Slide band question - custom message

[split pebble]

So.. how exactly do you get a custom message with the Slide bands?
You analyze your black vaalin band and sense that the creator has provided the following information:

This is a "slide ring", which can be bonded to another person. When you and the bonded person wear one of these rings, you each can trigger a custom message or memory to one another.
An abyssal black vaalin band inset with a scarlet veniom spinner is bonded to Chandrellia
The custom message for the band is not set.
An abyssal black vaalin band inset with a scarlet veniom spinner is of the bond-type a Significant Other.
The band is Tier 2 of 2. It has access to the following special verbs: Fidget, Flip**, Pinch, Ponder, Push, Raise*, Spin, Tickle, Thump, and Turn

does it need to be the merchant or can I use Sadie scroll or GALD merchant or something?

not sure which category so i picked three that technically this could fall under. any help would be appreciated. Thank you 🙂

edit: ps: already read https://gswiki.play.net/Slide_Ring and not seeing where / how to add the custom part (hence why I'm asking here)

[sacred tide]

Recently, there were some alterations on them offered at the premium fest

[next edge]

You have to get a merchant to add the memory.

[split pebble]

awww so can't with a Sadie scroll 😦 If you don't mind/when get a chance is there an example of a custom message or does somebody have one by chance so I can try to plan ahead? Thank you ❤️

[next edge]

Not all scars are so shallow as skin and bone, you realize as you fall into memories of battles passed. Heart swelling, eyes warming, you know that some sacrifices and pledges are soul deep.

You remember a stolen moment on the edge of the market, away from prying eyes and whispers.

A familiar scent catches your attention, and an avalanche of images cascades through your thoughts at the trigger.

As your thoughts drift into the past, a face coalesces, lips bent in a smile, eyes shimmering. Warmth stirs beneath your ribs, somewhere around the area of your heart.

Colorful pillows, each and every one of them stolen from various beds and chairs scattered across the floor of your childhood memories as you and your sibling tried to avoid the encroaching lava.

A familiar scent catches your attention, and an avalanche of images cascades through your thoughts at the trigger.

With a mix of nostalgia and longing, you trip over glimpses of remembrance from your childhood.

As you search your soul, a fluttering image dances through your mind. A small hand, yours, reaches out, and your heart touches first upon hope then relief as it is captured in a larger one.

Focusing inward, you feel a surge of accomplishment and pride as you recall the first time you felt confident you had replicated the mastery you'd been taught.

You beam with pride at a job well done, your memory of that moment swelling briefly in your chest.

Not all scars are so shallow as skin and bone, you realize as you fall into memories of battles passed. Heart swelling, eyes warming, you know that some sacrifices and pledges are soul deep.

Something in your chest grows tight as you recall years of shared glances, conversations had without a single word spoken, between two people devoted to each other. Not blood, but the family you chose and that chose you in turn.

Faces of long-lost friends and family stolen by time drift before your mind's eye like ghosts fading into mist.

These are default ones.

But you could do something like....