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young umbraBOT
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Honestly I really relate to this so I'll just give you advice here. So like, me too. I don't have friends offline at all. It gets extremely lonely knowing your boys gonna make fun of you if you open up your problems to them so the loneliness and pain just kills you within. I try my hardest to get the best grades I can. You know where we mess up? We mess up when we let others decide what a "good grade" is or when we compare ourselves to others and look at ourselves at simply not good enough. I used to compare myself to someone that'd get straight 70-75 in P1 maths in AS where as I could be at 65-70 and I swear it ruined my mental health. Maybe I am not good enough? Maybe I am the problem? It actually is your perspective that is the problem you see. Don't try to race others, race yourself. Some people are naturally very talented and smart, they study 4h and get A*. Others put in 17h of work and then get the highest grade achieveable and some aren't even able to do that. Now imagine you are that one person that goes the extra mile and studies 17h and you compare yourself to that one person that js studies 4h yk what happens? You start being ungrateful to yourself and not appreciating what you have. Always appreciate what you have, despite all the negatives. No matter how negative your life is going, there is always always a positive perspective or a positive thing in your life just that you haven't been able to find it yet.

Have you figured yourself out? Do you study to please people or do you study for yourself? Why do you study? Why are your grades not the ones you want, is it your studying technique that's the problem? Where exactly is this problem? How can you fix this problem? What exactly is your goal? What do you want to achieve in life, not just A levels? Journal about this, sit and answer these questions by yourself. Write down the "whys" and have a clear goal and just go crazy for it. Every setback is a lesson, don't fear failure. Fear accepting failure

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As for friends, like I said I really relate to that. I was just telling someone about this and he gave me a very good advice. "People come to you when they see something valuable in you. If you're very good at studying, you'll attract attention from those that want to learn. If you're really good at chess, you'll attract attention from chess players and so on. People talk out of interest. If you're good at something, people are defintely going to go out of their way to talk to you and get to know you". Same goes for love, if you are a guy that is emotionally absent, abusive and emotionally immature but also wants "that one perfect girl", it won't work. You'll attract someone of your caliber, that's why they say if you look for someone perfect, perfect yourself first. So the lovey dovey aside, master one skill. Any skill. If you become very good at football, you'll be picked first in the football team and people will respect you for your skills outside and inside the pitch. True friendships aren't those that are those "everyday talks". It sometimes dies out, sometimes people get very busy in life and you turn out from their best buddy to just a reel-sharing buddies but then what holds the friendship is after going through some difficult time we patch up, let in on each others life and continue in it. When we are young, we have time to look at and care for other people, as time passes on, life gets busier and busier people forget at times.

So yeah in conclusion, let your diary be your best friend for now. If you want to attract attention of people of a specific interest, get good at that skill and friend them all as they pour in your life

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Stay strong! Keep fighting! AND STUDY HARD yeah? Don't give up. Try out different ways to study, whatever suits you best. Just lock in

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Forget about the world, forget about everyone

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Just study so hard that you ace

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No distractions

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Just you and that burning hatred towards you and towards others, use that as a fuel and show yourself you can do way better and that you are NOT WEAK

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i believe in you :)

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Gave +1 rep to u_sef!

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easy hack

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