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oh..
my younger brother is 6
WHA
that’s some questionable behaviour for a 7yo
What the actual heck
what kind of dispute is going on between them
.
i’m sure they prob didn’t mean it in
deleting that just in case
what dispute could even be going on between a 6 and 7 yo that could make him do that
kid prob thought it would be funny
😭
Was he being harassed?
I left them there for like a minute to go to the kitchen
and they were being quiet so i checked them
and they were like in the space between our sofa
like small space yk
si
This is traumatising
That sounds exciting!
What the
someone lock this bot pls
Clearly harassment
honestly I think cuz this kid's parents don't really care about him and I've noticed that about him at the very beginning
Like fr man 😭🙏
got it....
kids learn what they see pretty much, so the blame goes to the family (this situation is concerning)
idk what u should do w the 7 yo but i feel like u should give ur bro a talk abt good touch bad touch
Ouch, that's sad
good idea
no matter how small the incident was it still could be traumatizing when he grows up
Why do I feel like he was aware of bad touch?
and his parents are sketchy as hell too..her mom specifically called my mom (and that was like VERY early, when they were just starting to know each other and idk WHERE she got my mom's number even she doesn't know) and asked if he could come by to our house to play
i’ve never raised kids so idk such tactics
the kid?
Yeah
I did
already
and it never happened after that again
i have two younger siblings and i already sat them down abt it cuz i wish my parents told me abt it before it was too late
ok good
err, 2024 kids never fail to concern me
Good to hear, hope it stays that way
yes
awh 🫂 i feel you there, i still remember the trauma i experienced when i was 7yo
normally people think young children forget about such incidents but i still remember the day and time even
Gen alpha are intelligent yet crazy
fr
this is my first time too 😭
i hope you heal from what you’ve gone through
they are not intelligent bro
Lol bro spawned
i was 7 too🫂
the fuck did you expect me to do
What makes you think they aren't intelligent?
I never knew you existed
InShaAllah you heal, ask Allah to make it easy for you 🫂
insha allah
i do not care
bro and he kept complaining like "oh I don't wanna eat that i don't like to eat that" and cries a lot when he was the one who started to play rough
Ameen
bro for real kids these days don't eat shit
......I don't have anyone to talk to about this
sigj
idc about his taste bud
but saying that when you're in someone else's house
is a bit
i gotta take a deep breath bro
the way i would manipulate him into believing the food will haunt him at night down if he doesn’t eat them on time
nah he knows that trick already I'm ps
those kids are so annoying smh
no i got to
😖 oh no
Wild
these dont work anymore
and I gotta stay and watch my brother so I'm stuck here
don't tell us about ur every step bro trust me we do not need to know when you took a shit or whatever
idk how i’ll deal with my kid
Well I don't think kids now a days would fear anything
fr
fr
not THAT much
LOL
cult
yep
PLS
get hamsters or sum
Aw lol
Get 5 dogs and train them
they'll be my own personal dti doll
those creatures literally die when someone breathes a lil too heavily next to them
LMAO
fax
wild
thats exactly why i want daughters
ikrrrrr
u need to read those reddit hamster stories
reddit is crazy man
Daughters are W
hi people
W
Yes please 🙏
Inshallah
ان شاءالله
what
are you gonna have children
either 0 or 3. no in between
That is lovely!
