Hey @dense sapphire I hope you are ok?
#please fucking help me.
bronze depot
Hey kaz! The pain must be unbearable for you now and I totally get why it's making you want to harm yourself it's really tough to let go of someone. May I know If You asked him to give you reasons for why he did what he did?
Sometimes people unknowingly most of the time tend to do things that can hurt the other person you are still very young both of you are bound to make mistakes The wise decision here would be to talk it out and find a common ground
Sometimes taking a break from each other also helps a lot I hope he is doing fine
Killing or harming yourself might seem like the only way out but there are some other healthy ways to cope with pain. When we love someone we want them to be happy be it with us Or someone else. I would say if he/she doesn't wish to stay let them go I know it hurts a lot but knowing that they are happy in their life provides a sense of relief and contentment.
Take care đź«‚everything will be okay
@dense sapphire
buoyant fable
It sounds like you really tried
I hope you’re giving yourself that credit
Yknwo
Love never really goes away
Even after a tough breakup
That’s why it’s so hard to talk to some exes
Back around 3 years ago
My ex broke up with me for several reasons
- She was going away for college
- Because I was incredibly mentally ill and she didn’t know what to do and it was starting to affect her too
After everything ended I had a complete breakdown
Very similar to yours
And that got to her even more
And then
We lost all contact
For a year and a half
Throughout that whole time I heard abt all the bfs that she had and I pretty much figured that she forgot abt me
Especially because of how short our relationship was
Well
We got back into contact eventually and we would talk here and there
And Ofc she was very distant
It wasn’t as it used to be
And I thought my suspicions were true
Until my cousin became her roommate
Before she moved out, my cousin decided to bring up the elephant in the room that was me and hers relationship
She asked how it ended
And trust me it ended kinda messy
She said that I would’ve been perfect
That if it wasn’t for the long distance
I would’ve been perfect for her
She was afraid that the long distance would only make my mental health worse. And believe it or not, even with her dating other guys, she still thought abt me
Hoped that I was getting better and wishing me the best
She never stopped caring
She still loved me
It was a very heartwarming revelation
My point is, is that you shouldn’t worry abt whether or not he’s over you
Cuz in the end you guys had a strong relationship that simply didn’t work due to mental health issues
I can assure you that he still loves you, and probably still thinks abt you
Even if it isn’t romantically
glad warren
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tropic trench
jesus christ
dense sapphire
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spiral arrow
Ok