I have really bad social anxiety and im really awkward, i can't think of what to talk about half of the time and i don't know what to say or do. I don't want to be seen as the "Weird girl who doesn't talk" so please, give me tips or sum. Im done hiding out and being the quiet introverted girl, I want to sing as a career, but it'll be pretty hard to do that if i can barely speak.
#Help me communicate more and better please
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ttm i'll help u
Okay
I can help too! I’ve found myself very nervous and shy going up on stage, and going somewhere to sing. I can give you some tips if you’d like them!
Yes please!
i will help
Hello! If you still need help or some tips, I’m available!
As corny as it sounds, be unapologetically authentic
When you look within and address unresolved feelings you’ll feel so much better and have a renewed sense of confidence letting go of the baggage
Feeling nervous is completely normal even with public speakers and world leaders/ celebrities. The trick is to simply acknowledge this and be present in the moment
By practicing a state of being you gain a sense of calmness where nothing can intimidate you
Thank you very much!
yeah being social is something you unfortunately have to practise
better to get your cringe out now than to be stuck with it later
Yeah
I‘m kinda extroverted, but let me tell you this:
Think about both perspectives. How would you receive yourself? And slowly you‘ll realise, you can’t go wrong with it
When you do something cringey in public, people will judge you and stare at you
But by tomorrow they will forget about it
People have too many worries in their life, let alone remember the cringey thing you did in public
Moral of the message is:
Don't give a fuck about what other people think about u, and just do u
Thank you for listening to my TEDtalk 🙏
Thank y'all! These tips actually really helped a lot and im starting to put myself out there more!
What are u gonna do with the tips that we gave u?
Use them and remember them
U my friend? 😇