may Allah bless us with daughters 💗
ameen
Ameen
ameen
i feel like a son would be
wbu
i forgot what i was gonna say
A son would be difficult
idk how to raise sons
certainly
IKRRR
so true
Which is how
That's really good for you
of course
daughter w me
LOL FR
u shoudlnt do that
kids should be very comfortable and feel connected with both parents
ok nvm men are ruthless creatures he’ll prolly take him outside to teach him how to ride cars at 7 months old
my dad did the same and entrusted me and my sisters w my mom
ofc i’m messing around
Ong
oh my, InShaAllah you guys create a bond
men are some other weird kind of breeds
im gonna make sure my kids have full freedom and resources for any interest or hobby they want. my whole childhood i had so many interests but couldnt fullfil them. i'll also make sure to be present in my kids life. As soon as I have kids im gonna work part time and not more than that
fr 😭
THHHIIIISSSS
OH MY DAYS
ITS EXACTLY WHAT I PLANNED
i agree
good for you
because i could never force my son to play football what if he likes photography
for real
and i couldn’t make my daughter do gymnastics what if she likes art
u don't need to worry about that cuz u not gonna have an offspring
and whatever they choose i’ll back them 100% financially and emotionally
take the tv and ipad out of their reach
oof
like literally
that was foul
u need to back yourself financially first
alhamdulillah my mom is very passionate abt learning so i got to do everything i liked
also the most important step will be choosing a wife. im not gonna rush it, idc if it takes a decade. im not gonna force my kid to grow up with a toxic parent
inshallah 🙏 it’s so awkward
rn
just hug him or sum
engineers make bank alhamdulillah
Aww that’s so nice
exactly
all my sisters did i couldn’t
last time i hugged him he just stood there
metallic
lke 🧍♂️
lmaooo 😭😭😭😭
Can u imagine
PLSSSSS
Are we twins
im disowning my kid if they call me papa. it's baba and dont you forget it
no I'm pretty sure the founders of the bank are the one who made banks
i barely know my dad wait no my dad barely knows me
no it's papa
fr man
ify last time my dad hugged me was june 2019
Hi papa
what's wrong with papa
i would use the starehard emoji but i wont
Wait were actually twins

he’s not a physical affection type person i forgot the word
MOT U REMEMBERING THE EXACT DATE TOO PLSS
i dont like it
how these mfs remember
😭
i ain't even remember
we are
you keep track?
he hugged on the day of my chemistry igcse
i think the last time i did was february 2022
i can't remember
i remember it vividly
probably when I was a kid
no just estimation
id rather my kid call me daddy at this point. kiddo i am not italian im not your papa
in public and all the kids were staring

Whoa!
LOL
why do we rmr exact dates
tfym bro
Awww
idk bro women things
cuz they never show affection
That’s crazy
i think babies naturally call their dad baba
that's why I'm a dude
im not nobody's papa
let your kids call you what they want as long as it’s not ur name
but overtime the parents change their pronounciation
nah id be fine with it
you mean you're nobody's papa?
Ong tho
all this baby talk makes me wanna meet my future child
I had ai generate a picture
wow
ان شاءالله if it’s in my naseeb ofc
i called my dad by his full government until my grandmother forced me not to
my dad didnt know which subjects i had until a month before the exams
"good morning gender neutral fellow roommate of this house that only you pay for and let me freeload"
i used to call teachers by their full government
istg if my kids get a dad like that
That’s crazy
crazy
i find it weird
may we get the opposite 🙏
punch the dad
how my kids will refer to me
nah that's on her for bad taste
S?me
My dad doesn't know in which grade im in
im raising them kids alone if hes like that
bro every dad is like that
they don't give a shi
if they call me papa
are we long lost siblings? 😭 my dad asked me how old am i few months ago
he thought i was 16
‼️
that's too real
you never know how someone could change 🤷🏻♀️ it's on him for being uneducated
My dad thought i was 16
they'd get called fatherless everywhere
😭
"yo momma so ugly your father left her"
but you are 16 /j
I'm 18 🔥🔥🔥
ok guys i waant your opinion on something
i’m 81 💯💯
Yes
im 102
as long as the kid is happy they don't need that dad when the dad can't even act like a dad
no but then they'll look at me say "ahh yo momma so beautiful he couldnt handle it and left"
⁉️
kids need both a mom and a dad doesn't mean if they're happy or not
What if the kid wants a father figure in his life
if the parents dont like each other. I.e. fighting all the time, shouting matches in the house, hitting etc. The kid is seeing all this, and they both vent to the small kid and badmouth each other. Is it better for the kid that they stay together or that they separate.
