#Connecting to the server but not connecting
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Hi hi @frosty fulcrum. It shouldn’t take that long, but thanks for letting us know! I’ll pass this to the teams so they can check it out. If it happens again, could you send us a screenshot of your internet speed test from speedtest.net? Thanks a bunch! 
I also ran into this problem. Both of us on steam, same network, not sure if that matters.
Hi, I'm also experiencing this issue. So, I've been trying to reconnect multiple times but I'm always getting stuck to this screen. I've restarted the game multiple times, restarted steam, verified the files, and restarted my pc. I haven't seen any errors btw
I am not hosting the game, I'm just re-joining the lobby that we've been playing in for the past hour.
This is also our internet speed if that helps.
Same issue here.
I played yesterday with my husband and he had difficulties to join. We are both on steam.
This morning, he was stucked on the page "Connecting to server".
same issue here, after the server maintenance
Two of my friends can only host a farm, can't join others... after maintenance... 😤
Same, my partner and I are on PC on the same network, both wired and wireless yield the same result.
Same issue here. Unable to restart session after disconnecting.
Same issue. We are gonna leave it on "Connecting to server...." for a bit and see if it makes a difference, but it shouldn't take this long.
Still having the same connecting to server issue
CHecking in. Same issue. Same connection, On steam. Wife was ableto create world, I cannot connect. Stuck on connecting screen.
Any luck after waiting?
still waiting. I'm assuming there's some bottleneck happening and is just letting people in really really slowly.
Also having the same issue, was working fine up until server update. Waited for 5-10 minutes no connection. Same network, high speed net, can't connect anymore
literally thousand of farmers waiting in queue.
Hi everyone! Thanks for letting us know about this issue after the maintenance. If you restart both the game and Steam, does it still happen? 😮
I have restarted my steam. Host file has not. will update shortly.
Yes, both players restarted steam, verified files and still waiting on connecting to server
Yes, even when installing the game on a diffrent computer,
anyway to direct connect? to avoid the server issue?
Restart steam and both games, still connecting to server issue
Got it — I’ve passed all your info to the team and they’re already working on it. I’ll update you if there’s any news or if we need more details. Thanks so much, and really sorry you’re still experiencing this issue! 🙏
I'd appreciate it if the team can let us know if waiting does anything or not.
same issue. all people restarded steam and game. In my case I wanted to join a lobby with two people already 4 days in, me being the third. Stuck in Connecting to Server Screen. Waited half an hour but no shot
Noted, I’ll check with the team and let you know as soon as I hear back 
Oh no! Really sorry you’ve had to wait this long — this isn’t the kind of multiplayer experience we want for you 
I’ll pass this along to the team as well!
Just curious. When do you think we could expect a fix? Or maybe a roll back to the maintanance?
Right now, we still don’t have a definite answer, as the team is still investigating what’s causing this issue. We’ve moved it to our top priority list, so hopefully it’ll be fixed soon! 🙏

Yeah game was working fine yesterday for me, but now it just says "Connecting to server..." for god knows how long
hopefully it gets fixed before the weekend
I can confirm we have the same issue.
I'm in since 13:03, it's now 13:55, i'm trying to see if it's just REALLLYYYY long, or impossible.
It's probably just impossible at this point lol
i got the same problem but the thing is my friend can join my but i cant join him
Did someone tried to make a new game ?
what would that solve
They already stated its a server related issue, they are working on it
Oh
The question is rather when will it be fixed. Just hope before the weekend Xd
I've got this issue too, spent 15 mintes waiting, still connecting the whole time. I was hoping that there would be more servers up since the fix </3
im also getting this issue was working perfectly yesterday but now its just connecting to server
I now tried it with a save I made yesterday with 2 players... today I can only host but my mate can't join anymore. Don't think the fix fixed anything tbh... it seems to have broken already functioning stuff which is...well unfortunate
i mean multiplayer is only out so this is to be expected
i dont think any game has gotten multiplayer correct immediately on launch
Hi everyone. Once again, we’re really sorry you’ve had to experience this issue. I just confirmed with the team that if you’ve been waiting for more than 5 minutes, the chances of getting into the session are quite small — so no need to wait longer than that. Don’t worry though, the team is actively working on it and aiming to fix it as soon as possible. We truly appreciate your patience and hope it’ll be resolved soon! 🙇♀️
Thank you so much for all your hard work!
