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north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:28 PM

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But does anyone have anime recommendations

tropic hound Apr 4, 2020, 4:28 PM

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My regular getup is black trousers, grey hoodie and black sneakers.

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:28 PM

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They say I'll gain weight when j study I overseas or smt

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:28 PM

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Im all out

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:28 PM

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#manga-and-anime

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:28 PM

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So buying larger is okay

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:28 PM

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Get otaku role

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:28 PM

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@unreal oak haha uhuh

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:28 PM

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And ask away

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:28 PM

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I did but the place looks more dead than the streets

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During lockdown

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:28 PM

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Majeed just revived it

unreal oak Apr 4, 2020, 4:28 PM

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@unreal oak haha uhuh
@midnight crest that's either them wanting to save money on clothes

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or something to do with guys staring

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there's no other asian reason lol

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:29 PM

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asian reason

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:29 PM

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Prolly both

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So my high school was a private school that had a different uniform from the other schools

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And I went to get uniforms when I was 12

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5 years

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Never bought a new set

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:30 PM

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They were that big?

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And clean?

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:30 PM

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Yeah lmao

unreal oak Apr 4, 2020, 4:30 PM

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that's just your parents being miserly ngl

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:31 PM

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And now I just can't wear anything that even gives me a figure ig

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Potato sack fashion ftw

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:31 PM

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Lol

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I remeber wearing baggy in grade 5

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I tripped every 2 mins

unreal oak Apr 4, 2020, 4:31 PM

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i wore baggy till like 14

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:31 PM

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During winter in canada

unreal oak Apr 4, 2020, 4:32 PM

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then i found out that well fitting clothing looks better

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never went back

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:32 PM

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I have an unusual curse for tripping

tropic hound Apr 4, 2020, 4:32 PM

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most of the girls I know have a set of ground rules like
A) full length pants/trousers
B) full length sleeves
C) nothing that exposes any part of your body outside of hands and face

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:32 PM

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Ill fall given the chance

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Sounds asian to me

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:32 PM

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Mhm

unreal oak Apr 4, 2020, 4:32 PM

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most of the girls I know have a set of ground rules like
A) full length pants/trousers
B) full length sleeves
C) nothing that exposes any part of your body outside of hands and face
@tropic hound you live in qatar bro

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that probs explains it, the only people worse than asians at this are arabs

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:33 PM

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Asian stereotype is very much true in a lot of cases😔

latent onyx Apr 4, 2020, 4:33 PM

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why y'all talking about girls in the mental-support-group

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:33 PM

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XD

latent onyx Apr 4, 2020, 4:33 PM

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please go to the chat-lounge

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:33 PM

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I'm grateful that my parents are encouraging in studies and interests lmao

latent onyx Apr 4, 2020, 4:33 PM

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its more appropriate

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:33 PM

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Unless u wanna pursue it

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:33 PM

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Get a hint bro

unreal oak Apr 4, 2020, 4:34 PM

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i should probs leave tbh

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this is getting too depressing

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:34 PM

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ALevels is miserable for someone who wanted to study smt else ha

tropic hound Apr 4, 2020, 4:34 PM

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that probs explains it, the only people worse than asians at this are arabs
@unreal oak youd be surprised, most Arab girls I know go out wearing pretty much anything.

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:34 PM

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Oh sorry korthi

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Just have a lot to vent about

unreal oak Apr 4, 2020, 4:34 PM

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please dont apologize its not you

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its me, i think too much lmao

latent onyx Apr 4, 2020, 4:35 PM

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What every girl told me as they broke up wid me

unreal oak Apr 4, 2020, 4:35 PM

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@unreal oak youd be surprised, most Arab girls I know go out wearing pretty much anything.
@tropic hound even in the gulf?

latent onyx Apr 4, 2020, 4:35 PM

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its not you, Its me

tropic hound Apr 4, 2020, 4:35 PM

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yeah

unreal oak Apr 4, 2020, 4:35 PM

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ik british arabs are like that

latent onyx Apr 4, 2020, 4:35 PM

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@unreal oak Yeah dude, Arab girls aren't as uptight as u think

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no Arab Arab girls are more loose than you know

tropic hound Apr 4, 2020, 4:35 PM

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They are frowned upon by adults and most people, but it still happens

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over here Arab girls get away with pretty much anything

unreal oak Apr 4, 2020, 4:36 PM

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thats news to me

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all ive heard so far is the over conservative horror stories

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:36 PM

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its not you, Its me
@latent onyx bechara

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Relationship haram bro

tropic hound Apr 4, 2020, 4:36 PM

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of course, not all of them are like that, but most you see out in public are

latent onyx Apr 4, 2020, 4:36 PM

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@tropic hound Happened to you too huh? Got pulled into some random shit some random arab girl pointed at youo and said u did

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:37 PM

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I had that here in india what

latent onyx Apr 4, 2020, 4:37 PM

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@naive skiff my Life haram bro. It be like dat. What i do

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:37 PM

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Its not only arab grils

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Be halal bro

tropic hound Apr 4, 2020, 4:37 PM

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closest that happened to me was this girl saying I was staring at her

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:37 PM

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Its the wae

latent onyx Apr 4, 2020, 4:37 PM

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im tryinn man

unreal oak Apr 4, 2020, 4:37 PM

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@tropic hound Happened to you too huh? Got pulled into some random shit some random arab girl pointed at youo and said u did
@latent onyx that can happen anywhere

tropic hound Apr 4, 2020, 4:37 PM

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when really I was trying to read a sign after I forgot my glasses

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:37 PM

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XD

latent onyx Apr 4, 2020, 4:37 PM

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@unreal oak Fair enough

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:37 PM

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when really I was trying to read a sign after I forgot my glasses
@tropic hound wtf thats never happened to me

unreal oak Apr 4, 2020, 4:37 PM

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closest that happened to me was this girl saying I was staring at her
@tropic hound you have no idea how many times that has happened to me

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:37 PM

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But it is true that girls here get away with too much

latent onyx Apr 4, 2020, 4:37 PM

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me too

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:37 PM

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Whats weird is Ive found girls here staring

latent onyx Apr 4, 2020, 4:37 PM

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everywhere dude

unreal oak Apr 4, 2020, 4:37 PM

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my only crime was actually staring a couple times

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:38 PM

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Everywhere

unreal oak Apr 4, 2020, 4:38 PM

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after that i got accused of it for years

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:38 PM

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Oof bro that's harsh

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:38 PM

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Harsh

unreal oak Apr 4, 2020, 4:38 PM

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twas a small school

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:38 PM

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So you got called a pervert for years?

unreal oak Apr 4, 2020, 4:38 PM

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So you got called a pervert for years?
@north karma yes exactly

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:38 PM

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F

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:38 PM

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F

unreal oak Apr 4, 2020, 4:38 PM

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literally every crush i had rejected me for that reason

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and badly

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:38 PM

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Wow

latent onyx Apr 4, 2020, 4:39 PM

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F

unreal oak Apr 4, 2020, 4:39 PM

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to this day i have trust issues when it comes to girls

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:39 PM

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I hate rumours bro

unreal oak Apr 4, 2020, 4:39 PM

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sad

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:39 PM

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I wish i could type a bigger F

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But its not possible

latent onyx Apr 4, 2020, 4:39 PM

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@unreal oak I feel you dude

unreal oak Apr 4, 2020, 4:40 PM

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one of many reasons i chose to come all the way to the UK ngl

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essentially starting over

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:40 PM

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That's sucks dude

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:40 PM

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Hows uk then

unreal oak Apr 4, 2020, 4:40 PM

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had to cut out p much all my India friends

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:40 PM

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Im changing schools cuz of a bs rumour about me and cuz its cbse

unreal oak Apr 4, 2020, 4:40 PM

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Hows uk then
@north karma so far so good

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:40 PM

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Nicee

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:41 PM

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Tho I can somewhat understand how the girls feel

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Being someone who almost got into some bad shit before

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But doesn't justify them tbh

unreal oak Apr 4, 2020, 4:41 PM

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i agree me staring initally was wrong, i didnt know any better at the time

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having my character smeared permanently was not

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:41 PM

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Yeah but to be crucified after that sucks

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:42 PM

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I mean i get pissed when i see a kid staring at me in the bus

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:42 PM

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If you dont talk rumour if you talk rumour

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If you do anything rumour

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:42 PM

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But i domt bully them tbh

unreal oak Apr 4, 2020, 4:42 PM

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I mean i get pissed when i see a kid staring at me in the bus
@north karma you're a girl?