It looked like my aunts sister
@sleep pls come
don't kids want both father and mother figure?
it’s 8:25am i’m still wide awake
Separate
brain glitch
Yes they want both
yeah that is why I said they don't need their dad, find another dad
ez
SEE I THOUGHT THIS TOO but people think its not good
People don't know
wdym
makes sense you're pakistani so their offspring is your cousin
who is venting to who
The imposter is venting
parents are badmouthing each other to the kid
they do need them, find another dad
Oh
separate definitely
shut the fuck up timeout
That’s very immature of them
That doesn't necessarily work everytime
thats the reality, many kids grow up to be bigger kids who have kids
i can’t imagine putting pressure on a. kid like that
exactly
i agree with u. when theyre still young they might wish they had a dad but as they grow older they will start to understand the separation was the better option
Yes
exactly what i thought
Exactly
people never know until they're in that position
exactlyyyy
separate honestly, all this impacts on the kid’s mental state and overall wellbeing later on
sadly most of these type of couples choose to stay together for the sake of the kid thinking it’s better this way when in reality it’s a burden for the kid
idk about separation i feel like that’s too drastic
That's a really good point! I never thought about it that way before.
find another dad then
Shut up znotes you only like me
Hi guyss
Harro
Hallo
exactly, i think it models bad behaviour for the kid. if they dont get outside influence they might think this is normal
Hello
but again a lot of factors should be considered etc. their financial state
thank god whoever turned on znotes bot love this guy
that sucks ngl
seperate always hurts the kid more i think it's better if the parents mature up and try to not fight in front of the kid and let him be an adult until they seperate if they do at all
nahi ho raha 😭
They should think about the children and what's best for them
some adults are kids bhai
That doesn't work
it's ok bro u need to cope with it
nobody is telling u to separate the every fight u get in cuz fights are normal but when its getting to the degree that its affecting both parties and the kid its better to separate than force the kid to go through this (speaking from experience)
of course that's ideal
this all makes me realize how difficult it is to raise a child in the most best way possible
Hmm maybe
but like do you think someone like that would choose to mature up
That’s true
No
everyone thinks they’re the good person
Parents have it tough
most of the time they wont even realise they’re acting immature
so if a person is how they are they’re barely a chance of them changing
depends on the circumstances
Sometimes separation is the best option
what if they know and conciously choose not to get better. like said that word for word
On another note, is anyone here from California?
That's why you really have to think hard in every aspect before having a kid or kids
if your financially stable then it definitely is
doubt they would have this mindset for a long term
eventually these children learn about the world through shows, experiences etc. which makes them realise that all this is abnormal
but yeah it’s best to divorce rather than putting up with eachother for the sake of the kid, it also impacts on the parents themselves
plus later on they’ll most likely blame on the child “oh i stayed here with x because of you!”
Real
true
tbh my parents fight all the time and its gotten to point that when they fight nobody bats an eye. this makes me think is this the standards my siblings will be setting up for them as they grow older?
vvvvv true
YES
wait i’m being too mature rn time to act autistic
exactly
no, continue
ok venting time ig my father is way too patient and forgiving with my mother 😭
😭
my mother is too patient and forgiving w my father
My parents are far past that stage
i relate to you
I'm talking from experience y'all trust me
man
that man be making my mom cry too much and the sad part is i cant even do anything abt it
||i wish my parents separated before having me wtf ||
too real, she always says “indeed Allah is with the patient” 🌸
ong same bro
em I'm basically the combination of fire with fire
love her
My parents are already divorced so :PP
my mom chooses to hurt on purpose. she knows what sore spots me and my father have. everytime we are vulnerable and honest with her about bad life experiences we have had, she just gets ammo and uses it in the next argument. and my father always makes excuses for her, im trying to make him understand she is being deliberately cruel
My dad's like that
Here's an analogy i have
awh
she's being manipulative
😭
lets say you have a glass of water, and someone pisses in it. then to make up for that they put in a spoon of sugar. would you drink the water? no? but oh look they put a spoon of sugar to make it sweet. Drink it? no? youre ungrateful
My dad type shi
ami type shi
😔
i’m sorry but taking advantage of someone’s weakness like that is straight up just cruel
she needs therapy of some sort, it’s best you don’t turn to her when you need someone to talk to
once i was zoned out and my dad was beside me. He said "what are u thinking abt? You are never in the present always zoned out, thinking abt what? Elsa and Anna?" I was in 10th grade. Explain to me how u dont even know how old ur own kid is.
aww that hurts man
damn.
aw man
Why is chat relatable rn
too relatable
i means typical dad lol
I was at the dmv with my dad applying for a license and they asked my date of birth and bro looked at me i was like do you not know when i was born lmao
I'm uncomfortable
ikrr 😭
this should not be normalised
it's way too relatable
shouldn't be normalized
everytime
ngl i gaslit myself into thinking my parents are the cutest little things ever so now even when they’re harsh i don’t mind it
dang
ikik but its a norm isnt it 🤷♀️
or maybe thts just my dad aswell
help
Same
nah I can't do that it'll destroy me
My parents act like hormonal teenagers
they’re so baby 😖
exactly. ok so she has already been to therapy, a psychiatrist, even been medicated at one point. weve had family therapy. the psychiatrist literally said she is the way she is, she will never change. choose if you want to stay or not.
