#Help ig?

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loud vine
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So I am a 16 year old, I have been Very stressed with my family lately. I want to move out probably when I turn 18. Only problem is I have no job, or a car, or any life experience apart from living on my family farm in the middle of nowhere, I dunno what taxes are, how bills work or anything like that, I have 5 younger siblings who sometimes touch me inappropriately and I...dunno what to do anymore, as I am pretty much an idiot because of how much I struggle with schoolwork (Especially maths) I am homeschooled.

loud vine
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I feel dumb having posted this...

warm maple
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but ik that u want to simply get away from the situation 🫂

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maybe u could move out to a college campus after u will be out of highschool

loud vine
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Yeah...I just...I dunno what to do, me simply existing seems to just piss everyone in my house off...

warm maple
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instead of home

loud vine
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I live in the middle of a bush 30 minutes (drive) from the nearest town, and I always get followed by my siblings if I try just going into the bush alone

warm maple
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pretty unfortunate

loud vine
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I rarely have any energy to do anything, I even sometimes have to skip showers because I have 0 energy left to care...

warm maple
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will your parents allow you to move out for college?

loud vine
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I dunno, my mum always says I can just 'do it online' instead of go to uni or whatever

warm maple
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what if u say u wanna be independent?

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i mean they cant really force u to stay after 18 anyways

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its your choice after that, if u can work part time and afford college + rent there

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then just move out

loud vine
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I'll try, but I'll need a car first, and I also dunno about renting, you have to pay rent weekly in australia, and I dunno if I'd be able to do that...

warm maple
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and is a car mandatory?

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u just have to get to the city once

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after u move out

loud vine
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I dunno, I literally have no life experience, I never realized how much I didn't know until now and now I just feel stupid

warm maple
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most part time jobs are learned on the spot

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thats normal tbh

loud vine
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I guess, but I seriously never realized a lot of things, like how toxic my siblings are or how little I know...

warm maple
loud vine
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Yeah, but I am so behind on everything, even simple maths is sometimes hard for me, I can't seem to process things properly or anything, not to mention I just found out the other day that my eyesight is apparently deteriorating, and I have to get my eyes paralyzed so they can make sure nothing else is wrong, then I have to use eye drops for like 3 years afterward to slow/stop the process of my eyesight being destroyed

warm maple