I 23M dating 23F who has gone through a lot of problems recently, I am so sick and worried for her safety that I can't behave properly and it's getting to her. She doesn't want help but help is all I know and I battle abandonment issues so I'm terrified that she's going to at any moment stop loving me because of it and if I apologize or try to correct it I think I'll make it worse or relapse. What do I do? How do I give space and do things right? I'm scared so I'm taking a break from everything
#worry is melting my brain
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Hey man! Not sure if I qualify enough for sound advice, but all I can give you is my own experience. I understand you're worried about your so, but sometimes all they need is space to figure their own head out. I understand your scared to give space, but that sounds more of an insecurity of yours. She won't stop loving you. Assure her that you love her, tell her you're right there to help her, whenever she needs the help, and most importantly, don't pressure her. You helping her in this moment is just giving her space and reassurance