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:42 PM

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Nah

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:42 PM

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Lol

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:42 PM

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Its just a creepy vibe

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:42 PM

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Mine were more yikes cases but I handled them as quietly as possible

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:42 PM

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When someone stares

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:42 PM

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Ikr

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:43 PM

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Same

unreal oak Apr 4, 2020, 4:43 PM

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most guys will stop if you tell them politely the first time

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:43 PM

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That feeling sucks

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Aha no

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:43 PM

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Nop

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:43 PM

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Mine were grown men when I was like 13

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:43 PM

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Oof

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:43 PM

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Whos gonna do such an awkward thing tho

unreal oak Apr 4, 2020, 4:43 PM

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at least the guys ive seen

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Mine were grown men when I was like 13
@midnight crest why does this happen so much in SEA

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:44 PM

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Also some guys just don't understand no

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:44 PM

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Best thing is give em a glace with deadly eyes

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:44 PM

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@unreal oak not even

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Canada

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:44 PM

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Hmm

unreal oak Apr 4, 2020, 4:44 PM

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in desi countries the grown men would get slippered

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:44 PM

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Was visiting for my sis' graduation

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:44 PM

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Best thing is give em a glace with deadly eyes
@naive skiff bruv i had an entire staring contest

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:44 PM

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And we were travelling round the country

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:44 PM

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Trying that out was not a good decision

unreal oak Apr 4, 2020, 4:44 PM

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tbf tho its usually cos they dont realize how old you are

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:44 PM

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If theyre lil idc

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:44 PM

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We were in uhh Montreal i think

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Oh noooo

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:44 PM

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If theyre some what grown i would just ask whats their problem

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:45 PM

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I looked very much like a child

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:45 PM

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Ooo montreal

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:45 PM

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Oh mo it was with a kid

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:45 PM

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I still do

unreal oak Apr 4, 2020, 4:45 PM

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I looked very much like a child
@midnight crest at that point no justfications

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:45 PM

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They mustve looked at you cuz you were cute maybe?

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Or else that

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:45 PM

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Parents were buying smt

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:45 PM

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So how do animals feel when we stare at them

unreal oak Apr 4, 2020, 4:45 PM

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checking out a 13 year old is just fucked up

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:45 PM

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And my sis and I were outside waiting

unreal oak Apr 4, 2020, 4:45 PM

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unless you are 13 as well

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:45 PM

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What

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:45 PM

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Dude came up to me

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:46 PM

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Korthi man

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:46 PM

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He looked like he was in his 50s

tropic hound Apr 4, 2020, 4:46 PM

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why are we talking about this in mental support

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:46 PM

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Kept asking to be my friend

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:46 PM

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Cuz its a problem?

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Lol

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Thats

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:46 PM

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And wanted to give me "gifts"

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:46 PM

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Defo

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that

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:46 PM

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And tried to drag me away

tropic hound Apr 4, 2020, 4:46 PM

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👀

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wtf

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:46 PM

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Idk how you met a person like that in canada

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:46 PM

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Thank God my sister was with me

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:46 PM

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I've met all good peeps

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:46 PM

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@tropic hound using 0 percent of the cerebral capacity rn

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:46 PM

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Dude didn't even looked at my sis

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:47 PM

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Lol

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Sis to the rescue

unreal oak Apr 4, 2020, 4:47 PM

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Dude didn't even looked at my sis
@midnight crest good save there

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:47 PM

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Thats a great adv for elder peeps

unreal oak Apr 4, 2020, 4:47 PM

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you got stuck with an actual pedo

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:47 PM

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Tho you would've known right?

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:47 PM

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Parents came back before anything escalated tbh

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:47 PM

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Traumatizing

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:47 PM

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And he ran away

tropic hound Apr 4, 2020, 4:47 PM

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most thats happened to me is this old woman complimenting me in a plane

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I just put my earphones in

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:48 PM

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Ehh some stuff has happened to me

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:48 PM

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I would've @naive skiff but I was a weakass lmao he could've really kidnapped me

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There's other stuff as well

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:48 PM

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Call police

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:48 PM

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Shout

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:48 PM

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Or run into store

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:48 PM

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But sis there was great

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:49 PM

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Man talking about it now made me realize how many bad instances happened to me before lol

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:49 PM

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I've had my fair share

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Good thing i recognized and ran away or dad saved meh

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:49 PM

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Ah so everyone here has had a messed up childhood

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:49 PM

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Maybe

tropic hound Apr 4, 2020, 4:49 PM

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not me

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:50 PM

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Nah I didn't really care much about it

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:50 PM

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Only outside world

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:50 PM

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Or I was too dumb to realize it lmao

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:50 PM

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@tropic hound dont lie too mee

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:50 PM

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And thats some instances

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:50 PM

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Another one I can remember

latent onyx Apr 4, 2020, 4:50 PM

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Yea, we gotta form a club of some sort

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:50 PM

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Ik you sitting in your room alone

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Needing a hug

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:50 PM

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I think weve been talking for 2 hours

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Lol

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:50 PM

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I was uh 16(?)

tropic hound Apr 4, 2020, 4:50 PM

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yes I am

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I mean

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I'm playing destiny

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so issok

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:50 PM

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Man i have problem in socialising mostly

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:51 PM

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And I was volunteering with a few friends at our local donation centre

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:51 PM

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Thats how other stuff begin

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:51 PM

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Met a few new acquaintances there

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And there was this one guy specifically who was really enthusiastic about being my friend

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:51 PM

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And another one

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:51 PM

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And tbh I didn't think much of it

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:51 PM

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Oh god i see where this is going

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:52 PM

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He was uh 19-21??

tropic hound Apr 4, 2020, 4:52 PM

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Ik you sitting in your room alone
@north karma

📎 JPEG_20200404_195119.jpg

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:52 PM

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We got social media (WeChat)

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:52 PM

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Niceee

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:52 PM

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What thw heck

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:52 PM

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And after the donation thing he texted me pretty frequently

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And I was pretty much okay cool whatever at the time

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Didn't seem weird to me

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But not even 2 days later he started videocalling me

tropic hound Apr 4, 2020, 4:53 PM

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wow

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:53 PM

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And I was starting to get creeped out

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Tho at the time I just put it as me overthinking

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:54 PM

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Wow

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:54 PM

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Haha

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Nope

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He asked me really specific questions

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Do I have a bf

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Crush

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:54 PM

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WoW

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:54 PM

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Wowie

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:54 PM

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Wanna be good friends?

