Marriage Multiplayer Bug

[mellow grove]

Hello,
I married my wife before we had the House upgrade to lvl 3. After the marriage we upgraded the house to lvl 3 and the spouse room didnt unlock. Since we have no divorce option ingame, how can we fix this? Can the room be unlocked by using a variable that checks if the player is in a marriage from your side? The marriage is already many days ago so it shouldnt be possible to use a backup.