timing out instaintly when joining my server | PebbleHost | Page 1

i am trying to use the connectivity mod to increase the time i have to join/connect https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/connectivity

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Connectivity[Forge/Fabric]

Fix Login timeouts, Packet sizes errors, Payloads errors, ghostblocks and more.
51.8M Downloads | Mods

some server console logs showing how long im in the server for
05.08 11:48:03 [Server] Server thread/[INFO] [minecraft/MinecraftServer]: B3QV joined the game
05.08 11:48:03 [PebbleHost] B3QV ran command Message of the Day
05.08 11:48:03 [Server] Server thread/[INFO] [Jade/]: Syncing config to B3QV (b52cc325-eb6a-4127-845c-38e06dcb2e95)
05.08 11:48:58 [Disconnect] User B3QV has disconnected, reason: Disconnected
05.08 11:48:58 [Server] Server thread/[INFO] [minecraft/MinecraftServer]: B3QV left the game

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