Girls in Desi households:
-> BACHEY(Kid) you better study or I'll get you married to anjum chacha's third son
-> Get judged by others girls alot of the time
-> Expected to be obedient and stay quiet and inhumanely not show any form of anger or signs whatsoever
-> Traumatized
Boys in Desi households:
VERSION:
Eldest Son:
-> Son. You are the hope of this household emotional manipulation and drama continues
-> If you fail son...we have no one to fall back on drama intensifies not like they have 4 other sons as replacement
-> Your father is very poor son. You have to do well, get a good job.
Eldest son watches parents getting humiliated by relatives but eldest son turns out to be a failure
-> goes through trauma by himself because he is the 'perfect role-model'
Youngest Son:
-> Gets his choices controlled most of the time as no one is willing to listen to what he has to say
-> Gets raised up spoilt with immense love and support and then gets blamed for not being independant
-> Always gets compared and is also expected to be the ''perfect child''
-> goes through trauma all by himself because he has no one to speak with as the elders judge him for everythinig
Beneath these jokes lies a deep meaning. Please understand, you're precious. No matter how life is for you, keep living. Keep striving to be great. If not today, then tomorrow. Never stop trying, rewind, replay, refresh and retry but never give up and never fear failure. No matter the chains you have around your neck dragging you down. No matter how much pressure they put on you, know that time passes slow in difficult times but it also does pass. Keep fighting, to win and to survive. Victory after countless failures feels different from a victory that was won on the first try. Be proud of yourself. Work as hard as you can. It's now or never. 1 day or Day 1. Wake up and go crazy, the world's yours.