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And kept telling me how he didn't have a lot of friends and wanted us to hang

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At that point I just consulted my friends and my friends said, yep creep block

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So it didn't escalate to anything thankfully

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:56 PM

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You should write a book about your life

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:56 PM

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Lol nah it's not that interesting

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:56 PM

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Itd be kinda sick ngl

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:56 PM

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Guys

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Next tomato timer

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:56 PM

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My friends have some pretty bad stories with creeps as well

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:56 PM

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Periodt

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:56 PM

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YES

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 4:56 PM

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Tuesday tt with salt

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:57 PM

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but the question is

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:57 PM

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Pfft

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:57 PM

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does @midnight crest have a mic

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And is he willing to talk

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:57 PM

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Lol

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Nah I don't have much interesting stories

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Am very much a normal person

north karma Apr 4, 2020, 4:58 PM

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Not in a bad way

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But knowing myself

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You are not the norm

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And you have more stories than i think you do

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 4:59 PM

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Hehe sorry to disappoint but not really

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But I will tell my grandkids if I have any that I survived the plague

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 5:00 PM

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no

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I will make antidote

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wait

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 5:01 PM

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"there was a time that being outside was illegal"

naive skiff Apr 4, 2020, 5:02 PM

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yes

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there was a time

midnight crest Apr 4, 2020, 5:03 PM

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Anyways what about cliff

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Okay

haughty ibex Apr 5, 2020, 5:29 PM

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Anyone arnd?

solemn jackal Apr 5, 2020, 5:29 PM

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meh

haughty ibex Apr 5, 2020, 5:29 PM

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I had a couple questions which seemed fit only fr this channel

naive skiff Apr 5, 2020, 5:29 PM

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I am

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Ask em away

haughty ibex Apr 5, 2020, 5:29 PM

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Okay so the situation is like this

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Im a nerd by nature and as a result most people dnt rlly enjoy being friends with me n they dnt bother to get to know me well n so i dnt have a lot of like close friends or even friends

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My best friend however he is extremely social and has so many friend circles you wouldnt even believe it

solemn jackal Apr 5, 2020, 5:30 PM

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everyone is unique

haughty ibex Apr 5, 2020, 5:31 PM

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So my first question is that is it weird if i feel like it doesnt make a difference to him when im not arnd?

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As he can easily just replace me with another person from his 15 person inner circle

tropic hound Apr 5, 2020, 5:31 PM

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everyone feels like that sometimes

solemn jackal Apr 5, 2020, 5:31 PM

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no it is not weird at all

naive skiff Apr 5, 2020, 5:31 PM

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everyone has their own ways

haughty ibex Apr 5, 2020, 5:31 PM

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Well the feeling sucks

solemn jackal Apr 5, 2020, 5:31 PM

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Yeah I feel that always

naive skiff Apr 5, 2020, 5:31 PM

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same

solemn jackal Apr 5, 2020, 5:31 PM

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it does suck

haughty ibex Apr 5, 2020, 5:32 PM

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Cos its like u need that person when u r in a problem

solemn jackal Apr 5, 2020, 5:32 PM

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but

haughty ibex Apr 5, 2020, 5:32 PM

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But they manage fine without u

solemn jackal Apr 5, 2020, 5:32 PM

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you gotta play life like a game

haughty ibex Apr 5, 2020, 5:32 PM

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So u cant rlly like reciprocate what they do fr u n its jus an awful feeling

solemn jackal Apr 5, 2020, 5:32 PM

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the only one that really help you are your parents

lapis quartz Apr 5, 2020, 5:32 PM

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Facts

unreal oak Apr 5, 2020, 5:32 PM

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@haughty ibex I relate so bad ngl

haughty ibex Apr 5, 2020, 5:33 PM

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Yeah...

solemn jackal Apr 5, 2020, 5:33 PM

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everyone does man

naive skiff Apr 5, 2020, 5:33 PM

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I've been antisocial due to that nature only

unreal oak Apr 5, 2020, 5:33 PM

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I'm an introvert, but most of my closest friends are extroverts

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Weird how that happens

solemn jackal Apr 5, 2020, 5:33 PM

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I mean I would not exactly call my close friends close

haughty ibex Apr 5, 2020, 5:33 PM

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And that brings me to my second question...no matter how much i try i cant seem to help my best friend as in he doesnt need me at all so how do i like...help him i guess? Or how do i pay back whatever hes done fr me

naive skiff Apr 5, 2020, 5:34 PM

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you don't have to force yourself to pay him back for how he's helped you

unreal oak Apr 5, 2020, 5:34 PM

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^

haughty ibex Apr 5, 2020, 5:34 PM

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I want to

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I genuinely want to

unreal oak Apr 5, 2020, 5:34 PM

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I understand the feeling

naive skiff Apr 5, 2020, 5:34 PM

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That can lead to problems too yk

unreal oak Apr 5, 2020, 5:34 PM

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But remember it isn't an expectation

naive skiff Apr 5, 2020, 5:34 PM

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I understand how you feel

haughty ibex Apr 5, 2020, 5:34 PM

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Yeah youre right

unreal oak Apr 5, 2020, 5:34 PM

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And will just give you pain to hold on to in the long term

naive skiff Apr 5, 2020, 5:34 PM

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I've done it too

haughty ibex Apr 5, 2020, 5:35 PM

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Yup makes sense

naive skiff Apr 5, 2020, 5:35 PM

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maybe you being there is all they need?

haughty ibex Apr 5, 2020, 5:35 PM

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Maybe

naive skiff Apr 5, 2020, 5:35 PM

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But see

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don't always doubt everything

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that's a real bad thing

haughty ibex Apr 5, 2020, 5:35 PM

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Okay

naive skiff Apr 5, 2020, 5:35 PM

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and when you start doubting friendships and all

haughty ibex Apr 5, 2020, 5:35 PM

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Ill try not to

naive skiff Apr 5, 2020, 5:35 PM

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it can potentially ruin it

haughty ibex Apr 5, 2020, 5:35 PM

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True

solemn jackal Apr 5, 2020, 5:35 PM

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true

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what all has the friend done for you?

haughty ibex Apr 5, 2020, 5:36 PM

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Well said

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Been there for me innumerable times when i needed to vent

solemn jackal Apr 5, 2020, 5:36 PM

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I mean I don't really care about my friends

haughty ibex Apr 5, 2020, 5:36 PM

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Made me feel better when i dint know how to make myself feel okay

naive skiff Apr 5, 2020, 5:36 PM

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I've not had much friends in life but only 2 of them I keep dear to me and they understand how I feel I keep changing school or countries and it's hard making friends because you doubt how the other'll turn out

solemn jackal Apr 5, 2020, 5:37 PM

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yeah

haughty ibex Apr 5, 2020, 5:37 PM

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Yea

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Well thanks a lot guys

naive skiff Apr 5, 2020, 5:37 PM

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just don't stress it

haughty ibex Apr 5, 2020, 5:37 PM

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I feel better yall💙

solemn jackal Apr 5, 2020, 5:37 PM

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gg

naive skiff Apr 5, 2020, 5:37 PM

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what

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life is not a game bro

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if it was I would've used all the cheat codes

haughty ibex Apr 5, 2020, 5:38 PM

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tysmmm @naive skiff @unreal oak @solemn jackal

naive skiff Apr 5, 2020, 5:38 PM

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No problem

haughty ibex Apr 5, 2020, 5:38 PM

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Gonna head out byeee peeps

naive skiff Apr 5, 2020, 5:38 PM

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cya

sullen pumice Apr 6, 2020, 3:06 AM

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I know Im fairly late but this reminded me of a conversation I had with my best friend

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Where shes the one with a small social circle and I know and hang out with a lot more people

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And she was talking about how she sometimes worries that shes not that important to me because i have so many friends etc etc

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and what i ended up telling her and what i also think you know is that a larger social circle doesnt really mean that youre ‘replaceable.’ if your friend makes the effort to talk to you and be close with you despite the fact that they have a large social circle, that more often than not means they do care about you and choose to develop their relationship with you instead of hanging out with random people

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@haughty ibex oops this got v long but i hope u feel better

naive skiff Apr 6, 2020, 3:11 AM

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Damn

haughty ibex Apr 6, 2020, 3:14 AM

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@sullen pumice I do feel a lot better thanks...it’s good to hear frm the other side of the situation too

sullen pumice Apr 6, 2020, 3:14 AM

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💜💜

haughty ibex Apr 6, 2020, 3:14 AM

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😊

tropic hound Apr 7, 2020, 6:56 AM

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@everyone

naive skiff Apr 7, 2020, 6:56 AM

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I think you got warned or something for posting that

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BUT Y'ALL EBIC

tropic hound Apr 7, 2020, 6:57 AM

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wait what

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I didn't get warned tho

naive skiff Apr 7, 2020, 6:57 AM

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verbal warning

mild compass Apr 7, 2020, 7:44 PM

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here is a video if you are mentally stressed

midnight crest Apr 13, 2020, 8:51 AM

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How do I even explain to my brother that i can't remember a single thing I did yesterday, let alone what I studied

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Man I don't know

📎 IMG_20200413_165222.jpg

solemn jackal Apr 13, 2020, 8:54 AM

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bro so I am just gonna say this that studying does not always mean remembering

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It is also about how well you understand the concept

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try to study by practically doing it

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or watch a video explaining the same

tropic hound Apr 13, 2020, 8:57 AM

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@midnight crest yeah, talking to family is really hard.