Hi! I'm guessing there are still issues with connecting, but just wanted to know if the multiplayer feature is possible for someone with the same IP and if it might be easier to 'connect to server' than usual? Or is it the same?
yes i cant connect
it is the same. Me, my husband and my child have the same issue. I'm the host and they cannot connect... we are in the same house, same room and we exit on the net with the same IP so yeah, same issue
Same here... 😮💨
Always forced to quit the game with Alt + F4 to try again. This screen is blocking.
Host PC to PC, in the same room, with the same IP address
Tried to restart both PC.
anyone found a way to still play?
Nah, and now when I try and host the multiplayer I get this - I am the host
Same issue with our save, very upsetting after 9 hours of play on day1! 🙁
we were playing for 5-6 hours, so sad we cant play rn
In fairness - I don't think your save is borked - it's multiplayer, fresh or not
We can connect through the server but my husband is unable to select his Character to continue and his also having trouble with his button setting, he can save his button setting in the menu but cant in game
Same Problems 🥲
Same issues here 😭
Will you write in #📣announcements when a fix is deployed?
yes, solo player mode. Multiplayer is impossible for some of us right now
Same issue 😭 only me cannot join the co op, my 2 other friends can join
any updates yet on when it might be fixed?
noo just that they are working on it
rip
Any news on this? My partner is having this issue and we can’t try the multiplayer because of it. 🙁
no we're still waiting 
I really hope they fix it soon, my husband was gonna play the game for the first time, but now the first impression is not very good 🙁
was fine for me and my friend yesterday, the fix they did this morning broke it for us
It seems it was broken before maintenance. Yesterday on release it was fine but trying to restart after exiting caused the issue.
people were first saying their game would show "No internet connection" but by right clicking your friend, and clicking invite, or join, you would still be able to join them, so it wasnt such a big issue :P. but now it doesnt show no internet connection, but just puts you in an infinite loading screen,
in indonesia its quite late rn, 00:12, Saturday, 16 August 2025 (GMT+7) so they might have weekend rn,
I understand it being their freetime, but if they don't fix this until after the weekend they might actually lose a lot since many spouses/friends are probably gonna refund.
same for me and my boyfriend, but lucky me that he is still hyped 😅
Very lucky! I just hope mine gives it a shot! We loved playing Stardew years ago 🙂
I don't think it's a "server overload" issue at all since my partner can host a new save and I can join just fine but if we load our game from yesterday where I was hosting, it gets stuck. If host a new game, it still gets stuck.
wish you good luck 😊
understandable, i love the game and my wife was so ready to spend the weekend playing it with me
yeah same, it would have been perfect timing since we have a long weekend here with today off already.... 🙈
tried several times today spread over the whole day to connect, but it never worked sadly
same was hoping to play all weekend but unfortunately its already friday night (our weekends are fri/sat)
wasted weekend 
ah thats sad 🥴
We started one with me as a host(has the issue) but now that he started one I can join with no problems (atleast when I tried just now) maybe an idea for people who haven’t played long on their first save? 🙈
my friend cant connect to me (im the host), i can play just fine but she cant get in
im hosting and my friend can't join, always stuck in connecting
this worked. started day 1 again and we are back to the same point. ty.
Dinda said
Hi everyone. Once again, we’re really sorry you’ve had to experience this issue. I just confirmed with the team that if you’ve been waiting for more than 5 minutes, the chances of getting into the session are quite small — so no need to wait longer than that. Don’t worry though, the team is actively working on it and aiming to fix it as soon as possible. We truly appreciate your patience and hope it’ll be resolved soon! 🙇♀️
Me and my partner tried this but after we left the game for dinner then went back on he can't get past Character selection
PC / Playstation with my spouse and she can't even see my game with the code. Straight up says the session isn't found. (PS5 trying to connect to PC/Steam host)
same issue here
@rotund radish would it be possible get a preliminary answer, if it's worth cutting our losses and just starting a new save or will any pending fix rescue our existing save?? 😥
all PC, im hosting. two friends get in just fine but one is stuck
We are the same, worked for several hours last night. Now co op is not working again.
Been hosting a new save only after the update today and still having this same issue with one of our friends, so I'd imagine it wouldn't help, best just to wait for another fix :)
Hi everyone, we're still working on fixing the issue 🙏 We need more time on this but we're working on it.
