so someone told me they liked me and this happened like a long time ago but i wasnt aware that it was a dare, i was actually except for the fact that the dare wasnt only telling me that they liked me but to get a reaction out of me. im not sure but i feel quite sad cuz at the time i didnt want them to be embarrassed since they were infront of their friends and that was why they were very persistent in keep telling me that they liked me cuz i kept putting on a blank face to not embarrass them because i didn't want to like tell him i do not like u back of all their friends. i have to admit my self confidence rose quite a bit because of this (before knowing that they didnt told me a bunch of times they liked me cuz they liked me but that it was also part of the dare) idk i just feel kind of sad and self conscious cuz most of the time u tell someone u like them in a truth or dare is cuz u actually like them right? like ur not doing it purely to embarrass them. i rlly hope it wasn't just for embarrassing me, cuz i mean i would prob never date that person anyways but yk it feels kind of weird idk how to explain but to think that they didnt liked u and only said it to embarrass u. especially that that person doesnt normally do these types of jokes cuz their also not rlly physically attractive (for most ppl ik) but what make me feel weird is that their "friend" was the one that kept encouraging them. like what if i told them i liked them too? how embarrassing it would have been honestly.
#someone told me they liked me as a dare
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or that if i also told them no and they would have also told me it was a dare like i'm not sure but i don't feel good abt this and i'm not sure why. i think its cuz i felt rlly embarrass when i was chatting with a friend and they told me it was cuz it was only a dare, but yk u also feel like why didn't they told me earlier? i feel like as if i'm ugly for someone to tell me they like me only cuz it was a dare and funnily enough today i felt rlly good in ages cuz someone told me i was pretty only for this to be brought up but like only briefly cuz it was brought up in a convo.
i rlly need help cuz this has been on my whole mind and i feel horrible abt myself and like i feel rlly ugly for like someone to tell me they like me as a dare.