people have preferences, dont try to frame it in a way where you almost gashlight the other to make him feel better, the notion that people dislike what they dont have assumes that everyone is immature, envious and childish, only for it to fit your narrative and try to reinforce a positive imagine of the person you are trying to help, everyone has self sabotaging habits, its important to find them, not to disregard it with a pharase everyone is not perfect, and move on and accept everything
#loneliness has followed me my whole life
still tinsel
he alredy mentioned that he knows he is bad at talking with people, and communication is single handedly the most important factor to any relatioship, ive met many autists, who were talented people, succesful in their career, had money, were inteligent, but never were able to have any long lasting relaitonship due to being bad at understanding people and being bad communicators
if he is lonely all his life, its not a coincidence
the only psychotheraputic modul that focuses on empathy and understanding only is PCT, and when talking with many therapists, they all said that it isnt useful in this gen, for real help systematic approaches are needed, , of course humanistic basis is needed, and without it a theraputic endeavor cannot exists, but without a plan to go further, validation is a short term drug, and sticking to concepts from mainstream psychology will do you no good long term, get into DBT and CBT if you ever want to have a chance at helping people
still tinsel
lemme respond to dms if u dont mind, i dont want to flood this post out of respect to the person
still rose
lol
true hound
Same