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I'm a lot more open with friends than I am with family

midnight crest Apr 13, 2020, 8:58 AM

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I've been practicing on questions

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Yeah same

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But man I barely remember anything I did the past few says

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Days

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I can't recall what I did yesterday

latent onyx Apr 13, 2020, 9:02 AM

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It happens bro

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its the stress gettin to you

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try to take a breather and like ya know

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a small break where its just you and all the voices around u are ebbing away

tight egret Apr 13, 2020, 9:11 AM

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ive been rllyy sadd lately

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and i cant alk too any ofmy friends because i dont want to be that depressing person i rlly dont

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iam going throug this massive depressive episode

tropic hound Apr 13, 2020, 9:13 AM

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everyone has their days

tight egret Apr 13, 2020, 9:13 AM

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rn

tropic hound Apr 13, 2020, 9:13 AM

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it happens to all of us :/

tight egret Apr 13, 2020, 9:14 AM

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ik

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but i am rlly tried of this

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like why cant i be fkn normal

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for once in my life

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ive been like this for as long as i can remember

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and i lose it sometimes

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i rlly do

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i am rlly afraid ill lose it

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although ik i wont do it to myself

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abig part of it is my parents i just cant do that to them no matter what

solemn jackal Apr 13, 2020, 9:20 AM

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you are normal

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take it out of your mind that you are not normal

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Parents are your only support at this point

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you need to trust them

tropic hound Apr 13, 2020, 9:27 AM

#

Being sad and feeling like this is normal

naive skiff Apr 13, 2020, 9:34 AM

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like why cant i be fkn normal
@tight egret ain't everyone normal
people say others are unique and all but everyone is equal
everyone has equal importance
everyone goes through stuff once in their life time
which changes them but change is normal for everyone
so don't you dare say you aren't normal everyone is the same regardless of anything
(well i don't know if this is actually proper wording)

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feeling emotions is what makes you normal

solemn jackal Apr 13, 2020, 9:39 AM

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hmmm well said

muted pond Apr 13, 2020, 4:29 PM

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How do I stop overexerting and exhausting myself on a daily basis if I can't reduce my workload?

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It's making my life excessively dull and I can't do anything with full motivation... I literally have no breathing space to relax.

latent onyx Apr 13, 2020, 6:00 PM

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Honestly man, i would love to know the answer to that too

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i just bore through it for now in hopes of a brighter days

muted pond Apr 13, 2020, 6:13 PM

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I just want to play one game for one simple relaxing hour with my friends but instead it's an eternity of broken promises

tropic knoll Apr 13, 2020, 6:13 PM

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@muted pond can totally relate :c

muted pond Apr 13, 2020, 6:14 PM

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F

latent onyx Apr 13, 2020, 6:14 PM

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hey mhan, I'll play witchu if u like

muted pond Apr 13, 2020, 6:15 PM

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That's not the problem

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The problem is I don't have the time to play myself

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I'm the one breaking the promises

latent onyx Apr 13, 2020, 6:17 PM

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damn mna

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thats rough

naive skiff Apr 13, 2020, 6:21 PM

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I dont want to say this but

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You have no time to play but time to talk on discord almost everytime

muted pond Apr 13, 2020, 6:23 PM

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Yes but you never see me talking for longer than maybe 15-30 minutes

naive skiff Apr 13, 2020, 6:24 PM

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But then you pop right back up in the next 15 mins

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(I dont want to be harsh sorry if I am)

muted pond Apr 13, 2020, 6:25 PM

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That is procrastination while I work

naive skiff Apr 13, 2020, 6:25 PM

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That's the reason you have no time

muted pond Apr 13, 2020, 6:25 PM

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Which is exactly the point I'm trying to make - I am forced to procrastinate considering how dull life has become from my excessive work

naive skiff Apr 13, 2020, 6:25 PM

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Hmm

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First off make a schedule and do your work then

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Try adding some space for a hour of gaming

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Be adi

muted pond Apr 13, 2020, 6:26 PM

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I wish there was a custom facepalm emoji but there isn't

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Wait

#

blobfacepalm

naive skiff Apr 13, 2020, 6:27 PM

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||heh||

muted pond Apr 13, 2020, 6:27 PM

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I appreciate you trying to help, but following a routine/schedule has not solved my problem

naive skiff Apr 13, 2020, 6:27 PM

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I mean how much work you got

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Lemme get an Idea first

muted pond Apr 13, 2020, 6:27 PM

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I think this is better discussed elsewhere then

naive skiff Apr 13, 2020, 6:28 PM

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Kk

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Just one thing Make time for yourself to relax

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Its important

cosmic ginkgo Apr 13, 2020, 6:30 PM

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take #semi-colon if you want

naive skiff Apr 13, 2020, 6:30 PM

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Else you'll go through the same cycle

cosmic ginkgo Apr 13, 2020, 6:31 PM

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and eat well

naive skiff Apr 13, 2020, 6:31 PM

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Yes

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Or you will starve to death from studying

muted pond Apr 13, 2020, 6:31 PM

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Thank you , will keep in mind

cosmic ginkgo Apr 13, 2020, 6:33 PM

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sleep well too ;-;

muted pond Apr 13, 2020, 6:34 PM

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Oof that's unfortunately the most difficult part

latent onyx Apr 13, 2020, 6:56 PM

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Atleast lie down

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and close ur eyes

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even if u dont fall asleep

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you still are resting everything so you dont get weak too fast

muted pond Apr 13, 2020, 7:03 PM

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Lmao today I just dozed off in my chair (very painful for neck) cause of economics

earnest hollow Apr 14, 2020, 11:51 AM

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exams were cancelled tho

mild compass Apr 14, 2020, 3:58 PM

#

What is the Purpose and Meaning of life?

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I dont know

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Help me

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Why am Not able to achieve my goals?

muted pond Apr 14, 2020, 4:18 PM

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As for the first question, for some it's 42, for others it may be starting a sustainable family, or maybe having a positive impact on the globe which lasts

In other words, it's relative. You decide who you want to be and what your purpose is, and you're the one who make it reality and give it meaning.

tropic hound Apr 14, 2020, 4:20 PM

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Why am Not able to achieve my goals?
@mild compass because life is a challenge that tries to make you feel this way

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what happens next is down to you

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you will fail

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many times

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but it will result in success if you keep going

muted pond Apr 14, 2020, 4:21 PM

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As for the second, if you're unable to achieve your goals, try to assess why:
Are you too ambitious? Perhaps you're stepping stones but the every stone is spaced too far - attempt smaller tasks that you can manage, and build up from there. More smaller successes add up to more than very few big ones with a ton of failures
Is there something you don't know? Are you lacking in skill? Focus on improving that before you get back on chasing that goal
Are you procrastinating or getting bored/stressed too much? Take a break, have a KitKat, or just relax, might help you to start every day with a fresh mind. Well strategized breaks are necessary. Not too many, not too less.