If you're issue is with stuck at "connecting to server" screen, if it's possible, the guest try to host, some players has reported they're abl to do that. however you do have to start a new save file
If you get a different prompt screen, we're also still working on investigating and fixing this.
no diff :/
For me and my friend (me being the host) we played perfectly fine yesterday, then after the patch today he was no longer able to join me
Thank you for your patience 🙏
it seems the error occur even if u enter a random code when joining (like random words)
we would start a new game with him hosting but whose to say it wont happen again tomorrow ;-; so we're just waiting
We have a similar issue. I'm on Steam, hubs on Xbox Series X. He can host and I can join him but if I try to host, he cannot join me. We have great internet so that's not the issue for us.
Idk if this is still being worked on/looked into but I'm not getting connected even after like 10 min of trying to get into my partners game. 🙁 Both on steam/PC, same internet, both on ethernet.
They're still working on it as far as I can tell. Dinda said if you have to wait more than 5 minutes not to bother
But it's the weekend for them now, not sure if they're working overtime
Novita was answering discord at like 5 am on saturday her time so 🤷♀️
Steam to steam worked fine for me the hubs yesterday, now he can't connect and we don't want to start a new file
I'm on steam, friend is steam other friend is Xbox Series X. I host and steam can join but xbox can't.
Ah. Now as a steam player I cannot connect to Xbox Series X, same household. We played all evening yesterday, but now I can’t join hubs. 😬
Any updates everyone?
Has thier been any update to the connecting issue?
Adding to this. My friend on Steam has been unable to join my co-op farm and they waited several hours for it to connect after they entered the code.
Same, I have a server off my Xbox with brother in law and sister in law, wife on pc gets stuck at connecting to server
If she hosts I instantly get kicked out of the game
Are you also on steam?
No, I’m on a PS5. I saw the two are supposed to connect but 🤷🏼♀️
Still no update for this??
This is why Friday releases are a bad idea
Well, same issue. Since it's Saturday already in Indonesia, I supposed we will get the "update" later in Monday... so, tough luck
Steam is having same issue with Steam vs Steam, i had 3 friends with me yesterday while i was hosting (all of us have game through steam). Yesterday we played for a couple hours no issues, logged for the night. Now today when i load up i can get only one of them to connect to me, reason for why the others cannot is unknown as they just get stuck on the connecting to host. we tried having someone else try hosting and same issue only me and my friend can connect the other 2 cannot
i had the same issue i was playing with my friend for 3 hours ( with some issues to like getting stuck while fishing or with the hammer if u spam right click while moving) but after the 3 hours i got suddenly disconnected and coudnt rejoin like the reft of all here
It would be nice to have a local IP option for the future. If my wife and I are right next to each other we shouldn't have to connect to any server. Especially if these servers ever end up being removed at some point the ability for multiplayer should continue to exist
I agree. I haven't played a game like this that didn't allow peer-to-peer or something similar. I was very surprised to hear that it was on a server
Still can't join co-op with my husband (we're both on steam). We've tried switching hosts too, but to no avail. Hope this issue gets resolved soon 😭
Still? You saved me from the effort actualy I was going to try connecting with my gf. Thanks.
Yeah, no probs. We've tried it 5 times before giving up. Hope it gets resolved soon 🫂
Also experiencing this with PC and Xbox Series X with Co-op play. Tried both ways. Restarted, turned on n off. Made sure it was plugged in. The whole 9. I will leave a green check mark if waiting 5-10 minutes ends up working here soon.
Hiya everyone, thanks so much for your patience!
We’ve just released a hotfix to address the connection issue, and it should be working fine now. If you’re still running into problems, please let us know — but hopefully everything’s smooth this time. Happy gaming! 🎮✨
Changelist: #📋coral-changelist message
PS: This fix is for Steam only for now. If you’re on console, there’s still a chance you might run into the issue — really sorry about that! 🙏
Damm u guys are fast thx sooo much for ur time ❤️
joining a game through steam invites seems to still cause the connection issue, but joining through code seems to work just fine. I was testing it with the friend that they and I couldn't connect to other peoples games, and we were able to consistantly reproduce it with the steam invite/join function, but were able to join a game just fine with the in game code.
Ah, noted. Thank you for sharing this additional info! I will let the teams know about this 📝
Yes just tried it after updating it and sister still can't join
Thank you for all your hard work! I know it's the weekend and you'd much rather be taking some time off, so this effort is doubly appreciated
this issue is happening to my friends and i as well. it happened for cherry blossom, and now animal festival. We were able to do the tree planting festival though.
