#Re: lack of motivation

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vague sirenBOT
limpid phoenix
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u should try to come out of this....this feeling of success yk?? or ull never be able to try smt in fear of failure, ikik sounds cliched but at one point or another, u fail in life and the smt kind inevitable, failing, getting rejected, not being qualified enough,
so this feeling of having so many expectations about urself makes it soo much harder to grow and try new things

radiant urchin
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don't do something because you're bent into doing it

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do what you love

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love what you do

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think differently

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do the thing that excites you

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and with what you've said, you can probably look wider and deeper with ease

molten walrus
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My advice would be, go and try new things. Never tried coding before? go ahead. Sports?art?reading? do everything and anything. This may give you an idea of what you want to pursue, what you like, and what you lean towards.
You spent your entire life, playing ideal child/student. You dont have to no more, its scary as the others said, to take apart programmed habits and routines.
But you are YOUNG, and the best part about being young, is you can be as indecisive and uncommitted as you want.
So go ahead and do something in the complete opposite direction. find yourself

green iron
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ayo someone mentioned me :OOOO

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but ure right mb i misunderstood partially what u said. What i was trying to say was, rn its just studies. Eventually ure gonna realize u depend on ur parents for telling u how and when to do chores, and when its ur job to do so in ur independent life, u wont be able to because u wont know how to go ab it. So i was just suggesting you try telling urself in your life ure gonna be doing everything on ur own. its not necessary u need a certain motivation to do smth, u should just sometimes go with the flow or go with the norms cuz theres a reason to y everything exists the way it does. Like sometimes u should be fine being the side char in a filler episode, cuz atleast u get to enjoy ur life for till then. because u see living upto your and others expectations is very tiring and im proud of u for hanging on for so long, but u need to know that altho every moment is a golden moment, u cant drain urself down to the core. If ure drained, ure gone and theres no bringing u back. So rest, but also dont stop giving ur best. just learn the way uve always learned but yeh take up some good activity to do once in a while.

green iron