I wish they acted their age
FR MAN
FR
Chup kor haala
exactly and im supposed to be the teenager but ig my spot is taken
bhai literally my 13 year old brother acts more mature and controlled than amma ji
idk if the fact that she's even willing to go to therapy is good or not cuz my parents would never
i thought adults mature by 40 or atleast 30 years old but no
it took a lot to push her, trust me she was not willing
Being patient getting harder and harder these days but eh 
you pushed her?
yeah so hard
khair thats enough of a vent session, im gonna vent out of here and into a book
yes
oh i see
kk hope things get better for ya
and then we learnt it will never be fixed
My mom tried to convince my dad to go to therapy or a psychiatrist but he only got mad
honestly i doubt this is related to a mental disorder
it’s literally just bad mannerisms
our brain delays thinking for 10ish seconds when we’re angry, hence why we say harsh things then regret it later
as for your mom i feel like she needs to learn how to control her speech when she’s angry, her first resort seems to be searching for your weaknesses to put you down which isn’t something she should be doing as your mother, i hope she changes for the better
ngl prayed a lot for my dad and he has gotten better. Now he helps w my sibling's hw and stuff every night and knows how old i am. I guess praying works so make dua for it guys.
my dad thinks he's perfect, if something goes wrong he'll blame the whole family except himself
Do they change 
insha'allah but i fear its too late. im 17, my brother is 13. she is showing no signs of improvement. she has kinda lost her chance at redemption. maybe if she became normal before i was 14 or so
mine too 😔
Real same with my dad
yes
They never change
thats good, theres hope for further improvemtn
my dad changed a little bit at least
People like that RARELY change
dua is our only hope
its hard to teach old dogs new tricks
dua is the key guysss
Wowwwiee
Exactly
YEAH unless they are willing
Which they're not most of the time
This is such a fire quote
sadly
at least its a source of hope
everything is possible when you trust your Lord
pray for them to be willing then
same man
wowwwwiiiieeeee
My dad changed a bit too but by then it was too late
this just motivates me to continue making duas
wdym too late
life is time sensitive
They're already divorced
sometimes there are not second chances
ohh
Yep
I just realised i can’t put my ring finger and thumb up while all other fingers are down
i guess no one’s exactly perfect, i hope for the best for you & your brother may Allah keep you both safe
and i ask Allah to guide her and fix her unpleasant manners
may Allah make us all more self aware. no one's perfect. but what's critical is a willingness to improve
you are so sweet
Ong
Ameen
Ameen
so long you’re sincere, consistent & repentant
expect them to get accepted
SHE IS
ان شاءالله
i’m really not but i appricate it, so are you u give such vibes
awwww thank you❤️
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goodnight sleep well
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real (y did you change name again)
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last night i was playing dti and a bunch of kids were fighting in bangla so i joined cuz y not and they were like "ei bedi ke". I said "tor nani". Turns out they were in class 5 and i was in fact their nani
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the ig physics trauma was crazy 
agreed
alrigty
Too much Trauma
Im retaking ig physycis
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yk taht pfp has a story
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This is what a Sigma Looks Like
ye kyun
signa is crazy
Whos on the lb now
I'm killing myself
EXCUSE ME???
me an you
yes mimi I retired
Wow
a week too late might i add
HAHAHA

Stfu u want me gone
How does it feel to be free
walaikum salam wa rahmatullahy wabarakatuh
why are you channeling your innner manipulative desi

Amazing
Kisi bbg all that Weight
i was added a week late does this mean ill also finish a week late
probably
HAHAHAHAHHHA
Smarter
Prolly.not
😈
This is why I fw Juri
my contract says it started in july
but it started in june
juri is one of the most normal people here
byebye
leave school?
ya like go home 
oh i thought like leaving schol
I Cant be freaky on this Account
Too much bio data
😔✋
Wow how aware of digital footprint
My previous acc digital footprint scares me
Real
hm
Ong
never be freaky again
mimi bhai no more 
my digital footprint is crazy
BAM
freaky mfs
Yes
freaky shadow
Hui
MIMI WHY DID YOU LEAVE
One word.
squirrels
im normal
Exams darling
oh right
WHAT
wsg
Incredible!