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Only you can tell why you're failing. Step back and analyse. It's difficult for others to give an accurate reflection of what you're going through. Only you can do that

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@mild compass good luck for whatever goals you're chasing

haughty ibex Apr 14, 2020, 4:59 PM

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@muted pond analysiis on point brother

muted pond Apr 14, 2020, 5:02 PM

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👍 hope this applies to and helps others too

mild compass Apr 15, 2020, 5:10 AM

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@muted pond Thanks

muted pond Apr 15, 2020, 5:11 AM

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Np

north karma Apr 24, 2020, 11:58 AM

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1puR8jGK03A

YouTube

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Tough time never last only tough people last, bo demi demi

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Facts

solemn jackal Apr 24, 2020, 12:00 PM

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hmmm

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you found it

north karma Apr 24, 2020, 12:00 PM

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Taff time neva last

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Only taff people last

north karma Apr 25, 2020, 3:07 PM

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Guys please help

#

Lately ive been getting bullied by a group of people

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Ive been very depressed as well

naive skiff Apr 25, 2020, 3:09 PM

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Are the bullies your friends or just random people

north karma Apr 25, 2020, 3:09 PM

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I wouldnt call them randomn

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I think he goes by the name adi

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He calls me a weeb whenever i say something

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Its honestly sad

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😔😔

naive skiff Apr 25, 2020, 3:10 PM

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okay my intuition was correct

cursive spruce Apr 25, 2020, 3:10 PM

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lel

naive skiff Apr 25, 2020, 3:10 PM

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I know hayzen can never be sad

north karma Apr 25, 2020, 3:10 PM

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And mushu

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She keeps throwing chappals from the other side of the earth

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I dont even know how at this point

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It hurts a lot too

naive skiff Apr 25, 2020, 3:11 PM

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||I don't wanna low blow but this chat is for actual serious stuff||

cursive spruce Apr 25, 2020, 3:11 PM

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its prett simple actually

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physics time.

naive skiff Apr 25, 2020, 3:11 PM

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just let them be a happy couple

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periodt

north karma Apr 25, 2020, 3:11 PM

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Just when i least expect it

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BAM

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Chappal

cursive spruce Apr 25, 2020, 3:11 PM

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aahh

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what else have u got?

north karma Apr 25, 2020, 3:11 PM

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Yes pious ik the physics

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The mommentum of mushus chappal

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Stays constant

cursive spruce Apr 25, 2020, 3:11 PM

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and the velocity needed

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to travel around the globe

north karma Apr 25, 2020, 3:12 PM

#

And some of it gets transferred to me

#

Knocking me back

cursive spruce Apr 25, 2020, 3:12 PM

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without goin to space

north karma Apr 25, 2020, 3:12 PM

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Very big hurt

cursive spruce Apr 25, 2020, 3:12 PM

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so newtons third law applies

tropic hound Apr 25, 2020, 3:25 PM

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lmaoo

muted pond Apr 25, 2020, 3:25 PM

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guys this channel is for serious stuff. Some people genuinely need help. Please don't clutter it with this nonsense

tropic hound Apr 25, 2020, 3:25 PM

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But guys #chat-lounge this place is for serious boys and girls

mild compass Apr 25, 2020, 3:29 PM

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Uhh I've got an online test in 15 days but I've been slacking for the past 2 days, legit dk what to do with myself

#

I feel so guilty but at the same time I'm not doing anything to improve my situation :')

#

Need some advice huhu

#

I feel so hopeless

tropic hound Apr 25, 2020, 3:36 PM

#

disconnect yourself, think of your study sessions as a detox from the internet and stuff

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before you start studying, set goals for what you want to do in what amount of time

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I'm no study expert or anything but little things like this have helped me quite a bit

muted pond Apr 25, 2020, 4:07 PM

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Ask yourself why you're not doing anything to improve your situation

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Find the root causes

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Eliminate them

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Proceed

mild compass Apr 25, 2020, 10:57 PM

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Okays will try it out

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 8:40 PM

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Hi guys

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I want to order one support and two chocolate milkshakes

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And add extra depression cure

tropic hound May 6, 2020, 8:51 PM

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@thick blaze keep it serious in here mate, this place is for people who need help and for us to give it to them.

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 8:52 PM

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Ok

#

Umm

#

So

#

I will take a huge sum of subjects in november

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One whole al and one ig

#

Plus I will take the SAT hopefully in September

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Which Im not sure how im supposed to do all those

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And Im really scared

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But I know that this is the right thingg to do and I cant decrease the load

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And I thought what if I begon studying from now

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The session usually starts in July

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So

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I need motivation to begin studying

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And working hard

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Coz I know working hard from early can reduce stress further on

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So I need motivation to start studying and to endure the challenge

north karma May 6, 2020, 8:55 PM

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(Bro even ur depression comes in a story huh)

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 8:55 PM

#

Wut?

#

What story

#

What depression

north karma May 6, 2020, 8:55 PM

#

Ok nvm

#

Lemme read this paragraph real quik

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 8:55 PM

#

I think I used to have depression in the May june session lmao it got cancelled thank god but I think Im happy rn

north karma May 6, 2020, 8:55 PM

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And see if i understand anything

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 8:55 PM

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Relatively happy

north karma May 6, 2020, 8:56 PM

#

Uhhh motivation is tough

#

What i do is caffeine

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Or anything that makes me chill

#

My messages aint goin thru

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 8:56 PM

#

I need to raise my SAT score by about 100 somehow

north karma May 6, 2020, 8:57 PM

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What i do is caffeine

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Aight its fine now

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 8:57 PM

#

I dont take caffeine

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Lmao

#

I dont know why but my parents say no

north karma May 6, 2020, 8:57 PM

#

Ummm

#

Reward yourself

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 8:58 PM

#

Neither tea nor coffe nor smoking nor drugs. Thank god I dont do drugs coz if i did id be hella worse I mean look at me without drugs hahalmao😹

north karma May 6, 2020, 8:58 PM

#

Or just make up motivation

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 8:58 PM

#

How

north karma May 6, 2020, 8:58 PM

#

Like find a goal

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 8:58 PM

#

What kind of reward

north karma May 6, 2020, 8:58 PM

#

Or rationale

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 8:58 PM

#

Goal?

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A*🙂

north karma May 6, 2020, 8:58 PM

#

Cuz at this point no1 can give you motivation

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 8:58 PM

#

Another thing

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I want to find a hobby

north karma May 6, 2020, 8:58 PM

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U just have to make it for urself

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 8:58 PM

#

After thinking

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I think Im hobbylesz

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Hobbyless

north karma May 6, 2020, 8:58 PM

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Try things

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 8:58 PM

#

How to get a hobby

north karma May 6, 2020, 8:58 PM

#

Ig

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Its just trial and error

next sun May 6, 2020, 8:59 PM

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and whether u enjoy or not

north karma May 6, 2020, 8:59 PM

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Anything that looks lowkey fun

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Just try it out and see

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 8:59 PM

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I hate programming and debugging so I dont like the idea of trial and error😅

north karma May 6, 2020, 8:59 PM

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Whenever u have time

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 8:59 PM

#

🤔

#

Are memes considered a hobby?

north karma May 6, 2020, 8:59 PM

#

Making yes

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 8:59 PM

#

I want something more real than browsing memes

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No

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Not making

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😐

north karma May 6, 2020, 9:00 PM

#

Honestly i dunno at this point

#

Plus its getting kinda late

#

So imma turn in for the day

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Gn

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 9:01 PM

#

Whats getting kinda late

north karma May 6, 2020, 9:01 PM

#

The day.....

