asking for a relationship = mute

[daring cliff]

I’ve been hit on numerous times as a female just constantly being asked for my snap or if I could be in a relationship with someone who I’ve never met and it’s so annoying, it would be fine if it was like once or twice but it’s happened so many times that I genuinely want to leave the server at times, I can’t peacefully talk about football without getting hit on and it’s so annoying please consider this.

[sharp wharf]

Have you reported this to staff? Because we usually mute for that kind of stuff

[daring cliff]

No I haven’t cuz I genuinely didn’t think it was that bad until it well started getting bad, sometimes they get muted right then sometimes they don’t

I also had a question about if someone from the server DMs me and then starts hitting on me is that punishable?

[sharp wharf]

Yes

Feel free to tag staff / create a ticket when that happens

Probably ticket is easier or DM staff member when people directly do that in DMs

But for when it happens in channels just tag staff

[daring cliff]

Thank you so so much I appreciate it you’ve been really helpful

[dusk light]

Just change your dm settings

Then you won’t have to worry about it in other servers as well

[daring cliff]

Right but they act like they wanna be friends then switch up so fast

[dusk light]

You can also change it to a way where you block friend requests automatically and only you can send them

[dense birch]

There's zero reason to blame this on her, when the people are overreacting to friendliness. The amount of times this happened in servers to has been a cause of concern before

[dusk light]

I am not blaming at all

[dense birch]

Therefore we have also decided to try to put a stop to this

[dense birch]

You come across as such, there's also zero need for your input in this case

[daring cliff]

Thank you I just feel like it makes no sense I can’t have any male friendships without them hitting on me or thinking I’m trying to have a relationship with them

[dense birch]

It can happen of course, that people are just friendly but as soon as they overstop on boundaries you can report them as qurid said and we'll take the appropriate measures!

[dusk light]

I am just saying for her own convenience it would solve this issue so she wouldn’t have to go into every server feedback or report every time because it will eventually get exhausting. I’m only trying to help as I’ve been in a similar situation before