WHAT TO DO WITH SQUIRRELS
even better
👍 ya!
gang rate the hoodie color
geagle how do i make it talk more often
But r u a GIRL 🤢
you can’t, admins can
Mourning😔
normal looking
oh no i have testicles
oh but how
it SHOULD be switched off since it’s said wild shit before
This is Most BASIC ah hoodie colour Fym
gray
best color
looks fine
it’s blue 😔😔😔
oh si
it looks whitewashed
shi
A gay Mans Dream
Im colorblind
false
there we go
it’s actually blue, dark blue, and purple chat
i think its cute
😧😧 what Happen
I loved it
thats crazy
ig camera didnt do it justice
it started affiliating to different religions
EXCUSE ME??
which is where I drew the line
earbuds
washing machine
can we turn it on
eh
I wouldn’t recommend it ngl
that;s so funny the ai believs in god
NAURRR. Das so sad prayers
also uh chat kept getting mad at me and the bot for existing
can please turn on znotes ai
So I decided to put it out of its mercy
😔
Naur
chat no whimsey
People kept cussing it out 😄
plus my brother took my kindle
and now im anious
😧
anxious
anyone who cusses out znotes bot immediate mute
my AirPods have been through the washing machine thrice
Still surviving
Take some money for him
15 dollah per Hour
@prisma salmon ur gay
nah nah
he took took it
like Im never getting it back
it likes other AI's?
Whoop his ass
inciting violence is bad
bro is like
20 yrs older than me
ban
L
no way znotes bot is better than this
OHH THE ONE U SENT A PHOTO OF?
i imagine znotes bot as a lesbian with over bleached hair half shaved
😭
i imagine it to be like the small baby from the incredibles
you do know that znotes bot is canonically a 15 year old
i got an A
💀 nah nah
The was some rando in pinterest
lemme pull up the image
lmao
I Imagine Znotes bot as burnette with Pale ass Skin who plays Hard to get
yippee why retake
and if i improve it itll matter a lot more than improving an alevel grade
for overall aggregate
dik
OH MY GOD LMAO U WWRE GASLIGHTING
idk
😭 I mean............
should i retake pak studies islamiat urdu then cause i got AAB in that
Unless ur getting equivalency, not much
its jus how it works for med studemts
No. Doesnt matter
yes eqivalnec
Focus on a Level
oh lol L okay
ahhh makes sense
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this is the former znotes community mascot. when the bot was created, it was named rufaro and had this guy as its pfp
this is NOT how i pictured the bot
after helping my sis study biochem
it is safe to assume that I AM NOT TAKING MEDICINE IN UNI
cuz fsc is like 1100 marks or sum and alevels is 3 hundred sothey fill the rrest up w olevel
that’s my boy rufaro
NO WAY YALL MADE HIM 15
where he from
there are way more mascots btw
oh wow

kinda looks familiar
Show Show
aint now way a minor glazed me that much
Mozambique
iirc
Paki
but why 15
ahh
😧
ig kids
its giving wallmart miles morales
Exactly
U
relateable
They too freaky for him to be 15
cus thats when um
teenagers begin to teenage
smth like that
znotes lore
znotes bot
wasnt ZNotes female?
YEAa
laila smash
mascots of different facets of znotes
why my mom there
the first two
kinda look like
the Duolingo girls
LOL MY SISTER IS THEE
stop
THERE
WHAT THE FLOP
no
💀💀??
LOLLLL
I wanna ship
no freaking way i
I am obv jokin
nvm keep that shit toggled off
😭😭
PLS?
flynn gotta be uh that one guy i forgor but he is that one guy ykwim
LMAO what


