Tldr (i can connect just fine from outside my home network and inside my network with tailscale turned off but i cannot connect reliably connect though tailscale while on my home wifi) (also i consider myself to be a newb at best. Im learninng and putting in the reasearch but this has flat stumped me i can find docs about this issue anywhere)
For this example we are going to use my instance of Grocy to test byt please understand that this is not app dependent. Immich, joplin, you name it same issue.
I have a laptop I am running ubuntu on.
It has tailscale on it. Not in docker. I put it on bare metal to try resolving this which obviously didnt work.
I have a reverse proxy pointed at 127.0.0.1:thePort for grocy.tail.mysite.party
I have a Cloudflare Website i bought
I have a DNS A record pointing at 100.x.x.x to *.tail.mysite.party
If im on my moblie data it works... seeming perfectly.
Hop onto the wifi.... it loads one maybe page, you click a button and maybe your lucky and it gets that one too... then it "site took to long" "site didnt respond.
I have a second DNS A Recod for ^.local.mysite.party
Its set up exactly the same except except it points at 198.×.×.×
As long as you are on the wifi it works
I need i need a site that works both locally and in the wild and instead i have 2 sites that work in their reslective place and im rather confused.
I was told it was a dns issue and that my devices needed set to look at 1.1.1.1 and 100.100.100.100. This seems to have worked in my mobile device (maybe) but my computer is still failing.
Am i asking it to do something its not supposed to? Is there something wrong with my istance of tail? How are there no docs about this?
Any help will be greatly appreciated. Thank you.