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 9:01 PM

#

Kk bye sis sweet dreams

#

Dont let the bed bugs bite you

north karma May 6, 2020, 9:01 PM

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Oi im a man

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 9:01 PM

#

Ok bye sis

#

Dont let the bed bugs bite you

north karma May 6, 2020, 9:01 PM

#

Breh

#

Aight gn

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 9:01 PM

#

Bye sisman

next sun May 6, 2020, 9:02 PM

#

xD

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 9:02 PM

#

Only sises go to sleep early

#

The plural of sis

north karma May 6, 2020, 9:02 PM

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ITS 1 AND I HAVE SCHOOL LEAVE MEEE ALOOONE

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 9:02 PM

#

Ok bye gn

#

My school did us a favour and we finished very early

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Like two weeks ago

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Before that I was almost dying from stress but I guess thats better

next sun May 6, 2020, 9:03 PM

#

we still hv school but aint nobody taking virtual classes

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 9:03 PM

#

I love my school it’s very odd

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Ok

#

You didnt give me motivation giys

next sun May 6, 2020, 9:04 PM

#

bcuz u dun want motivation

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 9:04 PM

#

😦

next sun May 6, 2020, 9:04 PM

#

it seems like u wanna procrastinate until u feel guilty then actually get motivation from somewhere and start working(?) i mean this happens to me a lot so
shrugs

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 9:04 PM

#

🤔

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Excuse me but whats procrastinate

next sun May 6, 2020, 9:05 PM

#

getting lazy

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 9:05 PM

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Is it like acting “no work”

next sun May 6, 2020, 9:05 PM

#

not doing anything

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 9:05 PM

#

So yes yeah

#

😂

#

Yeah a lot man

next sun May 6, 2020, 9:05 PM

#

see, i know

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 9:05 PM

#

But

#

I guess

#

Procrastinate is still considered a problem

#

That needs to be cured

#

By mental health support so I guess yeah

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Now

#

Give me motivation not to process

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Procrastinate

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Sorry autoco

#

Auckelanxbjabc

next sun May 6, 2020, 9:06 PM

#

procrastination cant be cured unless the person decided to not procrastinate and forces him/her self to start smth

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 9:06 PM

#

Wow

next sun May 6, 2020, 9:07 PM

#

Auckelanxbjabc
@thick blaze xDD

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 9:07 PM

#

That was the kind of motivation I was looking for

next sun May 6, 2020, 9:07 PM

#

yw

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 9:07 PM

#

Ok continue im listening

#

Wait no dont stop😠

next sun May 6, 2020, 9:07 PM

#

what else u wanna hear wth

#

im saying

#

eliminate the distractions

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 9:07 PM

#

You appear to be a wiseman

#

Give me from your wisdom

next sun May 6, 2020, 9:08 PM

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so u ll be less tend to procrastinate

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 9:08 PM

#

Distractions, eliminate🤔 ok

next sun May 6, 2020, 9:08 PM

#

set a goal it doesnt hv to be big, start w/ smol steps

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 9:08 PM

#

Got it

next sun May 6, 2020, 9:08 PM

#

get over w/ the work and reward urself

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 9:08 PM

#

A*🙂

next sun May 6, 2020, 9:08 PM

#

thats what everyone do

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i mean most ppl do

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 9:08 PM

#

B*🤔

next sun May 6, 2020, 9:08 PM

#

wth xDD

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 9:09 PM

#

Oh

#

So like

#

Divide chapters

#

And set timetable goals?

tropic hound May 6, 2020, 9:09 PM

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@thick blaze when you wake up in the morning, right down what you want to get done that day. then, tick the things that you finished. that way it will make you feel bad when you have unticked stuff, pushing you to finish everything.

next sun May 6, 2020, 9:09 PM

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smth like that

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 9:09 PM

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Please mod dont ban me please

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Oh you were helping thanks

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(Pheww)

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Ok

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Gotcha

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Stop procrastblah
Eliminate distractions
Make timetable

tropic hound May 6, 2020, 9:10 PM

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yep

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its gonna be hard

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just keep pushing

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 9:10 PM

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So instead of ordering two milkshakes I want half a kilgoram of each please🤣🤣

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Thanks guys

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Ima execute

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Thanks for helping

cosmic ginkgo May 6, 2020, 9:11 PM

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Make ZNotes proud zozz

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 9:12 PM

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K

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It was such an awkward sentence but I guess it translates to do your best

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I mean

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Why would I want to make Znotes proud. Cringe

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But ok thanks Ill do my best😊

next sun May 6, 2020, 9:13 PM

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Why would I want to make Znotes proud. Cringe
@thick blaze xDDD

cosmic ginkgo May 6, 2020, 9:14 PM

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Cuz you're an esteemed member of this server

thick blaze May 6, 2020, 9:14 PM

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Wow

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Wholesome insult

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Ok Ill make Znotes proud. I guess

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😬

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Ok guys thanks very much and bye

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See you later

cosmic ginkgo May 6, 2020, 9:15 PM

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How's that an insult

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GUTEN LUCKIES

tropic hound May 6, 2020, 9:15 PM

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😂

naive skiff May 6, 2020, 10:52 PM

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cuz you said it

long meadow May 8, 2020, 12:42 AM

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ouch totally relatable @thick blaze

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good luck to us both

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im literally losing sleep thinking bout it

thick blaze May 8, 2020, 1:56 AM

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Good luck to us all

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All of the beanies

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Except 6w9 coz he cringe

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And jaanu cos he creates evil bots

long meadow May 8, 2020, 1:58 AM

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:(

leaden rain May 8, 2020, 2:00 AM

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how do you guys remain calm before an exam or test?

long meadow May 8, 2020, 2:01 AM

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its like if u did study then u r calm

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if u didnt study and is stressed then u will freak out and havetummy cramps

leaden rain May 8, 2020, 2:02 AM

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I still have that feeling im gonna fail

long meadow May 8, 2020, 2:02 AM

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my experience

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I still have that feeling im gonna fail
@leaden rain its ok i believe u if u study

leaden rain May 8, 2020, 2:02 AM

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yeah i have those cramps

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ok thanks

long meadow May 8, 2020, 2:03 AM

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believeeee

humble pulsar May 8, 2020, 2:11 AM

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Why jaanu why :(

midnight crest May 9, 2020, 11:25 AM

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I'm about to implode man

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What the fuuuuuuck

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The teachers are as clueless as we are maaaaan

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"wait and see"

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Wait and see my butt wei cibai

vivid coral May 9, 2020, 11:28 AM

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ayyy cibai lancau teachers PeepoThink

midnight crest May 9, 2020, 11:28 AM

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Just move us to November la so easy solution oso kenot do

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Walao stop giving us vague "idk lol" answers and give us solutions gdi

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Hhhhh I wanna flip a table and cease to exist

thick blaze May 9, 2020, 12:32 PM

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Dw bro

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Relatively bro

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Dont be sad

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Just do your best

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There is no info

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The only info is

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Do your best

muted pond May 9, 2020, 1:17 PM

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Guys. If you are ever in a troubling situation, all you need to do is say to yourself in your mind or out loud:
"Aal iz well"
"Apna time aayega"
And whatever else motivates you

midnight crest May 9, 2020, 1:32 PM

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Garam anday

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Chappal in the face

naive skiff May 9, 2020, 2:09 PM

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All is well reminds me of 3 idiots

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But being happy is good

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Cambridge is annoying af so just calm down

keen kestrel May 9, 2020, 9:15 PM

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your "internal voice" has a fixed volume

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Thank me later

tropic hound May 9, 2020, 10:29 PM

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offer support

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go sit next to them

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talk to them

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but dont force them to speak

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sit next to them, ask them how they're doing, and remain silent if they choose not to answer

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people need someone to talk to

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so dont leave them

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stay there unless they explicity tell you to leave

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they will talk

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company helps people open up

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but dont force them to speak

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if they dont want to speak, remain silent.