Hiyaa! So sorry this issue still happens. Is your sister playing on Steam? 😮
Hi hi! Can you tell me more about this? Is the connection issue suddenly happens when you enter both Cherry Blossom and Animal Festival? 😮
My friends and I updated the game, but we cannot connect to the server.
We are playing in Japan, and my friends and I are using Steam.
try connecting using the invite code, given in party management
Just to update people this is the correct play above - try and connect via Steam - No Bueno. Give your other half the invite code - straight in!
Thank you. I'll give it a try.
Someone know if the problem with "your offline...try reconnect" is fix?
same
idk i was able to join my partner
so annoying
we just tested and it works now (both steam and joined with a code instead of invite)
This is happening to me and my friend also, Im on PC he is on Xbox, keeps saying its unstable even though we are hardwired internet and both our connections are amazing
Hi It's seem like some of my friend still facing the "Connecting to Server” screen indefinitely even after update. All of us are playing on Steam and is anyone still facing this issue like us ?
Have you tried using the code instead of join through steam?
Yes, we try both of them but still facing this issue.
To be clear please allow me to refer our member as P1-P4 as 4 player.
P1 and P2 can join each other while P3 and P4 can't.
If P3 or P4 host, P1 and P2 can join but P3 and P4 that didn't host can't join
that mean even we try to change the host unfortunately we can only play max as 3 player.
Can confirm my friend who was having issue yesterday still can't join through steam invite or join game, but works perfectly fine using the invite code instead :)
I see, I'll ask them to try again thank you for your suggestion. I hope it'll work for us as well.
yes, we tried inviting threw steam, code and just letting her join the last session nothing worked all of us are on steam
Just tested mine and hubs steam to steam and it worked! Thank you for the weekend hotfix!!
still connecting the server, with myrepublic provider from Indonesia. the other player used Indihome as provider can join but the other provider connot join 😄
It works to join steam to Xbox series X now same household. Thanks!
hi, it's working ❤️
i manged to play with my husband yesterday. It took 5 sec or less to join the party.
Hi today I ask friend to join with invite code and it's work, Thank you for your help !
It worked last night when I asked my sister to join threw code! Haven't tried inviting threw steam yet! Thank you for all your hard work!!!
It's working now, thanks for help ❤️
it still doesn't work for me. when I click on multiplayer it doesn't connect to the server. does anyone have any tips?
using the invite code should work(not steam invite)
This option doesn't even appear for me. The coop doesn't work for me
you playing on pc?
yep
when the other person is already hosting the game, let them go into Party Management > at bottom it should show invitation code, click the copy button, send it to you, then you gotta enter it at main menu
^ this should work, as far i know..
i have no idea what that says, sorry.
my main menu doesnt open the coop options
try validating your files, maybe that solves the issue.
not yet , still dont running
hi im sorry about this, but no, not necessarily. The host wasn't able to see the event at all, could walk through the town as if it werent happening. Couldnt see the balloon for the cherry blossom festival either. all other festivals have been okay so far as we are reaching the end of our first year in game
other bugs to report though, anyone not the host picking up a truffle (or coffee bean) and its an instant game crash for them. Barn animals disappear into thin air when the host enters an individual friendship cut scene. anyone not the host can randomly crash upon entering a shed. Then lastly, there is weird things going on with the rock domino skill for those that are not the host.
Also the host was having issues with invisible barriers in her shed.
Ah, I see—thank you for sharing this information! There’s actually been a similar report about the festival issue here: https://discord.com/channels/623097219628662784/1405694369817690172 and we’re still gathering more details to understand what’s causing it. If you happen to recall anything else about the issue, even small details, feel free to share them in that thread—it would be a big help! 
Regarding this crash, a similar issue has also been reported here: https://discord.com/channels/623097219628662784/1409291038497181831
We're currently still waiting on a crash log to help us investigate further. If you're able to share your crash log, please don’t hesitate to send it our way—it would be greatly appreciated! 🙂
Regarding the other bugs you mentioned, we'll be reviewing similar and previously logged issues as part of our investigation. Thanks for bringing this to our attention!
Has there been any updates on issues reconnecting to servers when playing cross platform? I am trying to join my wife's island again but it tells me my connection is too unstable. im joining her on xbox from my steam account

