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inner gorge
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Hey. Don't think that. You're not ugly. I'm sure. And I don't hate you. :D

cosmic igloo
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first off, you might see yourself ugly, but remember that butterflies cannot see how beautiful their wings are, but us, we can. Not everyone has the same beauty standards as you, besides being fat shouldn’t be something negative. You put too much beauty standards on yourself, but I’ll tell you something dear: nobody actually care that much about your look. Right, you might think I’m wrong, but I’ll prove it to you: a man wouldn’t date a woman just for her body, because he must handle her personality, her opinion, her hobbies and many other things, if he really was there for her body only trust me, he would have left her already long time ago. beauty standards are mainly around social media, snapchat filters and such. But ofc looking good on a picture is somehow more important because its a frozen moment you cannot change while in the real world, people sees you from all the angles so why does it matters so much “looking good” to look like those models? I will tell you something, a lot of models you see on magazines are actually photoshopped , if a woman had a body like those models they wouldn’t even exit because they are impossible to reach. Trust me, not everyone have the same way of seeing beauty and you aren’t done meeting everyone that will love you through your life, they come slowly, you just gotta wait for it

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@carmine remnant

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you just didn’t find the good ones yet, they don’t appear with one blinking they come with time and if you try

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life is long you will see 2 years isnt a lot even, you are still young, decades are waiting for you, you just need to give a chance to life itself

cosmic igloo
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you just need to wait trust me there isn’t much to do but wait and keep living things cannot change in one blink

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its normal you are just a kid. don’t think you are alone in this many many kids goes through this during their teen years it is normal trust me I’ve been there too ok?

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please you will be fine I’m telling you, when I was your age I felt like ||ending it|| so many time and even tried but today I realize how stupid it was from me, and I am glad I gave time to myself, 13-14 yrs old are the hardest years trust me it was horrible for me I felt like nobody could understand me and I kept denying any type of help, but today I realize that its normal its the years a lot of teens starts hitting puberty mentally and gaining more responsibilities which is a lot for them

cosmic igloo
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goodnight sleep well

echo storm
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bro who the f care, THAT'S what you think, but you are more than what you think

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stop thinking all the time

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just BE YOU

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if you know that you are fat and You need to lose weight why don't you workout

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it's simple thing man come on

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Like

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stop beat your self

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there is a so many way to stop that

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You will lose weight if you make an effort to workout

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You not gonna get skinny in over nice

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you gotta be constant with it

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Ik its hard

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but I DON'T CARE

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JUST DO IT

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ITS SIMPLE

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IF YOU WANNA MAKE IT FUN

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TAKE YOUR BODY PIC EVERY DAY

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UNTIL

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YOU GET WAHT YOU WANT

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and do not ever call your self ugly

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You better say sorry for saying that

half sapphire
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@carmine remnant no one is perfect in this world, dont say anything unhealthy to urself is not a very good habit. U cn paste some positive words on a sticky notes on the mirror so when u woke up u feel very energetic (it work for me ig). ik it might not be very helpful but i suggests to give it a try yk. Plus sometimes ppl got bullied even if they r skinny(i wouldn't say skinny but TOO skinny) or fat. Those ppl who said "ur ugly" "skinny" "fat" etc are just ruining ur life. when the moment u said a guy u like has a gf, i suggests to focus on studies first than relationships yk ur too young.(but just do u alr :'D)
also somewhere in the future there's always smt good<3 dms r open!!

half sapphire
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it is completely finee! just always remember to ignore those ppl who trying to ruin ur life don't overthink too much alr<3 hmmm speaking abt adhd im not rlly sure but u cn take some adhd tests online if it helps! :> @carmine remnant