venting

[languid musk]

💀

[restive bridge]

shi I live with my grandparents, and so my parents are living with their parents, in their 40s

[mint blade]

hello im lonely i need friends

jk

[languid musk]

us bro

[torn yarrow]

"there's a difference between, a want and a need" -Selena Gomez

[mild compass]

That's a basic thing no need to quote someone's name many people know before that person

[torn yarrow]

T-T it just reminded me of that song bro...it was litt outta context..

[mild compass]

OK I was also just saying

[torn yarrow]

ok

[upbeat jolt]

@torn yarrow @mild compass say sorry to each other

And kiss

[unreal shadow]

aint no way you quoted selena gomez

[craggy aurora]

and I thought you retired

[torn yarrow]

yes i did. 🙃

[torn yarrow]

?el wot?

[languid musk]

what

[mild compass]

Why

[hollow oyster]

dont go to uni

[cosmic ginkgo]

Someone's under a deadline

[lament cloud]

HA

[cosmic ginkgo]

😂😂😂😂

[hollow oyster]

🤣 🔫

[unreal shadow]

exposed

[mild compass]

I started this year off doing really well, then I messed up a few times. Now, I've messed up really badly for the yearly exams. I'm so scared I won't rank this year.

[mild compass]

trust me don’t be anxious, i’m certain you tried your best and that’s what matters the most
i’m sure you’ll rank this year and if not, you can try again for the 2nd, 3rd or 4th time until you make it

when it comes to studies you shouldn’t blame yourself for not doing too well, dont see that fault and make yourself feel even more low until the extent where you think you’ll get the same grades again

we grow from failures and that’s a part of life, not just academic wise

try your best from now on and i’m sure things will go smooth, good luck

[clever zinc]

i think im drowning in alevel

i mean the teachers are now moving at a fast pace and even if i ask for help them act as if im stupid

i just feel so demotivated

escpially in mathematics we convered all fo paper 3 in 1 month

all of it

he jusr reguritated formulas and said oyu can figure it out from there and i just dont know anymore

this makes me feel like maths isnt for me

[chilly solar]

thats normal

[chilly solar]

fair

[chilly solar]

if you dont understand why these formulas come to be you can always search up the derivation on google or smth

to help you better understand where they're from

[chilly solar]

and you are in A2 so ofc they'll be moving at a fast pace , they need to cover the syllabus + have some time for practice at the end

try to follow along , if you cant , devote your free time to pre learning the material before the class even happens so you can follow along with them + ask in class

[mild compass]

Thanks :D

[green venture]

Gave +1 rep to zvelo#0

[stray sable]

What is love?

[mild compass]

manipulation and brainwashing, don’t fall for it

[wintry rampart]

right now, i really wanna cut ties with my dad for good

cause he fucking lied to me by faking astroke

i was crying when i knew that he "had" a stroke

so think block him on facebook messenger

i used to be very close with him

now it's torn

all that distress for a wad of cash that meant nothing to him

i do not want to reconcile cause i know that i'll be stuck in the same loop

where i get loved and deceived all of a sudden

[mild compass]

this is one of the worst feelings anyone can experience

id say cut him off

[wintry rampart]

i am cutting him off

[mild compass]

life is short, people like that will only deplete your lifespan

[wintry rampart]

only responding to his message under short prompts

like "yes" and "okay"

[mild compass]

alright that’s good

[wintry rampart]

to make it look that everything's okay

[mild compass]

it doesn’t matter if you no longer have a ‘father figure’ bc this is something no one deserves and you’re better off without him

personally if i were you it’s a straight up strong block

one thing i despise the most is when people lie

[wintry rampart]

me too

[mild compass]

even if it’s family or my partner, i’ll lose affection for them in a matter of seconds

atb you you @wintry rampart
i hope you’re in good terms with your mom, you can talk to her about this whole thing

[wintry rampart]

me and my mom's at good terms

less fights

[mild compass]

Cutting ties with one of ur own blood is smth almost everyone regrets, they are not angels and are not perfect, but the way I see it is that family members were chosen to be put together and bonded by a very special way in this life for a purpose and that is to stick together, bc no matter how many good friends you think u have , ur family will always be there for u ig and ur bond with them will always be stronger than anything else, so it's normal to have disagreements and stuff , but please do not decide to cut them off just bc ur in an anger moment were u might not be thinking rationally

[wintry rampart]

i'm not angry at all, and i rationally think that cutting ties with my dad would save me from some of the suffering that i experienced after he faked that stroke

[mild compass]

Well ur free to do wtvr u want in the end

[placid folio]

im haveing a mental breakdown over my marks
theyre all A grades
but theyre not upto any of my standards

wth

ive even got a competitor in the same home

[languid musk]

A is actually really good, especially in higher levels

[mild compass]

You want to cut off ties with your dad did you raise yourself up did you pay all your expenses and are you even paying your expenses even now. Think of it and if you're Muslim think of it more and more because in Islam its not allowed to cut ties. You never know why he did that

[mild compass]

First be thankful for that you have then work for higher marks and be patient.

And why get mental breakdown as if you failed sometimes I don't do good but still happy then try better for next time

[wintry rampart]

i'm roman catholic

well, my mother pays for all the expenses

cause i live under her doorstep

[mild compass]

I guess it's also not allowed

[mild compass]

I don't really understand your issue but I really advise you not to cut ties especially with your parents

[serene mica]

I'm with this guy

I mean sure your suffering is great

And faking a stroke is like??? Idk why would someone do that

I'd say you shud really reserve youeself

Not interact with him too much

Cu he's ruined the relationship already

But cutting off ties is like completely ending things which is a lil too much

We need each other after all

And family bonds shouldn't be this easily broken

Idk your true suffering tho since Idk your circumstances fully

[hollow oyster]

Don't age past the age of 18

worst mistake of my life

[serene mica]

Man chill

I'm about to turn 19

Don't scare me

Man stay hopeful there's better days to come

Time doesn't stay the same always

It's good smtms and smtms bad

It's ups n downs all the way

Live every moment ig

Cuz that's life

And stay strong stay patient at least try your best during the bad times cuz nothing more you can do just give your best let the rest unfold

[cunning cave]

depends on the general relationship

cant say whether its too much or not on one situation

[serene mica]

Yeah

[cunning cave]

generally, in some situations, cutting all ties is the best solution

[serene mica]

We know the least about their circumstances

[cunning cave]

yeah

[serene mica]

But smtms we think that's it it's over that's too much that's unforgivable but forgiving and giving ppl a chance smtms makes things better

[cunning cave]

@wintry rampart try to talk to someone close to you or knows the situation well

[serene mica]

Some ppl dont deserve that sum really do change but again we don't know their situation

