Thank you for your suggestions. Yes, the clay is essentially a bunch of balls that store some moisture but would not be in real sensor contact.
The level of water is normally measured as really liquid water, i.e. there is a floating device with an indicator that gets lifted and shows the water level.
I thought about the tuya flood warners but I would have to place the sensor at the minimum level and have it be in constant warning mode. And when it drops below that level I will be informed.
But I would much prefer some kind of actual level sensor. So something that shows me (roughly) which level the water is at and from that I can also roughly predict when I will need to water again 🙂
I saw a few sensor boards that looked like they simply have multiple contacts spaced apart and depending on which sensor sees water it will indicate the level.
Buuut those sensors are really DIY and require me to print a case for the sensor, the esp and the batteries. So not ideal.