you can report it?

atomic narwhal
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i dont think it's necessary... plus, i dont even know if im just sensitive about it or it's actually tht bad

uncut cape
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also, does she only hit you or do other forms of damage like throw stuff at u, pull your hair, etc??

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eternal kiln
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Be careful how you express your perants to complete strangers because I see this as something very serious. Does she have any mental problems? This is an serious offense and without certainty can get your mum into trouble

atomic narwhal
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uncut cape
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but maybe tell her she is being to rough on ur little bootys

atomic narwhal
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||my whole body has lines from the clothing hanger (idk if this is tw but i'll censor it) ||

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but im okay now :D

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plucky fable
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Hello. I was physically abused by both my parental figures as a child too. To escape this, I would run out into the street from my house so that they couldn’t follow me since neighbours would witness it. If you can’t do this, I would wear extra layers of clothing that are sizes too big and put blankets over me before you anticipate your mother will hit you again.

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Some situations we can not control in our lives what others do to us but we can control how to react. What we can do to minimize the damage.

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uncut cape
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@atomic narwhal you said your whole body? so she doesn’t just give you spankings?

atomic narwhal
atomic narwhal
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i will dont worry tho

weak ridge
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I'm used to the beatings and shit but I'm having a hard time getting used to being verbally abused and stuff lol

atomic narwhal
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tbh the reason why i posted about this is just to ask for advice on how to deal with it mentally, cause it's making me really traumatised. im not sure if i expressed myself wrongly, but tht was what i initially wanted. a lot of u guys hv been concern about her abusing me, but i personally dont think it's abuse. maybe it's cause of the way tht i was raised but yea.

weak ridge
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Nahh they can't understand us unless they're Asians too lol

atomic narwhal
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atomic narwhal
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she did lol

weak ridge
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Are you a good kid or nahhh?

atomic narwhal
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atomic narwhal
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hey, tht's not really a nc thing to say

weak ridge
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But they should stop the verbal thing tho it hurts lol

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atomic narwhal
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atomic narwhal
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plus, the family isnt even going well at all

weak ridge
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I mean they did survive so maybe it works lol

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Can I ask one thing like out of the subject

atomic narwhal
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works for them ig, im not sure if im just weak, but im 🤏 this close to ||unaliving|| myself (sry if i trigger anyone)

atomic narwhal
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atomic narwhal
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no exactly close, but to the left

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atomic narwhal
atomic narwhal
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it's alright tho. i'll just tell u, it's singapore

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live laugh love singapore

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atomic narwhal
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but im kinda boring ngl, so yea...

weak ridge
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I'm not bored with our talk right now

atomic narwhal
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u'll soon be 😭

weak ridge
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Don't be so negative

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Bro don't make me cry I see my old self in you lmao

atomic narwhal
weak ridge
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You mean friends irl?

atomic narwhal
atomic narwhal
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i mean, theyre nc but the stuff they say are really mean

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atomic narwhal
weak ridge
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You should find new friends

atomic narwhal
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cant

weak ridge
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Why not

atomic narwhal
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it's not as easy as u think it is...

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everyone already hv their own friend group

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atomic narwhal
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atomic narwhal
weak ridge
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Well what kind of group are you in

atomic narwhal
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atomic narwhal
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plus, im in the same class, same team, same group as my friends

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and i love them too

weak ridge
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Are your friends mean to you?

atomic narwhal
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aint no way im finding new friends

weak ridge
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But you said they don't give a fuck about you

atomic narwhal
atomic narwhal
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atomic narwhal
weak ridge
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Like if you get offended by your friends or something

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Like confront them about it?

atomic narwhal
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atomic narwhal
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im not saying tht they should keep treating me badly, but im saying tht they wouldnt care

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idk man

atomic narwhal
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i dont even know what's going on anymore

atomic narwhal
weak ridge
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I think you are friends with the wrong people like what kind of friend talks shit about their friend just because she confronted them

atomic narwhal
weak ridge
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Then yeah you have to find another friends

atomic narwhal
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i understand it could be really tiring if they just chilling, but their friend keeps thinking negatively and blaming them for it

atomic narwhal
weak ridge
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Wait I'll be back in 5 minutes my mom would beat me up if she saw the house dirty💀💀

atomic narwhal
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hahah, u better clean it up