[cunning cave]

might give more insight on the situation you know

also might find some comfort

at the end do whatever you feel/think is best

[serene mica]

Yes best advice

[serene mica]

Yes

[cunning cave]

I dont mean this as a response to this situation but more of giving a general view; mentioning expenses or parents raising their kids when someone has parental issues isnt right. It more of neglects the situation in hand, seemingly providing excuses for someones behaviour or whether certain actions shouldnt be taken because hey, they did that

we should be grateful for everything, i agree

but to use being raised or paid for as a counterargument for family issues helps with nothing

in a way, thats their job and certain behaviours shouldnt be tolerated just because they raised you

[cunning cave]

you also shouldnt give advise when you dont understand the situation or just dont know enough of it

can be misleading and neglectful as general advice doesnt apply on specific situations

anyway i mean this purely as constructive criticism

dont mean any harm

[mild compass]

suffer and burn

[hollow oyster]

I aint readin all that

[unreal shadow]

🤣 🤣

[unreal warren]

^ what da hell was all that crap

[wintry rampart]

i've already talked to a therapist, and he told me that i didn't need to cut him off

i guess i'll just ghost him instead

[mild compass]

y’all do NOT deserve my amazing therapy

😠😢

anyways guys i need advice neow

how to build motivation

i’ve tried showing myself the traumatising grades i got

[mild compass]

didn’t work

after praying fajr ofc

you sleep

it’s only 3:40 am

are you my neighbour

omg?

my long lost demotivated twin

wait you’re in A2?

doing igs

or do u just like red

oh my all the best

sounds like abuse

better pray tahhajud today n ask god to save u😭

[undone kite]

Shitting in school

My mental capacity is being tested

[torn yarrow]

...astagfirullah...god bless, bro

[mild compass]

Set greater life goals imo

[mild compass]

my goal is to live a peaceful life

[torn yarrow]

study=stable job=enough funds to support urself(and/or family if u want) = peaceful life

[mild compass]

okay thanks

i am now motivated to strive for more!

[mild compass]

i love chicken wings.

[mild compass]

i agree with this and what you deleted ukhti

i stand with abuse when it comes to this.

ik this girl who legit started laughing after i said something very controversial, everyone was serious ☠️

that’s the last time the whole school interacted with her

they needa be humbled

killed

not humbled

that too 🙏

[mild compass]

i needa show you a convo rq

dms

oki doki

[serene mica]

Biggest lie ever told don't buy that nobody

[torn yarrow]

lol ok

[languid musk]

did you say (and/or family)

[placid folio]

dude im not at all bothere dabout my marks
its about how my peeps reacted to it
thats killing me
ltrlly the teacher be like whats wrong with u
u werent sick so....
and yeah ur right i shud be grateful
and i am...
idk im just confused in tht state

dude pls aim for higher than U

[placid folio]

not if u have a smarter sibling in the same grade
apparently its not

[hollow oyster]

Dont become a math major

[quaint hound]

OMG LOL I thought he was saying that to you sheeeesshh

[lament cloud]

*Don't become Stats major

Math major is tough but mostly rewarding

Stats is just fuckery

[torn yarrow]

yes?

[languid musk]

lmao ok

dw about it

[torn yarrow]

😂 i mean depends on the person, no?

[languid musk]

true that

[hollow oyster]

math, I cannot locate the rewarding

[quaint hound]

aham

[lament cloud]

Ok some math is cringe I agree

[placid folio]

dude i did too
but i dodged it

[full flax]

Number wer

[slim lake]

😭

[placid folio]

hey @slim lake
u alright
i notice two crying emojis lately
and thought to ask u

that feeling when u find out your friend is a pick me girl

ughhhh

she uses u only to get close to ur bros friend
tht messed up
and me who knows my bros friend extremely well giving her the side eye

wth wrong with tht woman

[mild compass]

guys im suffering from major skill issue. What do i do

[torn yarrow]

everything.

[torn yarrow]

cope.

[solar marsh]

I need a break from everything

Like

Literally everything in life rn

How to i take a break like this

Like

Even for one day

I just wanna do nothing but let my mind roam free

[placid folio]

yup u summarized all her probs in one word

[placid folio]

anything wrong

i thought ur love life just began

[torn yarrow]

lmao some ppl behave differently when theyre infatuated, that doesnt define them, we should allow them to have their phase

[placid folio]

true
but as a muslim sending love letters and stuff not acceptable

plus the guy
or shud i say guys shes hitting on

are from good families

whom i personally respect
and i wouldnt want her messing with them and creating unnecessary probs

no worries my dad gonna inform his dad cuz she already did stuff to him

[torn yarrow]

well if ur close with her, personally tell her what u think abt her behaviour

not in a sarcastic, joking or mocking way

[placid folio]

i was

not anymore

[torn yarrow]

with actual concern

[placid folio]

ik ik better

[placid folio]

i did and she refused

[torn yarrow]

oh

[placid folio]

so thts why we apart now

[torn yarrow]

well then ur work here is done

[placid folio]

yeah with me and her

since my dad friends with the guys dad
dads gonna speak bout this

khalas

im out of it

[torn yarrow]

ooof

lol gl

may the odds be ever in ur favour

[placid folio]

nah may i be out of it

anyways gl with life

cyz later

[torn yarrow]

✌️

[solar marsh]

Not love life

Well

Ig life is just moving too fast to manage all at once rn

[placid folio]

That feeling when you want a break

Girl I feel you

I was praying exactly for that
And Alhamdulillah it rained

Meaning school holiday

But yeah just pray for things to get better
Inshallah everything will be alright for you soon @solar marsh

And if u need me my dms always open bestie

[mild compass]

no

[quaint hound]

https://tenor.com/view/tom-hardy-wink-flirty-gif-11788321

[mild compass]

wiat no the original message was deleted it was some nitro for free sth

that's what I said no to

[quaint hound]

u rlly want smth like nitro

[mild compass]

no lol that's why I was like "no"

looll rightt it was so fake like obv they wouldn't give free nitro

[obtuse vector]

what happened to the venting jokes this channel used to get

[mild compass]

Damn ok

[torn yarrow]

(jklol) better.

