#I got graped and it js hit me now
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dang sorry bud
its such a shame and heartbreaking to hear that a dude is getting graped by a girl and it always a case like this but no one hears it bc girls get away with it easily and they see men getting graped or SA'ed pointless or just fake bc yk. Im sorry you had to go through all this u rlly deserved someone better and dont be ashamed that u cant press charges on her, its not ur fault its just that ppl cant accept that fact that men are just like women who also get graped and SA'ed. Anon ur not alone in this, we all dudes support u and with just this awareness, everyone heard ur voice and no will forget it. if u want to take more about it u can dm or just send a part 2 of the confession
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No
Ngl it is acc sad that theres not that much awareness about this
yeah
there's a reason people say
the only people who can actually understand a male SA victim are other sa victims
Fun fact male mental health awareness is on june
But pride month is also on that month
whattt
Bc yk how society is
Ppl be supporting pride month more than men mental health awareness
And its now its normalised that men should always viewed strong and remain nonchalant for the rest of their life
Also heres proof if u dont believe me
true
damn
Also correlates to "aura farming" bs too like u cant show emotion or else ur seen as weak
And it explains why no dudes here are so open with their feelings and confessions bc they fear that no one will listen to them
Even though its us here which is alr enough to feel anon a sense of relief and hope
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so sorry this happened to u anon, its not an experience anyone should go through, male or female. its SA awareness month and theres lots of resources being spread around for this kind of stuff, but its gonna be rly tough espicially due to severity of it. its really unfortunate that SA victims, male and female, are given so little importance, but espicially male victims. you're not alone. You might not be in the majority of victims, but you are still valid and theres plenty of ppl out here who support u. male victims get less closure and its really unfair but we support u and ur valid if u need to vent theres always anon confess and my dms r open
none of this is ur fault. shitty ppl exist and they do shitty things
dont listen to those toxic males that victim blame or invalidate and dont listen to radical misandrists who devalue and ignore these issues
ur j as valid as any1 else
never made sense to me how this was completely ignored
espicially by like "feminists"
if we're pushing for equal rights
and for every1 to be heard
the best way to solve it is by putting importance on mens mental health along with women's
its almost always an issue, even in crimes against women, the male offender is usually mentally disturbed
and addressing it can help the cause
but ppl like Andrew Tate set us back 50 years
this entire alpha male shit is not only harming women but it is primarily harming men espicially in youth
yeah
it's detrimental man
Like I said before
Men are forced to look strong and nonchalant bc if they don't then ppl will think that it's very disgraceful and weak
No
Anon, this thing ur talking about is actually very real regarding how ur feeling ashamed to file a report 2 months later
I've been told since the very start when I was crafted on how I shouldn't show my emotions and feelings, which even at 16 I no longer show
And it has quite mentally distrubed me
I've been told that all men and woman alike are dangerous, and to keep your head up always
No one really truly cares about you, but yourself and your loving parents
You are a victim of the world
And I too can't lie, I too have been
But remember, it doesn't matter who did it, it matters on how your respect and privacy isn't destroyed nor breached
There isn't given attention to male mental health because of how they are seen weak when expressing emotions
I watched a video [or short 💀] on how 6/10 relationships are broken by man because he can't express his emotions well
Dearest Anon, you are a human
A human is as important as another human
Don't hold back on ever wanting to shout
Cry
Or express anger
The more you bottle it up, the worser it'll become
Much love anon
Fr toxic men created a system that feminised having emotions and won't even acknowledge it now
ill NEVER understand how a man being upset or cryign makes them less masculine
since when was being vulnerable a female trait only
Exactly
And the whole "women like alpha males" no they don't ☠️☠️☠️
honestly yeah