I'm building a 7,000 square foot home with plans to have whole home audio (12 zones), whole home video (6 zones with TV, AVR, streaming devices like Roku, etc.), smart light switches throughout, hard-wired sensors (e.g. motion, door, window, water leak all tied to an Elk M1 Alarm Panel), at least 1 voice assistant per room/area (exact device still TBD but leaning towards FutureProofHome's SAT 1), 4 garage door sensors (most likely ratgdo), and lots of smart shades/HVAC control/temp/humidity/etc sensors. BTW - I built a similar home 10 years ago using Universal Device's IS994 home automation platform and it was nearly flawless.
Could anyone that has a large smart home (e.g. or home with hundreds of "entities") please share your experience running Home Assistant at scale and include what hardware HA is running on, how many entities do you have, and/or anything relevant?