[upbeat jolt]

Y'all just ping me if you need advice

I'm like a certified therapist (I'm a good listener)

[torn yarrow]

dam

[mild compass]

Certified therapist, where do u get a certificate for that

[solar marsh]

Ty gurl

[solar marsh]

Thanks for this

[green venture]

Gave +1 rep to studentig#0

[solar marsh]

I needed to hear it

[clever zinc]

i hate my maths teacher

i tried the whole try and liek them

but hes awful

he used to be patient and kind now that we are doing apper 3 he doesnt evencare to take time

he says its your baby ?

like you are supposed to teach me the concept properly

now im staying up stressed just because he maybe feels laxy to teach

i dont know

its stressing me out

im stress eating and gianign weight

im not in the best place mentally atm

[worldly palm]

being good at math mostly comes from enjoying it and studying it yourself, not from completely relying on your teacher

dont bring yourself down to the level of your teacher and look for resources online

[unreal shadow]

^ very reasonable advice

except i dont think you have to enjoy it to become good at it or do it

at this level at least

teacher does help but not needed, there's many tutorials on youtube some done by even better teachers

[placid folio]

anytime gurll
u were there for me when i was down
and ill be there for u

[solar marsh]

Aww

[quaint hound]

why cant a single frikin person in this world randomly compliment me once a decade

i swear this world would be better without me im a waste of everything

its been me 2 months im not talking to my parents
if suicide was halal
id think ab it
i came back from school today and got into a bad argument w my brother
my mother just made us hug rn before maghrib so i feel better
im going bad at school
idk how many years left to get out of this and fall into what
i js have no idea whats going on
world would be better without me

and yes, the only things I do perfectly is

water
bath
software
block every person who texts me (I get a text once a month anyway)

dont ping me on this

and lecture me

on how i matter

just kindly shut up and mind ur own business

im just using this venting channel

[mild compass]

you are beautiful, even if you don’t hear it often

[mild compass]

OH GOD THAT ESCALATED

i’m so sorry to hear that

alright listen, i’ve been through times where i thought ending it all would be the best option, i just felt so detached to reality until i finally gave into getting closer to my deen and alhamdulilah, it saved me.
i can confidently say that if i didn’t try that i wouldnt have been here right now

from this experience there’s one thing i can share w you
it gets better. i promise

so don’t think about doing stupid stuff even if they’re just temptations

[quaint hound]

my grandathers the only person who said that once

[mild compass]

i swear you’re beautiful, as long as you have a good soul.

[quaint hound]

and it was my first time i heard smth like that so i believed it

[mild compass]

how bout that

[quaint hound]

and i actually felt it

and that was a mistake

a bad mistake

[mild compass]

felt what?

[quaint hound]

i mean i took it serious

thought he meant it

idk i was getting ready or smth he walked in and said i look handsome

no one else ever said it to me, and that was my first time

so i thought he was being real

i know it was js fake but i felt good for years after that

tho i knew it was just a lie

[mild compass]

wallahi, you’re beautiful
so is everyone, just because you don’t ultimately match the standards of what’s defined as ‘attractive’ to the society doesn’t mean anything

[quaint hound]

i know i know

i nicely know

[mild compass]

how do you know he lied?

[quaint hound]

but im just hurt

i was overweight when i was 10 or smth

and when i used to go to pk during vacations

the looks all my reltives gave me werent pleasing

[mild compass]

you were probably cute😭😭 he wasn’t lying kids are adorable

[quaint hound]

ive thought of killing myself many times

before i was like 14 or so

since then

i never considered killing myself coz firstly its haram

so simple

even if im to suffer

ill suffer

secondly, ill hurt my parents

ik they wont understand me every but still

thirdly ill do the worst of the worst before ill kill myself

[mild compass]

who gives a shit? this is so universal
don’t overthink about how others see you

[quaint hound]

anyway, now for im in shape and i dont have those pathetic bodies all those idiots do

[quaint hound]

i know exactly

but i was a kid back then

and they hurt me bad

[mild compass]

arub, pray tahhajud and spill out everything

[quaint hound]

idc ab them now

[mild compass]

it’s the past now, let it flee

[quaint hound]

but i cant change what happened and how i feel

its like growing with a dent in u

u cant fix it

u can change no doubt

but u cant un-dent something

its to remain there 4ever

im going to pk for some wedding in 2 months and i know ill be the most rude and ill mannered teen

and im perfectly fine coz i hate everyone

[mild compass]

so i do understand why you feel like that

eventually you’ll realise all these thoughts about how others feel about you are irrelevant

[quaint hound]

i know

they are

its js a waste of time

everything

including me

so sorry for wasting ur time here

[mild compass]

i’ll give my honest ah opinion

[quaint hound]

i dont need it ionno who u are

[mild compass]

it’s not wasting?? i’m helping a brother out

[mild compass]

alright bro wtv floats your boat

[mild compass]

listen

[quaint hound]

and yes theres a reason i texted this

[mild compass]

just because you were treated like absolute dog in the past doesn’t mean you should show the same attitude they showed against you

[quaint hound]

im not showing them any attitude

[mild compass]

because you know you’re the better person between you and them

[quaint hound]

im js not interested to talk

[mild compass]

just don’t be rude

[quaint hound]

share my thoughts

sit w them

laugh

idc

[mild compass]

alright that’s fair enough

[quaint hound]

js get off

ionno who they are

dont expect stuff from me

like they'll call u once a year right before and after ur exams

thats all they care ab

they dont care ab literally nothing else

and thats the reason i dint tell anyone my ig results and i love keeping them hanging and curious

when they dont care ab my mental health, life, physical and emotional condition

w u want with exams?

nerds and geeks

go marry ur books then get off

[mild compass]

who gives a shit about that lol? i haven’t interacted with my relatives in 3 years no matter how much they wish to see me
i barely interact with my parents and siblings and i’m totally fine?
at the end of the day it’s you and Allah

[quaint hound]

true but whats disturbing me is

i have rights over my parents and they have rights over me

[mild compass]

so don’t seek for validation in people who will only disturb your heart

[quaint hound]

im not talking to them idk why

and today i just did

im forcing myself

coz if i die

ill be asked for this

coz my parents r worried ab me

tho i know im fine they shouldnt care ab me

[mild compass]

then there’s still enough time to change as a person

[quaint hound]

but its not genuinely possible

[quaint hound]

i am yes

[mild compass]

help out your mom in the kitchen, go to the masjid with your dad

it’s the small things they appreciate so much

[languid musk]

🔥

[mild compass]

oopsies ^_^

[obtuse vector]

People say this a lot in venting places, but you gotta understand when you come here and share your troubles, people will at the very least help you think more positively, or even just sympathize with you.. its almost a given, and you can't avoid it. Better this than to surround yourself with more negative thoughts, cz then what's the point of venting if the only way others can interact with it is with a depressingly cynical mindset, right?