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oh in that case

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in their point of view, it probably is soothing

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check up on them daily

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ask them how life is going, ask them how their studies are going, how their job is going, everything

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tell them how its not going to solve anything

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although i havent had experience of this with online friends but i have with IRL friends

midnight crest May 11, 2020, 12:26 PM

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Bro......

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I'm ready to just gtfo what the hell

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Teachers won't answer our questions for the exams

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We're not asking "hey yes can we get the answers to page 5 of the paper"

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We're just asking if they're sticking with the mock plan they told us a few days ago or nah

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And how are we supposed to do the exams

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They aren't even clear on that

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I'm so done wtf

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And I have to go back to work on Wednesday

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And the government??? Fucking said we can't force ppl to wear masks???

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Nor can we refuse them service?????

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What the hell man we're gambling with our lives here cus we can't afford to close and we have to serve these fuckasses?

north karma May 11, 2020, 12:38 PM

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-firstly, schools are like this theres basically no transparency so theres no choice but to get used to that typa shit
-secondly, for work ig either dont go or just go wearing a mask or something

midnight crest May 11, 2020, 12:38 PM

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Fucking hell

north karma May 11, 2020, 12:39 PM

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Thats all i can say

midnight crest May 11, 2020, 12:39 PM

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Can't skip work and I already have everything prepared

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And for the first part, bro we don't even know how our exams are gonna work and they won't answer that either so we're fucked if we don't follow what they want

north karma May 11, 2020, 12:40 PM

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Hmmm

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Just study for everything in no particular order

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Like whats the hardest subject-easiest subject

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Cuz u dk whats coming first

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Schools not gonna shit

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Schools gonna stay dumb like forever

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Just gotta pray shits gonna get better

naive skiff May 11, 2020, 12:45 PM

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Just calm down

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The more stressed a person is the more it'll affect them

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You have to go to work and all of that

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So first of all keep a healthy mind

north karma May 11, 2020, 12:52 PM

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^^^^^^^^^^^

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Slightly ignore whatever i said

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Waffles has a better approach

midnight crest May 11, 2020, 1:06 PM

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I'm done tbh

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Just wanted to vent big time

naive skiff May 11, 2020, 1:39 PM

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Thats fine were here to listen to you anytime

midnight crest May 12, 2020, 4:15 AM

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I'm crying

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We did a test exam thing

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To set up how we're doing the mocks

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And the teacher gave us 2 questions to answer

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I should know it

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I practiced the hell out of it

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But I completely froze up and I couldn't think at all

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And I just couldn't answer

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I'm so ashamed that I couldn't asnwer

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The teacher is scolding us cus we couldn't answer

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And I'm like fuck I know how to do it but I couldn't do it then???

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I'm so frustrated that I just froze up

solemn jackal May 12, 2020, 4:21 AM

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did you leave?

midnight crest May 12, 2020, 4:22 AM

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Ehat

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We're not done yet so not yet

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Okay I'm done

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I can't believe I panicked so hard

haughty ibex May 12, 2020, 5:23 AM

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Hey it’s okay

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It happens to the best of us

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Just take a deep breath, calm down and remember you’re at home and in the comfort and safety of your own house and no one is going to intimidate you by breathing down your neck as you solve your paper so just stay calm and you’ll do great! @midnight crest

north karma May 12, 2020, 12:48 PM

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Guys hakase said i needed help

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Halp

naive skiff May 12, 2020, 12:50 PM

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#bot-stuff-2 and #bot-stuff-1

proven pond May 12, 2020, 12:50 PM

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you need to pay in cash
before we start oir therapy session

naive skiff May 12, 2020, 12:50 PM

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please refrain from unnecessary talk in here

keen kestrel May 12, 2020, 12:57 PM

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waffles if i ever meet u irl

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ur dead peepopcorn

naive skiff May 12, 2020, 12:57 PM

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ok

humble pulsar May 12, 2020, 1:41 PM

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You don't need help hayzy

north karma May 12, 2020, 2:30 PM

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Thank you tatsuki but im waiting for the punchline

languid sierra May 12, 2020, 4:24 PM

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How do i save someone from depression ?

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That someone isn’t a person close to me though

muted pond May 12, 2020, 4:44 PM

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To do that you need to give a long term commitment

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There's no simple solution to depression, if genuine

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If you aren't close, I doubt there is much that can be done besides giving them motivation and showing that you care

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But even that helps, so perhaps that's where you can start

languid sierra May 12, 2020, 4:57 PM

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Hmmm, yeah i figured it be difficult

north karma May 12, 2020, 5:13 PM

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Make him happy

languid sierra May 12, 2020, 5:19 PM

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Surely you jest

north karma May 12, 2020, 5:21 PM

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Holy is this one of the nobles

tropic hound May 12, 2020, 5:21 PM

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"saving" someone from depression is almost impossible, from my experience

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just talking to them every day, asking how they feel, and offering your support goes a long way though.

naive skiff May 12, 2020, 5:21 PM

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^

languid sierra May 12, 2020, 5:22 PM

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Noted

north karma May 12, 2020, 5:23 PM

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Wait rixz depression?

tropic hound May 12, 2020, 5:23 PM

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hm?

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no i dont go through any of that myself.

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i do regularly go through periods where i think about the world and its situation

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and how far we've gone, yet how much we've fallen

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basically i think of the situation of the world alot.

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and what i could do to help people.

naive skiff May 12, 2020, 5:25 PM

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Lol

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I've experienced it by going through it

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Usually no one helps you

tropic hound May 12, 2020, 5:26 PM

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but i have talked to and helped people going through depression

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or similar stuff

naive skiff May 12, 2020, 5:26 PM

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Or i must just be surrounded by stupid people

north karma May 12, 2020, 5:47 PM

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But when we ask u say no

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😔

cosmic ginkgo May 12, 2020, 6:12 PM

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@north karma the channel is for serious convo and you know that, respect it please.

north karma May 12, 2020, 6:12 PM

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Hmmm ma bad

humble pulsar May 12, 2020, 7:19 PM

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Shame of you hayzy

thick blaze May 13, 2020, 11:03 AM

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Guys

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What’s the difference between sad and depressed

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How to identify both

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And does being desperate one of both?

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(Not asking for present self nor someone else)

muted pond May 13, 2020, 11:07 AM

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Depression includes eternal sadness as one of its components I suppose

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Meanwhile sadness in general is just unhappiness with your present situation. It is usually temporary and you know why you're sad. You usually don't know why you're depressed since it normally results from a combination of many various factors

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Sadness is usually easier to identify than depression

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I think

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Don't know about the desperation part

thick blaze May 13, 2020, 11:10 AM

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Kthx

mild compass May 14, 2020, 7:37 AM

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Go watch Davie504 therapy sessions

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Slap like now

naive skiff May 14, 2020, 7:41 AM

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Slap it now or you will have bad time

mild compass May 14, 2020, 7:52 AM

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He's very friendly

coarse raven May 16, 2020, 11:55 AM

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that was such a nice joke that you deserve to be banned from this channel. this isnt the place for any shit talks. @wooden elm

naive skiff May 16, 2020, 11:56 AM

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.-.

midnight crest May 19, 2020, 12:51 PM

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Hey

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Honestly speaking I really thought that I'm mentally okay but apparently not

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Had a pseudo breakdown today from exams and I'm just so tired of all this

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All this effort for a degree I don't even see myself using

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I feel like I'm pushed to the brink

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In the fact that I know I'm underperforming but my family insists that I'm doing okay and did my best

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But then turn around when I dont do what they think is my best

tropic hound May 19, 2020, 1:01 PM

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It happens to everyone. Problems pop up in life and barriers are everywhere but we as humans have the means to get past those

