wary gulch
Via a phatom of chaos. The phatom activated sky scourge's effect, which would have destroyed 5 cards on my field, but I couldn't activate my starlight road. Also then it kept the attack after it was fiendish chained and I'm just overall confused.
https://duelingnexus.com/replay/d5e13f6a-8409-4f13-b4f3-13755509821d
normal charm
Norleras does not destroy cards, it sends them, thus will never allow you to activate Starlight Road in response.
As for why it kept the attack, heres the ruling of Phantom of Choas vs Skill Drain:
VS. "Skill Drain": If you use "Phantom of Chaos'" effect to copy the name, ATK, and effect(s) of a DARK monster and afterwards "Skill Drain" is activated, the copied effect(s) are negated, but the copied name and ATK are not negated. If you activate "Phantom of Chaos'" effect and "Skill Drain" is chained, the target is not removed from play, and the effect resolves negated.