[mild compass]

how can i not? ur literally going through a lot
no matter how much a soul wishes to isolate itself from everyone else, on the inside they’re always seeking for kind words

[mild compass]

tell em

[sharp furnace]

A list of suicide prevention hotlines, in case you need to talk to someone: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_suicide_crisis_lines

[quaint hound]

sure thing but im not depressed, i never be... ty tho

[untold brook]

What exactly are we supposed to do in the channel

Like what topic are we supposed to talk about here

[obtuse vector]

for people to vent about their frustrations

[untold brook]

Ahh i see

[untold brook]

Thanks

[green venture]

Gave +1 rep to u211#0

[obtuse vector]

yw

[arctic girder]

im burnt out lol how do i deal w thhat

[cunning cave]

when are your next exams

cuz you should take a break if youre burnt out you know

and youll be better

hopefully

also try manage your time as much as you can to get more stuff done with less time so youre not as tired or burnt out

[sharp furnace]

There are times when I look at the sky, and I realize that I am the only one around me who does not see blue, only this gray and dark color just like the clouds or like the sea, but I can’t help it, life is a handicap of which there is no cure. And then this feeling of being in a loop, yesterday is tomorrow, today is already nothing ... So I look at this sky again.(||and suck my toes||)

[mild compass]

is this what you were searching on chat gpt yesterday

what you actually wrote is the last 4 words I gurantee

[sharp furnace]

u think i would use chatgpt for stuff like this😭

[mild compass]

makes sense but I'm still curious💀

[sharp furnace]

lmao im not gonna write something deep and end it without a twist

[sharp furnace]

lmao i just learned a lil bit of yapanese

[mild compass]

congratulations

[mild compass]

💀💀💀

[upbeat jolt]

from a brown household

[placid folio]

thanks for being amazing and keep religious
mashallah may god bless u

[green venture]

Gave +1 rep to arub#0

[mild compass]

Aiyo then everyone around me is a certified therapist then

[mild compass]

sometimes

it’s like

why do people work so hard? once they achieve their goal then what’s after that? happiness? but how long is that gonna last

i have no desire to set a goal

i cant help but wonder if i’ll ever be satisfied or just be genuinely happy

life just feels like a loop

i believe that every person has a purpose

but other than that why is it that i’m convinced i’ll never be

i can’t explain it

but balls

[placid folio]

lol

[placid folio]

...

[cosmic ginkgo]

The journey is as important if not more important than the goal

You might see it right around the corner but you could get knocked out by a million things on the way and every one of those things teaches you something

That's what's more important than you actually getting there

What you learn on the way, the people you meet, the experiences you have

There were 350 people in my cohort, most people end up with a physics degree at the end but we all had such varying journeys and learnt such different things that it'd be a disgrace to Equate all of them

The bad times teach you even more than the good times, as cliche as that sounds

[unreal shadow]

people need a house

and food to eat

and drink

and clothes

you think all of this is easy to get lol

you don't get that for free

nor does it happen by accident

hence why a goal is needed to achieve that

[sharp furnace]

Happiness is subjective, my kitten. It's about finding contentment, peace, and joy in the little moments and appreciating the journey. Sometimes, it's not a destination but an ongoing process(rep pls)

[green venture]

Sniped!

you think all of this is easy

Edited by sdmale#0

[languid musk]

can confirm (I ain't reading allat) thanks pookie

[green venture]

Gave +1 rep to bigtingsschlongs#0

[languid musk]

balls

[obtuse vector]

thanks

[green venture]

Gave +1 rep to bigtingsschlongs#0

[mild compass]

Bestie nothing in this life is going to bring you eternal happiness bc this life was not made for us to enjoy actually, we have a greater purpose to work for in this life to achieve a better eternal life after we die (where it's totally different and worth it). And basically about u wondering if u'll ever be "satisfied" or " genuinely happy" ... There will be some times when ur very happy and content yes, many of them as well. But don't expect that such satisfication and happiness will last. That's why pple who do not believe in an other eternal life after death and thus do not have a greater purpose, work so damn hard in this life for satisfaction and happiness hoping it's gonna last and they have no other choice but to do so, even if there lives are endless loops.

[mild compass]

appreciate it, thank you ❤️‍🩹

[green venture]

Gave +1 rep to aishwarya#0

[mild compass]

probably the smartest thing you’ve said so far i’m pleasantly surprised
thank you 🙏

[green venture]

Gave +1 rep to bigtingsschlongs#0

[mild compass]

thank u bestie i meant i never found true happiness in people, activities or places,
just in prayers where i can rant about the whole world
not that it matters anymore our whole purpose in life is to work hard for the akhirah that’s for sure
May Allah make it easy for us ameen 💗

[green venture]

Gave +1 rep to notacatlover#0

[cosmic ginkgo]

happiness isnt the same for everyone and thats okay but it is nice to appreciate the little things in life

some people like to do gratitude journalling where they write down 7 things they're grateful for at the end of each day

and it forces you to keep an eye out during the day for nice things so that you have stuff to journal about

[placid folio]

wow this decent statement from you
unbelieveable

[placid folio]

thank you @sharp furnace

i dunno it aint working for me
no rep ....message..

[green venture]

Gave +1 rep to bigtingsschlongs#0

[sharp furnace]

WWWW

[torn yarrow]

i can understand why ur name is "mom"

r u muslim? (if u dont mind me asking)

[mild compass]

Yesss thankfully

[torn yarrow]

oh cool, same

[upbeat jolt]

Ong

[placid folio]

anxious and feel like crying
but wth dunno wht the reason is

feel like im gonna vomit out the butterflies in my stomach

it feels worse than real pain

[silver loom]

take some deep breaths, focus on your breathing for a bit. Maybe drink some water if that helps. It's alright to not feel great at times. You say you don't know what the reason is, why not try talking to Allah? Make a sincere du'a take it all out, do some dhikr it could really help

[placid folio]

thanks dude

[placid folio]

yeah mum gave the same advice

been doing tht

[silver loom]

no worries, hope you feel better soon

[green drift]

So i have been having this feeling for quite a few days now.. Im frustrated and i keep crying and i dont have anyone to talk to. I feel like im not good... I feel awful.. im bad at everything- I suck. Everything i do goes wrong. When i look myself into mirror my brain constantly repeats "Youre ugly" and indeed.. im not good looking- Im not good at socializing, im afriad of people. I suck at studying too even though i work so fucking hard and put everything into it no matter what.. I always end up losing and i keep getting thoughts that im just.. bad. I feel like killing myself and die sometimes. I didnt had anyone to talk to, so i just.. spit it here hoping that somebody would help me- i cant do anything. Im tired of myself.. idk what to do

[placid folio]

thanks

[green venture]

Gave +1 rep to alwaysnostalgic#0

[sharp furnace]

@slim lake im sure u can relate

[slim lake]

tbh what are u doing in venting

[sharp furnace]

i wanna help ppl better themselves (reps)

[slim lake]

[sharp furnace]

🙃

[slim lake]

help this member instead of pinging me for funny tsk

its venting

srs channel

[sharp furnace]

oh ok pookie

[sharp furnace]

#venting

👍

[slim lake]

this is venting 😭

[sharp furnace]

NUH UH

[slim lake]

always look for the positives in ur life

nobody has it all

theres days where ur down, but also days when ur happy. hold on to the moments that made you happy

life is not alll bad for some or all good for some

its a mix of both for everyone

[sharp furnace]

O EM GEEE

[green drift]

But how long i already spent 19 years of my life, nothing changed- I always end up messing things even though i work hard but nothing happens

[slim lake]

r u sayin there was no time at all in ur life where u were ever happy

even if for a moment

[green drift]

But its gone

its no more with me

That happiness wont solve my current problems

[mild compass]

Try to solve the problems

[slim lake]

it just means

that ur capable of being happy again

life doesnt stay the same for anyone

its all ups and downs

[green drift]

i do, i work hard- Nothing happens i end up messing

[green drift]

Thats true but what if it doesnt?

