#Sorry i just have to rant about my dad really quickly (same window hater)

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velvet lakeBOT
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  • Dad always blindly supports Mom
    – Believes her lies instantly without asking your side.
    – Only disagrees with her if his side of the family is involved.

  • Mom constantly misjudges and blames you
    – Accuses you of being on your phone instead of recognizing your effort (e.g., waking up early to study).
    – Makes small issues (like not making your bed) into major problems.

  • They threaten or emotionally abuse you regularly
    – Dad says things like “just you wait till I get home I’m gonna beat you.”
    – Mom says stuff like “I hope you die” or “I curse you every day.”
    – You don’t get physically hurt anymore, but the emotional abuse continues.

  • Mom uses Dad as a weapon
    – Calls him over the smallest problems, making them bigger instead of talking to you like a normal parent.
    – He responds by threatening or yelling at you.

  • You feel constantly misunderstood and invalidated
    – Your efforts to be better are twisted into something negative.
    – There’s no appreciation or recognition, only criticism.

  • You’re emotionally exhausted and overwhelmed
    – Crying during study time.
    – Constant stress from the family environment.

  • You don’t feel safe or supported at home
    – Feel like your parents would celebrate if something bad happened to you.
    – Not suicidal, but wish something extreme would happen just to escape the situation.

  • You don’t want to burden your friends
    – Feel guilty for always ranting to them.
    – Trying to stop opening up so much, even though they’ve helped a lot.
    – Now you joke about your life instead of talking seriously.

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from my best understanding (my apologies for the short attention span)

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you aren't a burden

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ur a humana

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and ever human has a vioc.e that deserves to be heard

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these threats from ur father could turn physical soon

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write down all ur incidents

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and if needed, bro you might need to call CPS

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like tellin ur child to end themselves is NOT alright

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all da best 4u anon 💞

steel spruce
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or did u genuinly open up ur google docs and write every formatted

subtle shard