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atomic narwhal
weak ridge
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@atomic narwhal Ayooo sorry I'm late I'm eating lol

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I've rushed back here cause I don't want you to think I got bored of you lol

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Let's talk again after my mom beats me up

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Give me another 5 minutes

weak ridge
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Where u at lol

atomic narwhal
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oops sry, i was eating jn

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mb

atomic narwhal
atomic narwhal
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u good bro?

weak ridge
atomic narwhal
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hahaha np

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atomic narwhal
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i fkin hate school and i kinda dont wanna to go to school tmr 😭 but im scared my friends will call me a coward

atomic narwhal
weak ridge
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She feeds you

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You gotta be grateful for that even if that's her responsibility

atomic narwhal
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yea, but she's the one who make me hate myself...

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i dont hate her but i dont love her either

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it's just neutral ig

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tho i still respect her either way

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atomic narwhal
weak ridge
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Things will get better for you trust me

atomic narwhal
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hope so too

weak ridge
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Just do the things you love

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And be a smart student I guess lol

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How was school? You love school?

atomic narwhal
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it's not the best place i wanna be

atomic narwhal
weak ridge
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So you both hate your home and your school?

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atomic narwhal
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atomic narwhal
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atomic narwhal
weak ridge
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You got everything you need there

atomic narwhal
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nah man, i'd rather be at home than school

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atomic narwhal
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atomic narwhal
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weak ridge
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But trust me you're still young give life a chance not every time is gonna be a hard time

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atomic narwhal
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atomic narwhal
atomic narwhal
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idk how to explain but yeah

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atomic narwhal
atomic narwhal
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i wish everyone would just dissapear lol

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atomic narwhal
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atomic narwhal
weak ridge
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Why do you hate yourself so much

atomic narwhal
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idk man, it's hard to explain

weak ridge
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Basically low self esteem

atomic narwhal
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if tht makes sense

weak ridge
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Makes sense

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For example?

atomic narwhal
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yeah

weak ridge
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Give me an example why you hate yourself

atomic narwhal
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like i hate my personality, i hate my brain, i hate my body, i hate my life just hate yk

atomic narwhal
weak ridge
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What's your personality like?

atomic narwhal
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and im the ugliest in my friend group so yea

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atomic narwhal
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atomic narwhal
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maybe cause u still dont know me long enough? idk

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im sry if im being so negative and all tht

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but i srsly cant be positive anymore

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atomic narwhal
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idk man, i just feel like a piece of shit most of the time

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atomic narwhal
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i did try to like change my mindset and alll

atomic narwhal
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but at the end of the day, it's still goes back to how it was

atomic narwhal
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atomic narwhal
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weak ridge
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I don't like hating peoples

atomic narwhal
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atomic narwhal
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i dont know man, i really wanted to change, but nth is changing at all

weak ridge
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Is there someone who motivates you?

atomic narwhal
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like most of the time i just wish i was just not alive

atomic narwhal
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atomic narwhal
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yeahahahha

weak ridge
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You're the first person I've ever seen who is so negative about herself

atomic narwhal
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it's okay tho, u shouldnt be concern about it too much

atomic narwhal
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i thought there's a lot of people like tht

weak ridge
atomic narwhal
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it's understandable if u cant really help tho

weak ridge
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Idk I just see my old self in you or something lol

atomic narwhal
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cause it's different

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maybe u're experience is worst? idk

weak ridge
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Yeah I know but I'm trying to help!!

atomic narwhal
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i can tell, u're a really nc person btw

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atomic narwhal
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ik, been feeling like tht for years

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atomic narwhal
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tbh, when i was way younger, i told my mom tht i wanted to ||kms|| and she told me to do it and she doesnt really believe i can do it

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atomic narwhal
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idk my emotions are just like a rollercoaster

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it goes up and down and up and down

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atomic narwhal
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like i dont even know what will happen next