[mild compass]

What causes you to mess up solve that

[green drift]

Idk man but my hard work doesnt pay off

[mild compass]

Is it all years or only now

[green drift]

since i was kid

Maybe im the problem

Or im just simply unlucky

[mild compass]

No that's not true

[green drift]

Then why doesnt it work- The amount of effort i put .. It doesnt give me good results

[mild compass]

Maybe you are too stressed that's why

[green drift]

I wasnt stressed as a kid i used to study a lot but i always ended up getting B or C grades Why is that?

There was some rare times when i used to get good grades

As i grew older i realized thats just how im, useless, unlucky

[mild compass]

Read my message

[green drift]

The endless negative thoughts are now forcing me to kill myself

[green drift]

What msg

[mild compass]

No never think of that

[mild compass]

I sent you

[green drift]

dm?

lemme check

[slim lake]

theres no "what if it doesnt"

it does

you just need to think of it in a positive way

"i gave my best and this is what i got"

it may be that the way ur studying is not as effective as u might think. not all study methods are for everyone

[green drift]

Its just once or twice and the happiness that got was from someone else i didnt create happiness for myself

[green drift]

Why always

[sharp furnace]

nugget sugoi

[sharp furnace]

find ur flaws and try to improve them

[slim lake]

i dont rmb what sugoi means tbh

[sharp furnace]

amazing🫠

[slim lake]

happiness is happiness, it doesnt matter who u get it from. its important yes to be content with urself, making urself happy and not relying. but im just sayin its not that ur incapable of being happy

[green drift]

I think im the flaw im the problem

[slim lake]

every small achievements is a win

[slim lake]

oh

arigato

[green drift]

Youre correct

[sharp furnace]

well if u think tht u might hv to end ur life and hope to be reborn

which is pretty stupid

id rather improve wht iv alr been given

[sharp furnace]

I BLOSH

[slim lake]

i cant believe ur giving srs advices

[sharp furnace]

blushes aggressively

[slim lake]

grades and studies isnt everything kana

theres more to life

ur studies is a part of ur life, not entirety

[green drift]

Yeah thats what i think thats what i wanna do

[sharp furnace]

oh no wht hv i done😭

thts not wht i meant

[green drift]

I suck at everything tho :/ whatever i try to do i end up messing

[slim lake]

but good job, ngl im kinda proud

[mild compass]

Instead of helping someone you are killing

[slim lake]

no read the entire thing he said

"its stupid
i would improve with wtv ive been given"

and thats true, u have a belief if you die, u will reborn and its gonna be rainbows and sunshines

[sharp furnace]

this made my day🥹

[slim lake]

whos gonna say it wont be worse

[mild compass]

Oh okay

[sharp furnace]

awww nugget stood up for me so kawai

[slim lake]

[slim lake]

i cant tell if ur being srs or sarcastic but ok 👍

[sharp furnace]

lmao i cant tell either

[mild compass]

Everyone messes up, it is just that people are good at hiding and some people can deal with it.

[mild compass]

First of all , I think ur very much sunk in negative thoughts , and I've been there too, I feel like I'm bad at everything, but after some time , I felt like id just be a waste of oxygen if I continue thinking like that and don't do anything to change it , I might as well just be a bother to everyone around me , and I don't want u to be like that. U might think that u have no one to talk to, but trust me u actually do not need "someone" to talk to, you can talk to urself and come out with very good solutions to ur problems as well but u just don't want to, you just want to feel that feeling of "having smn to talk to ", but what will u get out of that anyway? Consolation? Solutions? Or maybe just feel pathetic? I think if u talk to God about everything u are having a problem with and ask him who can do anything to help guide you and console you and let peace into ur heart , and then set the intention to change , you'll be the happiest person ever , without needing another "human". Second, feeling that you suck at everything is pretty much a lie , bc yo why would you be created and be given the chance to live if you actually suck at everything, maybe ur just focusing on stuff like academics , or social life , and it's okay if ur not that good in maths or sciences, maybe it's just not the best thing u have , how about you try to explore other stuff in life and then be sure if u actually suck at "everything", and about u looking in the mirror and saying ur ugly, well we all went thru such phases , but why are say ur ugly ? Because you do not look like those pple who surround you and everyone calls them pretty? Well maybe to some ur very beautiful, maybe to some , you do not fit their "beauty standards" and that's very normal, learn to love how u look , bc honestly hating it won't benefit u anyway. But please do not force urself to match someone's "beauty standards" bc that's just pathetic

[mild compass]

hey there, i js wanna say we always start somewhere even if achieving it seems impossible
don’t compare yourself to others, im sure you’re beautiful
it’s okay to have a hard time when it comes to socialising - coming from someone who was isolated from everyone for many years
i’m sure with time, you’ll be able to strike conversations up smoothly
and if not, then i’m certain there’s someone out there who will accept you for you are either way
when it comes to studies, even if you think you aren’t doing well just think about how many hardships you managed to overcome, this one’s just another one :)

[green drift]

Okay wow 😭 I feel much better now!

[green drift]

I tried talking to myself the results didn't change though, my thoughts didn't end, and my life continued the way it was.. I worked hard for my tests but failed every time. I spent so much money to get a glow-up, but I didn't get any results, instead, I got pimples. I don't have a crush or something, so I don't care what people think of me but if I'm not satisfied with the way I look, how can I accept such a thing?

[mild compass]

What exactly do u not like Abt ur face bro

Let's be real give me points

Or do u just feel ugly overall?

[green drift]

I loved your point about exploring more things out there where I might be better than others. I never thought of that, I always bragged about me sucking at my studies... I will try new things and thanks for sharing such an idea!

