Can't connect to server (back to lobby)

[devout summit]

I cant join my own server (neither my friends) - bought one yesterday for miami location. Almost 30 tries already and always move us to main menu.

[patent kelp]

This started happening on our server last night. But only to me. I read somewhere here when Nitrado was actually responding to us. To try a new invite code or try using a vpn. I tried a vpn and started working for me. The lag was fukin brutal though but it was a work around