#Idk what to title this

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austere prawn
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Im aroace, I have been this way since puberty, I havent came out to. Anyone except my sister and my discord friends, I feel like if I told my parents they wouldn't understand, And I'm nervous, I've had my faire share of relationships but I've never really "loved" my partner, I got into all those relationships to fit in with people, I'm still a Virgin Witch I don't care about, I just feel like people don't understand what its like.

and another thing, Im a boy so everyone expects me to be strong and love the gym and sports, I do love soccer, But i rather play video games and they dont think its a "Manly" thing to do.

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sorry if im trauma dumping lol, Dont think it counts tho

stone pivot
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if your parents are simple minded boomers, no point in trying to convince them, just say that u didnt have any luck with women

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if people force you to follow outdated standards, just dont talk with them tbh

austere prawn
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Fair enough lol

safe niche
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i understand dude but you gotta stop trying to fit in
why do you wanna be someone that you're not and you don't wanna be? and also it doesn't even benefit you
just stop trying to be a useless guy to be acceptable

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and also about video games
yeah they're right! it's a waste of time

austere prawn
warm smelt
safe niche
safe niche
stone pivot
warm smelt
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I rarely ever say this but keep your opinion to yourself this time

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You can't just call someone's hobby a waste of time

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That's a really offensive thing to say, even if you're being honest

safe niche
warm smelt
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You can just do both.
I do both

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If you're having fun it's not a waste of time

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When it comes to gaming you just need to keep a balance

wraith gulch
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Yeah it's all about balance. Plus there's a wide range of skills you can learn from video games that transfer over to real world, depending on what they are playing.