[green venture]

Gave +1 rep to notacatlover#0

[green drift]

Overall tbh

[mild compass]

But yk pple do not start feeling ugly overall unless they compare themselves to others

I mean everyone is beautiful in their own way , so why would u want to change how u look?

[green drift]

Aww, that's so sweet, thanks! But no one accepts me.. They say I'm “boring” I'm ugly, I'm a freak. I tried standing up for myself but nothing worked they continued nobody cared.

[green drift]

I'm loathe my skin color more than anything else

[mild compass]

Mmm

[safe kernel]

hi mom

[mild compass]

Hi

[green drift]

Because I don't like the way I look

[mild compass]

But all skin colors are beautiful though..

So like

Is ur skin color different to those who surround u?

[green drift]

Yeah

[mild compass]

Do u get bullied or hear stuff bc of it?

[safe kernel]

im green

[mild compass]

Or do u just not like the feeling of being different in that way

[safe kernel]

embrace your skin color

[green drift]

Not really.. But I faced racism as a kid, I'm not that dark but I'm kinda darker than others

[mild compass]

That's so beautiful as well dw 🥺😔🩷🩷

[mild compass]

Mmm so u just don't like that u have a dark skin

[safe kernel]

so youre black

[green drift]

no wtf

[green drift]

yeah-

[safe kernel]

im brown

i think

[mild compass]

I'm dark skinned (Abit) as well tho

[safe kernel]

oh i just realized this is the venting channel

[green drift]

Oh

[safe kernel]

sorry for making jokkes here

anyways

embrace your skin color

funny enough i wasnt bullied as a brown kid in the US in a class full of white people lmao

[languid musk]

😭

[mild compass]

But I think that those who surround u are just not good pple anyway, so what they tell u or treat u like shouldnt be the behavior u should assume everyone has towards u

[safe kernel]

idek whether im brown

[languid musk]

lmao why

[safe kernel]

more like light brown?

[mild compass]

Look in the mirror

[safe kernel]

peach?

[languid musk]

☠️

[mild compass]

That's red

[safe kernel]

the mirror in my bathroom is broken

i think the hair makes my skin look dark

idk

[mild compass]

Send face reveal and we'll say

[languid musk]

facing any racism or anything of the like at younger ages does end up leaving a greater impression

[languid musk]

weal

[green drift]

You're right but apart from my skin color other aspects make me think that I'm ugly, I got the worst possible genetics from my parents

[safe kernel]

im shy

[languid musk]

relatablr

[green drift]

Well, are there any solutions?

[languid musk]

I think it just comes down to self acceptance

[safe kernel]

okay and?

cant do shit bout it can you

[languid musk]

I'm not the best person for this tho

[safe kernel]

get over it

worlds unfair

go to the gym

you wont be called ugly

[green drift]

??

[safe kernel]

do a skin routine or something

[mild compass]

Why call certain aspects ugly anyway? Like all aspects created shouldn't be judged as pretty or ugly yk

[mild compass]

Dms work too

[safe kernel]

u a male of female

[mild compass]

Female

[safe kernel]

oh i thought you were a male

[mild compass]

Pls don't actually send me anyth , I have sensitive eyes

[mild compass]

Do I not give off feminine vibes 😔😔

[safe kernel]

anyways go to the gym itll boost your self confidence

[safe kernel]

im not talking to you dumbass

talking about the arab cat

[mild compass]

Or play a sport in general

[green drift]

Oh- yeah.. You're right

[safe kernel]

is the arab cab a male or female

cat

[mild compass]

Oh ok then I am a brown man reading a book

[safe kernel]

i can see that

do a face skin routine or something

skin care*

drink wotah

sleep

[mild compass]

Here's what I believe, all God creations are beautiful because God wouldn't create an ugly being you know, and calling anyth ugly is just like saying God created something ugly yk

[safe kernel]

and just be on your own grind

cut people off your life

if people bully you, dont talk to them

[mild compass]

I only use a cleanser and a moisturizer, and THEY WORK PERFECTLY NO NEED FOR A 1000$ WORTH ROUTINE

[safe kernel]

do good in life and theyll come complimenting you

[safe kernel]

just use a 2 dollar facewash

thats my skin care routine

[mild compass]

So when's the face reveal 😔

[safe kernel]

never

stop asking for it desperate mf

[mild compass]

Okay shy boy

[safe kernel]

okay brown kid reading a book

[green drift]

Mhm, thanks for the advice and your kind words! I'm feeling better now :D hopefully things will work out for me

[green venture]

Gave +1 rep to notacatlover#0

[safe kernel]

it will if you do your best

dont worry dude

[mild compass]

I hope that u start accepting urself too and have maybe a lil more gratitude and satisfaction with what u have 🩷🩷

[safe kernel]

just focus on the grind

life will work out

[mild compass]

This sounds very gym-ish

[safe kernel]

i mean no there's other things

academic goal s

[mild compass]

I KNOW

[sharp furnace]

so u still think of killin urself?

[green drift]

I'll try to work on myself even more, thanks once again

[green venture]

Gave +1 rep to notacatlover#0

[green drift]

Nope!

[sharp furnace]

W

[safe kernel]

is this arab cat even listening to what i say

[mild compass]

Here's the rep sucker

[sharp furnace]

mommy i don see no rep

[mild compass]

My words are more wise 😔

[quaint hound]

suicide

[sharp furnace]

kawai

[languid musk]

real

[safe kernel]

yeah i can see that, he aint ever replying to me

[languid musk]

☠️

[mild compass]

Big slay

[mild compass]

It's a she

[safe kernel]

oh yeah

[sharp furnace]

fr imagine a dude worrying bout his looks

ill beat the shitt outto him

[green drift]

I'm sorry when did you reply I didn't see your message

[safe kernel]

lmao

im out

[mild compass]

I think that's u secretly self hating , stop the hate 😔😔😔

[languid musk]

☠️

[sharp furnace]

bruv i was the first to reply to her

if anything im the most helpful here

[languid musk]

the shoes I'm wearing are a bit small

😔

[sharp furnace]

damn.

[languid musk]

no

nt

[mild compass]

Can't relate I have small feet 🐾🐾

[sharp furnace]

pls dont do this in the venting channel g

[zealous sphinx]

Listen here brother don't underestimate yourself you won the first race when you weren't even born. When you weren't even born, it was decided that the universe needs you.

[languid musk]

☠️

[sharp furnace]

smash

[languid musk]

my normal shoes need to get washed

😔

[sharp furnace]

sistaaaa💅

[languid musk]

it's a pair of beat-up adidas

[languid musk]

you aren't safe

[mild compass]

I'll dainty-ly reject selfhaters 🤕

[sharp furnace]

ok now whn did i become a selfhater😭

[languid musk]

daintily

[zealous sphinx]

HO3 CHANNN

[mild compass]

Ur the best pls keep up the blackmails 🙏 (hopefully u have none for me)

[sharp furnace]

im not gonna say anything in venting

[languid musk]

I actually don't

😔

[mild compass]

Yay

[sharp furnace]

me innocent and follow rules

[languid musk]

giid

good

[sharp furnace]

do u hv anything to vent bout?

lemme know

ill help u.

