This is the fix
#How to fix problem for joining friends or hosting a game in COTW XBOX Playstation and PC Solution
little forum
For xbox refer to this : https://support.xbox.com/en-CA/help/hardware-network/connect-network/xbox-one-nat-error
For playstation : https://www.expressvpn.com/gaming/playstation/how-to-change-nat-type-on-ps5
For steam pc : https://support.thehunter.com/hc/en-us/articles/4417163840530-I-can-t-join-or-host-a-multiplayer-game-for-theHunter-Call-of-the-Wild
The port forward for the hunter call of the wild :
https://portforward.com/thehunter-call-of-the-wild/
Call of the wild is a peer to peer game (p2p) what is it ?
Think of it like this whenever you have a peer-to-peer connection your internet connection is directly going to someone else's internet connection. As in, their PC is one of two computers hosting the server so if that person hosting lags out (that's hosting the server on their computer ) then you're going to feel that lag. A dedicated server is a third-party type of box so usually dedicated servers are purchased through a third party company and it's just a static server that sits SOMEWHERE else. Essentially now both of you can connect and say the person that would have originally been hosting the server disconnects their internet , the server doesn't go down because there's a dedicated server actually running the software so you can still connect to it