Well @rugged ocean your search could be over!
Spirits of Arianwyn is a social clan with a fairly active chat around the clock. You're more than welcome to guest to our CC, or on discord. Many of our members have been around 10+ years so there is no shortage in game knowledge to help catch you up to speed and back into the game in no time!
Below is some clan info:
Spirits of Arianwyn 
We are a social & community oriented clan, with the primary goal of maintaining our strong community bond by facilitating a place where people can chat, hang out and have fun in a relaxed and respectful atmosphere. We don’t believe in strict requirements like mandatory attendance or capping. Ultimately, RuneScape is a game and we want our members to be able to play and have fun without added stress.
Our clan is based around an elf theme and is named after Arianwyn, the leader of the Rebel Elves.
It was founded in February 2010, which makes it 14 years old! Our structure and processes have been carefully crafted for well over a decade.
We host a variety of events every week. All of these are optional! We also have a Tier 7 Citadel, but capping is not mandatory.
Our clan is relaxed and does not have any strict requirements or mandatory events. Perfect for a flexible play schedule.
Our clan chat in-game and our Discord are active across all time-zones.
To check us out:
make your way over to our clan chat, "Spirits of Arianwyn" (open to guests)
and/or join us on our Discord https://discord.gg/soa-rs
If you are respectful, friendly, follow all RuneScape rules and enjoy having a great time with an awesome group of people (from all over the world!), SoA may be just what you're looking for.