I'm trying to connect to my remote gateway as a node on my mac, through the macos menu bar companion app. Tailscale was configured independently. I am able to ssh into the vps through ssh.
Details:
Remote gateway
$ openclaw --version
2026.3.2
Local:
$openclaw status
Dashboard: http://127.0.0.1:18789/
OS: macos 26.3 (arm64) · node 25.6.1
Tailscale: off
Channel: stable (default)
Update: pnpm · npm latest 2026.3.2
Gateway: remote · wss://100.94.254.65:18789 (config gateway.remote.url) · unreachable (connect failed: connect ECONNREFUSED 100.94.254.65:18789)
Gateway service: LaunchAgent installed · not loaded · unknown
Node service: LaunchAgent not installed
Agents: 1 · no bootstrap files · sessions 2 · default main active 23h ago
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