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TW: discomfort with a creepy mtf (male to female) transgender individual and mentions of || intercourse and rape||. || so I have a friend named Abigail who is transgender. She was male at birth but is now female. We became friends due to us both being LGBTQ. For background on me, I’m intersex but I do have both female and male parts and she knows that. I’m able to have intercourse the female way and she is aware because I’ve vented to her about being intersex. The thing is though, she recently told me she has a crush on me. This is bizarre because she says she is lesbian, but I identify as male. It is concerning due to the fact she knows I’m male but that I have the female part too. I also had a past relationship with a girl and we met during a bike ride because I was biking and saw her with her bike chain off so I helped her put the chain back on and then we talked and months later ended up dating. Then, a week after Abigail said she liked me and I had rejected her, she sent the image below. She said the same exact thing in text message had happened to her, after inviting me to join her (I ignored the first message). The place she wanted to bike was the orange groves too. The thing about the orange groves tho is that it is known to be a place where rapists will sometimes go to rape women. I didn’t feel comfortable so that’s why I didn’t go. The fact her chain also broke like my ex had done too, is very creepy. She has been very creepy and I don’t like it. I’m scared and uncomfortable and don’t really want to be friends with her anymore. She also told people I was her best friend so I was forced to agree cause otherwise I’d be rude towards her in a way. The whole situation is just overall uncomfortable and I don’t want to be friends with her at all anymore. I just don’t feel safe and I never really considered her a great friend in the first place. The only thing we have in common is running (we are both in track and cross country). Advice please? ||
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