[green drift]

Awh! Thanks, everyone for your kind words, I'm feeling way better now; thanks for helping me :>

[green venture]

Gave +1 rep to notpixel.#0

[zealous sphinx]

Who pinged me

[peak bronze]

nugget

[placid folio]

W advice

[zealous sphinx]

Where

[peak bronze]

here

[mild compass]

chat i’m scared

i been too happy for the past two days

something about to go wrong

[zealous sphinx]

What did she say?

[peak bronze]

keep this channel only for venting or sum

[zealous sphinx]

Bruh

Ok lol

[peak bronze]

don't feel that way

[mild compass]

it’ll always be like this until i dip from this household 🙏🙏

[peak bronze]

just come over to my house

[mild compass]

id rather be a homeless bag with severe malnutrition and depression

[peak bronze]

damn okay I see 😔

i was just trying to make u feel better

[mild compass]

can i take ur sister tho

[peak bronze]

nuh uh

[mild compass]

GRRR

[peak bronze]

you'll cringe i swear

you can't even joke at her

[mild compass]

IDC

[peak bronze]

if you laugh she thinks you're laughing at her

[mild compass]

I CAN HANDLE SO MUCH CRINGE

[mild compass]

i’ll give her smoochies to reassure her that im not making fun

😢

[peak bronze]

won't work

[mild compass]

i am the best

therefore

it will work

i’m good with kids

[peak bronze]

no I am

[mild compass]

after me.

[peak bronze]

no I am very good

I'm great

every kid laughs when I make a joke

[mild compass]

they prolly feel threatened

[peak bronze]

because I'm so strong

[mild compass]

maybe that’s not the case..

[peak bronze]

i can lift u

[mild compass]

no u can not

[peak bronze]

i can

have I told u that on Saturday I was going out and this kid was so excited to see me he started walking towards me because I'm so handsome

[mild compass]

“aint never seen a creature this goofy lookin”

[peak bronze]

"creative"

[mild compass]

silence (low caps)

i just realised this is venting

[peak bronze]

yes because u were tryna vent or sum

[quaint hound]

y

[sharp furnace]

ive been feeling down lately but i dont wanna do anything to change tht. maybe its cuz i rarely get this strange but unique feeling.am i mentally unwell tht i want to hold onto something this negative or is this something tht happens to everyone.

[plush depot]

mfs wen 7 days into nnn:

[sharp furnace]

Bruv u might be right 😭🙏

[mild compass]

Sometimes Always I don't want to deal with life.

[mild compass]

Guys what do I do if I missed one exam, I gave all my exams for the oct/nov but I couldn't give my P4 socio today cause my brain was in a muddle, I had the worst headache, I've been having a fever since yesterday, coughing and sneezing and I've thrown up a bit. Literally couldn't give the exam cause I wouldnt of have been able focus and I might’ve legit thrown up mid exam

[unreal shadow]

go to the doctor asap

and make sure to get a report

then send the report to your school

[slim lake]

take ur own advice tbh

[mild compass]

Im a private student

[mild compass]

I'll try but I feel light headed af so idk if I can go to the doctor day

Can I email them or do I have to physically go there?

[slim lake]

emailing doesnt always work, chances it might go to spam

and also they take their slow ass time replying to emails

[unreal shadow]

send report to wherever you’re doing exam then

[mild compass]

could I call them? The nearest British council is in another city (to my knowledge)

[mild compass]

The exam was held at a school hall, do I send my report to the school?

[slim lake]

try

[mild compass]

(I'm a private student and not from there)

[slim lake]

call british council and ask them what u can do about it

[mild compass]

Idk why I have to go through british council, should I just have to email cambridge directly

[slim lake]

biritsh council holds the examinations tho

[mild compass]

My experience with British council has been terrible so far, they are so rude (imo)

Do I have to provide them my doc certificate and stuff today or can I do tomo? I feel sick af and don't want to get out of bed 😭

Wdym he didn't accept your letter

And why would u be absent?

I dont understand, do u have official IG exams tomo

Or in class

And what else

What other exam

Your principal must hate you ngl

Is British council holding ur IG exam

Ok well first off go to ur official IG exam and after the exam try to ask the British council coordinator for help, like maybe to write a paper saying that you had an exam and therefore you could not attend your school exam

If you get some credibility like a letter from British council or something, then ur principal might be convinced to listen cause British council is an authority or whatever

Anyway dont worry about ur in class chemistry exam that much because its doesnt go towards anything realistically

Talk to your chem teacher instead of the principal

Cause the chem teacher could give u an estimate

Say that the principal is not letting you but that he doesnt understand that you can't do anything about it

Ur only option is to plead to ur chem teacher or other staff

Or bring your parents in to the school with u to talk to the principal

[cosmic ginkgo]

Email this to your centre with your medical report
https://www.cambridgeinternational.org/covid/june2022-exam-series/running-exams/special-consideration/

There is a procedure for it which they might not know or will be an ass about

So email the link to them

[mild compass]

hey, im a private student so who would i email this to @cosmic ginkgo ?

[sharp furnace]

where r u from

[restive bridge]

your centre - wherever you are giving the exams

[cosmic ginkgo]

The exams officer at the centre

[mild compass]

pk, faisalabad

[mild compass]

i gave my exams at a school hall "roots" but as a private student

[sharp furnace]

cool hv u written an exam yet?

[mild compass]

the british council were there supervising it

[sharp furnace]

ok then thts it

email to the british council

[mild compass]

The british council or roots? because @restive bridge said "your centre - wherever you are giving the exams"

and i gave the exam at roots hall

[sharp furnace]

british council is the centre

i think yall hv a branch in pak

find the email

[mild compass]

Drop out of ur skl, that would be the action I'd take

[cosmic ginkgo]

Just cc both into the email, makes your life easier

[quaint hound]

@mild compass fr???

[mild compass]

While there isn't a single answer to what chemical makes you happy, serotonin is an essential piece of the puzzle. Some scientists even refer to serotonin as the “happiness chemical,” because higher serotonin levels increase feelings of well-being, confidence and belonging.

Humans are social animals, and being around others is what causes happiness for many of us. There’s a scientific reason for that: Serotonin is more free-flowing when you feel important or valued by those around you. When you’re experiencing serotonin happiness, it takes no effort to feel joyful – it just seems to happen naturally.

