Ever get annoyed when you partner dosent answer their phone?

[obsidian birch]

I hate this

[maiden vault]

Got 2 phones but don’t text back check my email!!!

[wheat walrus]

This is the most annoying thing to exist istg

[analog portal]

fr fr they take like 3 hours sometimes

[obsidian birch]

Mine will go a whole day without answering and be like oh i didnt see -_-

[analog portal]

samee -_-

[zealous charm]

Depends on the situation, if i know she is busy but I call her for whatever reason then its alright. If i know she is free, it irks me but its not enough to be actually upset

[obsidian birch]

No cause like most of the time for me he isnt even busy and dosent answer like boi -_-

[radiant plume]

Personally, not really. Sometimes people are busy or don't have the emotional energy to have a conversation or they feel overwhelmed by phone calls and prefer to text or talk face-to-face

As a nuerodivergent person, I really appreciate it when someone texts me first and say "hey can I call you at xx:xx? I just wanna talk about [topic]" because it allows to set expectations for the social experience, gives me time to prepare myself and it keeps me from the anxiety spiral of a sudden call thinking oh no what do they wanna talk about?

This may not be the same reasons your partner has ofc, but it's good to remember that not everything has to be taken personally and there are other perspectives to consider. The best course of action is probs speaking honestly with your partner and telling them that it bothers you when they don't pick up and ask them how you both can find a compromise that would suit you both

[zealous charm]

Perhaps he needs a little space. Do you text a lot?

Dont take my advice as anyting more than an stranger on the internet btw

all situations are different

[obsidian birch]

Its not that i give him tons of space he is either grounded busy or his phone is dead lol but yeah every time i give him space he'll come online and be like hey why arent you spamming me or why did you only message me hi yk i love your messages and attention......so yeah lol i do r try to give him space but he doesn't like space lmao thanks

[restive tapir]

No, cuz don't have one 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[willow oar]

Nope bcoz I know he’s busy.

[zealous charm]

I like relationships problems because im an amateur sleuth , and i think you need to be vulnerable yourself before asking someone to be vulnerable themselve.

[obsidian birch]

Yeah true lol

[violet temple]

who doesnt lol

[vapid coral]

Ugh yes

[violet temple]

hate when that happens and then they always say they didn't check it for months, like nah you decided to ghost me i see you typing to others on same site

[soft perch]

yea (i dont have a partner but i have a celebrity crush i try to call 24/7)

[red mirage]

I call God all the time. He answers when he wants to on his own time, not mine. Can I get an Amen?!