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In the end, everything that happens is for a reason and you'll appreciate the hard work you put in today, for the end product a few months or maybe years later

muted pond May 19, 2020, 1:02 PM

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Hello I am IB

tropic hound May 19, 2020, 1:02 PM

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shut up hayzy

north karma May 19, 2020, 1:02 PM

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Oh

muted pond May 19, 2020, 1:02 PM

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Hayzy this is a serious channel

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Don't send your taff time video again

midnight crest May 19, 2020, 1:03 PM

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I do not appreciate I'm slaving over something I don't even see my future in let's be honest

north karma May 19, 2020, 1:04 PM

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Dont accept it until u try it

midnight crest May 19, 2020, 1:04 PM

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I chose the degree I wanted to purse to appease my parents I'm gonna be real

tropic hound May 19, 2020, 1:04 PM

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hmm

north karma May 19, 2020, 1:04 PM

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Get degree then do your own thing

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Cuz youll be free then

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And earning on your own

midnight crest May 19, 2020, 1:06 PM

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Didn't have a care for it then, only chose it for the vague interest I have for it at most

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Hell I didn't even like the fact that I went into science stream and thrown into advanced classes that ultimately didn't give me any advantage other than not having free time

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Idk man for once I'll actually say I really hate doing all of this while clinging onto the one hope that everything would be over soon and I get to move on

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And i know it's morbid or edgy or whatever but the most I'm looking forward to is to see if I'll actually live past 25 since i was 15

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If I do live past that without incidents I wouldn't know what I'd do by then

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Anyways I'm done here guys thanks for the vent space I promise I won't show up here for the next couple of months or so

naive skiff May 19, 2020, 2:19 PM

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Anyways I'm done here guys thanks for the vent space I promise I won't show up here for the next couple of months or so
no else you won't feel good

muted pond May 19, 2020, 2:26 PM

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Yeah

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Venting is good for health

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If anything you should come here more often

midnight crest May 20, 2020, 12:04 PM

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If anything you should come here more often
@muted pond nah I don't really have much to rant about lol

azure grail Jun 2, 2020, 4:34 PM

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how do you take things lightly?

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someone really pinched it out of me and i got furious. But I know i cant be violent so all im left is with this anger after I said hey thats not cool

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the more i think about the incident the more angry i get

haughty ibex Jun 2, 2020, 4:46 PM

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@azure grail give yourself time

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And if it doesn’t go away, try doing a physical activity which u find difficult

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For me that’s pushups

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Or if that doesn’t work then just cry and let all the emotion out

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It gets better with time

naive skiff Jun 2, 2020, 5:10 PM

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someone really pinched it out of me and i got furious. But I know i cant be violent so all im left is with this anger after I said hey thats not cool
@azure grail I can relate I used to be a hot head before but it took time to take things lightly.
First you gotta understand the person is joking with you and if someone just lightly taps your head or something that may make you furious, just laugh it away (unless they're seriously annoying you with that that's a diff. case).Just relax and chill I know I'm not really making much sense but laugh it out instead of being angry.Also, crying it out doesn't really make much a difference cuz it's not really impacting you emotionally besides annoying you, so try doing different stuff and forget about what you did and like mikasa said do something physical and Time always heals stuff.

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if its something serious tho

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then talk to them about it

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I've done that and the person stopped doing x thing

azure grail Jun 2, 2020, 5:19 PM

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thanks guys

naive skiff Jun 2, 2020, 5:39 PM

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No prob

north karma Jun 2, 2020, 6:20 PM

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Ive kinda been hot headed too recently

muted pond Jun 2, 2020, 6:20 PM

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However there are some things which even time won't heal and some people who are so shit that they keep repeating their annoying nonsense for years even after you talk to them seriously which isn't really viable to 'give oneself time' and 'wait it out' cause you'd be harming yourself by bottling up the rage. In cases like that they will inevitably pester you for a long time (personal experience) and the only solutions I can think of are A) reporting the person if they've done some real horrible things (not recommended since it may lead to you becoming an outcast if the person is well ingrained in your social group) or B) wait it out so that person is just out of your life permanently, like once you go to college.
Just make sure you don't suffer. Find ways to vent your frustration, be it here to us or through exercise like mikasa said. Crying is definitely not a long term healthy situation.

north karma Jun 2, 2020, 6:20 PM

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Idfk what to do

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I just calm ma self down

muted pond Jun 2, 2020, 6:21 PM

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Find a healthy way to attain dopamine

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Exercise, gaming good sources

north karma Jun 2, 2020, 6:21 PM

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Thats only excerise

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Gaming isnt healthy long term

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My dopamine just consists of caffeine or gaming

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Or problem solving stuff

muted pond Jun 2, 2020, 6:22 PM

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Yeah exactly but if you can't push yourself to do exercise then blobshrug

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Caffeine isn't healthy long term either

north karma Jun 2, 2020, 6:22 PM

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Eh its upto you ig

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Ik it isnt

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But i kinda need it

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My days dont start without them

muted pond Jun 2, 2020, 6:23 PM

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That my friend is called addiction

north karma Jun 2, 2020, 6:23 PM

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Maybe ill stop caffeine during summer

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That my friend is called addiction
@muted pond yes im a slave to caffeine

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We have established this before

muted pond Jun 2, 2020, 6:24 PM

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So are some people to gaming, very difficult to get out of such habits

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What worked for me was long term projects, leaving no time to game, sort of a replacement. Don't know what'd work for caffeine though. Have you tried water?

north karma Jun 2, 2020, 6:30 PM

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I can control caffeine if i want to

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Its not the dopamine

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I use caffeine to stay up

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And be productive

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Once summer vaca begins i wont need it

naive skiff Jun 2, 2020, 6:49 PM

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Just eat chocolate

stray burrow Jun 4, 2020, 6:27 PM

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This gonna be my home from September onwards.

humble pulsar Jun 4, 2020, 6:28 PM

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This is not your home bro this is discord

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Chatty

stray burrow Jun 4, 2020, 6:33 PM

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This is not your home bro this is discord
Hmmm, this is so meta.

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Make me thy disciple, o wise guru.

pallid ember Jun 6, 2020, 1:43 AM

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lol

midnight crest Jun 6, 2020, 5:49 AM

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I'm actually really fucking mad rn

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Someone in another discord server just shared that they're being stalked by a dude

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And instead of giving proper advice it feels like the others do not understand the gravity of the situation

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"my dad and friends are hackers"
"I'm near a plane ticket"
"I'll go beat them up/kill them"

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NO

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SOMEONE IS LOOKING FOR ADVICE AND GENUINE HELP AND YOU'RE GIVING USELESS CONJECTURE

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And when I gave actual advice
"Oh she doesn't need to change her routine for this measly thing, don't let it affect here"

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Are you fucking kidding me

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Yeah sure tell the victim to brush of actual advice and listen to your bullshit fanfic plot reasoning

haughty ibex Jun 6, 2020, 6:06 AM

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Aww @midnight crest I’m sorry that girl had to go through that and I’m sorry that those stupid dumheads didn’t listen to her but you did good in giving her actual concrete advice okay?

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It’s okay to be mad at them for being insensitive but you tried to do the right thing and that’s what matters

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She will remember u as the one person who actually helped her when she needed it and I’m sure u made a difference which is what counts

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Making a positive difference in someone’s life is a huge deal and you were able to do it so good job!

midnight crest Jun 6, 2020, 6:09 AM

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No I just DMed her and gave her police and legal advice

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Been resolved but I'm so mad about it

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I'm not even mad that they brushed off my advice, I'm mad they gave shitty advice like what the fuck someone's life and safety is at stake here

haughty ibex Jun 6, 2020, 6:20 AM

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I'm not even mad that they brushed off my advice, I'm mad they gave shitty advice like what the fuck someone's life and safety is at stake here
@midnight crest

It’s okay but you were able to help her and there are always gonna be stupid people in the world