#My dumb jealousness

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paper goblet
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:CC I don't know if I am overreacting, but my best friend has got a boyfriend. the boyfriend is very nice, and I have nothing against him. The thing is, ever since they started dating, they have always been together. I have always been first, but now I'm second place. The two always hang out. during lunch, I and my best friend used to always walk to our spot to eat. now, she is very late and has to walk with him. She then comes to our spot 10-20 minutes after the lunch period started. and when she finally comes to me, she does it with her bf and has to walk him back to his lunch spot. I don't mind this too much, because I still have time with my friend, and I am happy for her. Another thing is, they always hang out at school, at our spot. they hang out at the time when I and my friend hang out most. They always hang out until it's time to go. Sometimes they invite me to sit with them, but I know it's out of politeness. I moved farther away, (A good 7 meters) and they didn't complain or ask. the thing that really upsets me, is that whenever my and my friend finally have time to talk, it is always about how cute her boyfriend is, or what they did together. We used to be in the same class for dance and always worked together. the second semester just flopped, since we no longer have any same classes, and the whole bf thing. I really feel replaced. I can't just tell her because she does not realize how obsessed she is with him. Example: She texts him. if he does not respond within like 10 seconds, she gets worried. I wish things could go back to how they were, but I can't let her know how I feel. She is my only friend here, and I really don't want to sound too rude.

paper goblet
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:c she just took the chocolate I gave her

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and gave it to her bf

summer pelican
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Only thing you can hope for, is when hedonic adaptation kicks in, she will be less obsessed, and should spend more time with u, or she will just breakup after some time.

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And yes, it does hurt being replaced lmao, attachment is attachment.

paper goblet
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i just wish that i can talk with her about my life too

summer pelican
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ik, my friend used to do that to, only talked when she kinda needed it c:

ebon otter
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or find new friends

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easy

paper goblet
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Lmao

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I actually do have a bf, who is awesome when he isnt ignoring me

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but i always put my friends and family first

wary pebble
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If shes obsessed and happy let her be

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She knows good

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Like its not that you are replaced

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But friends come after partners

dawn pendant
wary pebble
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Not tragic

dawn pendant
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Both of the responses are subjective

wary pebble
summer pelican
# wary pebble how so?

Isnt it logical? Romantic love Is Always stronger then platonic, how else would you like it to be?

wary pebble