[quaint hound]

chill i said that coz u js ignored out of nowhere

[mild compass]

People who are diagnosed with depression typically have low levels of serotonin available, whereas people with high serotonin often report being happier. People with higher serotonin levels also demonstrate higher levels of self-esteem and have an easier time handling rejection.

Serotonin is also linked to digestion, blood clotting and bone density, and an imbalance can cause both mental and physical problems. Lack of serotonin can cause issues with bowel movements, nausea and sleep patterns. It can even affect your ability to heal wounds by clotting blood. On the other hand, too much serotonin may play a role in osteoporosis and can actually reduce your libido.

[quaint hound]

so wht goes on in ur head has a relation with healing wounds

[mild compass]

Dopamine is a neurotransmitter made in your brain. It plays a role as a “reward center”
When you are gradually healing mentally, your brain releases Dopamine to feel the sense of relief and joy.

[unreal shadow]

it's all nonsense

[sharp furnace]

womp womp

Lmfao @mild compass u good?

[unreal shadow]

😂

[slate sky]

what happens to serotonin levels of people having existential crisis

[mild compass]

Too many people in depression 🫥

Ngl

You guys are just LOST

[peak bronze]

too many people are lonely

[mild compass]

If they spend too much time online, of course they will be

[peak bronze]

nah they just want a girlfriend (not me)

[mild compass]

Well you have side 🐥

[peak bronze]

i don't have anyone 😔

[mild compass]

Keep it up, you are gonna have more

[peak bronze]

i wish

[wintry rampart]

can't believe that i am starting to feel depressed at the most inconvenient time

4 weeks before finals at college and 2 accounting tests in a span of the next 2 weeks

not only cause of the usual shit that's happening at my home (mom yelling at me for crying after failing a test)

but my stats prof directly gave up in front of the class

and only gave powerpoints and told us to study in our own

THROUGHOUT THE ENTIRE FUCKING CLASS CAUSE 2 IDIOTS USED THEIR PHONES FOR FAMILY EMERGENCIES THAT MEAN NOTHING TO THE ENTIRE CLASS

do i even fucking deserve this suffering, even if i try my best not to touch my phone?

i might as well just cope up as i only got 1 quiz, 1 seatwork and a final exam left

so not much of damage

[sharp furnace]

if u really cared bout ur exams u wouldnt be playing video games now wud u

[wintry rampart]

i guess.

although the point of my rant was about being punished unfairly.

about majority of my grade for that class was already done now

[sharp furnace]

just try not to depend too much on school

go for classes outside

[wintry rampart]

i've already booked a tutor that will help me cover the remaining topics

[sharp furnace]

damn u might aswell just let it go this time then

[sharp furnace]

good

[wintry rampart]

i was shocked cause the professor that i picked for that class was a popular one for his consideration a nd his ability to make complicated topics like ANOVA, Linear Regression and Hypothesis Testing easier t ounderstand

me and a classmate are contemplating about choosing his section

2 kids playing with their phones

and the entire class got punished

[sharp furnace]

i remember my friends saying stats in school aint gonna work for them

find sum really good classes

[sharp furnace]

lmfao annoying asf

[wintry rampart]

if you were the professor, would you force these 2 individuals to do the next seatwork, face-to-face and tell them to study the powerpoints given themselves or let the entire class receive the punishment?

[sharp furnace]

i mean normally it makes sense to punish just the 2 students

it really depends on the professor

and his mood

[wintry rampart]

good point

[mild compass]

Average university professor

[wintry rampart]

exactly

[wintry rampart]

I am more than eager to identify who got caught and bully them for dragging the entire class down

[unreal shadow]

can you possibly directly get into contact with cambridge?

[subtle lake]

naw i just found this channel named ' venting'

and i thought its about among us bye

[sharp furnace]

we got clones of ur ahh now @mild compass

[subtle lake]

wut is "ahh" ??

[slate sky]

u can report to cie I think

like email them

[mild compass]

😔😔people can't help but copy the unique sometimes

[languid musk]

ong

[torn yarrow]

...

[sharp furnace]

tsk delulu

[mild compass]

☠️

[obtuse vector]

it used to have those jokes before but i think there was a pinned post once about not posting those typa jokes

but i could be remembering wrong idk

[wintry rampart]

still, i feel tempted to identify whomever put my entire stats class into trouble and considtently bully them till the term ends

not the direct, namecalling and physical violence

but through ostracizing them from any collective discussion cause that's what they desired. more suffering to the entire class

so why not give them the most

i'll be eager to delve through his lectures with my classmates excluding the insitgators

check my rant yesterday for context

but tldr:

• professor catches 2 students on their phones during his lectures
• entire class gets punished thru turning remaining lectures into asynchronous lectures and turning the last group seatwork to individual seatwork, conducted directly during class
• me and some students that i interacted with shared the same sense of doubt
• now i want to carry the class by arranging a zoom meeting to delve thru his lectures excluding the two people who were on their phones to compensate

i just want to let the instigators know that they have not only angered the professor but the entire class as well

[unreal shadow]

it seems like bro just didn't want to teach

[wintry rampart]

either you listen to me or i can trust you to study yourself

but the punishment he gave was extremely unfair

cause my section will be the only section who'll be doing the last seatwork face to face, and individually unlike online, groupbased

[wintry rampart]

bro got pissed and instead told the class to do the lecturing themselves

[safe kernel]

damn

[wintry rampart]

"yeah you fucking use your phones which disrespects me so i'll leave your asses by yourselfs to study the powerpoints that i'll feed you. oh, and your next seatwork will be held directly during class, indivudally, unlike my other sections who'll be doing it offline, with their groups"

[placid folio]

wow thts my chem teacher

bro he doing a lot of STUFF

ltrlly made a girl whisper into his ear wth

btw she actually did

[placid folio]

wow i feel ya

[wintry rampart]

yet most of the class didn't deserve the punishment

[mild compass]

No way he actually used swear words?? What type of uni professors do we have these days

[wintry rampart]

nope

he didn't use swear words actually

it was how i perceived it

[mild compass]

Oh ok makes more sense

[wintry rampart]

although what did i really do to deserve this fate?

[mild compass]

Try like talking to him as a class

And apologize

They like apologies

[wintry rampart]

i'll try

although idk if i should give the students that put the class into trouble the judgement that they deserve

[mild compass]

Some professors are quite harsh on their students sometimes bc they want disciplined lectures

So

They do that

[wintry rampart]

makes sense

[mild compass]

Wdym

[wintry rampart]

it will be hard to say

[mild compass]

My dad is a uni professor, so I got some experience ✨✨

[wintry rampart]

but i have no choice but to blame them should my grades get dragged down