I'm starting the design of my new house and planning a HA setup for it. I'm mostly settled on running HA itself (virtualized either on Proxmox directly or via Kubevirt), but I'm not sure how to approach devices/connectivity concerns, especially lights and temperature/door sensors. I have a test setup in my current apartment using a mix of wifi and BThome, but reliability isn't great. At the same time there's a lot of wired options on a lot of protocols, and while HA can technically integrate with all of them, I'm wondering if others have had some concrete experience with some systems, what to avoid etc.
For example, I'm planning to run multiple ethernet cables to every room. At the same time, I guess that running lights to boxes is a better idea than running constant power to them. So there would need to be a mix of boxes that have a set of electricals and one ethernet connection, and then either I add a switch inside or use a singular control unit driving relays or dimmers via some more primitive bus interfaces.