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atomic narwhal
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not like mood swings, it's more like for a period of time everything is going well, and just when i thought tht maybe im getting happier, everything just takes a turn for the worst

weak ridge
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We don't really know what's gonna happen next we just know that we're doing the right thing

atomic narwhal
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hmm okay

weak ridge
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You weren't kidding when you said you were a sensitive person

atomic narwhal
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like lets say 2 months ago, when me and my friends are still close, i didnt hv much interaction w my mom, things were going the right way, i was on the right track, and suddenly boom, suddenly my friends were agressive towards me, i started to slack off, my mom is making me feel like piece of shit, my volleyball and debate practice are starting and im getting bussier, and lately im just really tired even if i slept early

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so yea

weak ridge
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I mean that's just life you started eating now you're pooping lol

atomic narwhal
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atomic narwhal
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idk

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trying to communicate here

weak ridge
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Yeah you should set up boundaries with your friends

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atomic narwhal
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not like right now

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but these days

weak ridge
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Mhmm that's good

atomic narwhal
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yea

weak ridge
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Are they good? Like no smoking? no Bullying?

weak ridge
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Sorry if I suddenly talk like a mom lol

atomic narwhal
atomic narwhal
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and they sometimes gets in trouble for wearing makeup or not following school rules

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atomic narwhal
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but i dont see any big prob with tht

atomic narwhal
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but obviously it's not just pretty

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some of them are like athletes

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they can be quite judgy sometimes

weak ridge
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Mhmm and you think you're like the lowest?

atomic narwhal
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yea, im the least attractive in my friend group

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like im invisible in the friend group?

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idk

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i mean, im happy tht they get the recognition tht they deserve but i still feel like shit sometimes yk

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atomic narwhal
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lmaoo not the villain arc

weak ridge
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If you're jealous then beat them at everything they're good at

atomic narwhal
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atomic narwhal
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they are just so pretty

atomic narwhal
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atomic narwhal
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it's gonna take a while tho if i actually wanted to be better than them, plus it will be extra tiring

weak ridge
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Being Smart makes you attractive

atomic narwhal
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atomic narwhal
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i-

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u need to fix on ur taste sir

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atomic narwhal
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atomic narwhal
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there's smth called pretty privileges

weak ridge
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I like kind and sweet girls and who call them bitches that's so rude lmao

atomic narwhal
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lmaooo

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i dont think anyone who is kind and sweet calls themselves bitches

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atomic narwhal
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true, but what is important is now soooo

weak ridge
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Well all you can do is be confident that you are pretty

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Is it weird to like smart and sweet people cause I'm like one of the people who you call a "popular"

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atomic narwhal
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atomic narwhal
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yes i go both ways

atomic narwhal
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like ik tht it's my life and i shouldnt give af, but then again, im still affected by it?

atomic narwhal
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maybe ik like 100 people in my school

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but they know like 500

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if u get what i mean

weak ridge
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Bro wtf

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Well you sure are popular I take that back

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Well I am honored to talk to someone like you lol

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atomic narwhal
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my school has like 1500 just in the morning session

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atomic narwhal
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like for close friends yea, i only hv 5 but i just know people, sometimes we wave and shit but tht's all

atomic narwhal
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hmm, maybe it's cause my friends are popular? idk

weak ridge
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Well I don't give a fuck about other people so I normally forget their names

atomic narwhal
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oh lol

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tht's not very nc

weak ridge
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Helps me reduce anxiety lol

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I don't like when there's like a lot of people around

atomic narwhal
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i mean, saying hi or wave doesnt mean they swarm up on u like a bunch of bees

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they hv their own friends too

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it's just hi, or maybe when u're at a club or school event and ur close friends arent there with you but at least there's like other people u know to hv little chats with

weak ridge
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Nahh I'm a super shy creature lol

atomic narwhal
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oh lol

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photography

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hahahhah

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wbu?

weak ridge
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Boring? Lol

atomic narwhal
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yea, tht was what i was thinking hahahha

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atomic narwhal
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ohh, what sport did u chose

weak ridge
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Is it boring lol

weak ridge
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Did you fall asleep or something lol

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Well I guess good night

atomic narwhal
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atomic narwhal
weak ridge
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Rea doesn't want to talk to me anymore😭😭

weak ridge
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Well it's too bad I was serious about wanting to be your friendHamsterStare HamsterStare

atomic narwhal
atomic narwhal
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i was just busy lol

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sry about tht